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writes:I recently got out of a relationship that I didn't want to end. The girl left me because she said we were fighting too much and she said she lost faith in me and was tired of giving me chances. The only thing we ever really fought about was what I felt was a lack of affection from her. She wasn't confident in herself which I felt was her reason for needing so much attention from other people. She felt stiffled and restrained although I only wanted the best for us and I tried to make her happy. I also believe that she lost attraction for me because I started acting soft. Instead of being confident and mysterious and charming like I was initially, I began to open up to her, cling to her, and I gave her anything she wanted. We go to school together but the summer is here and she lives in a different state. My question is, is there any hope for this situation and how do I win her back if there is? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you jaxwardle86 for your kind words.Thank you nologo for your very insightful distinction and advice.
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reader, nologo  +, writes (9 June 2007):
 Here is your situation: "Instead of being confident and mysterious and charming like I was initially, I began to open up to her, cling to her, and I gave her anything she wanted."Love and Affection are two feelings different from each other.She is not your type and she may hurt you if you win her back.
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reader, jaxwardle86  +, writes (9 June 2007):
 She sounds like she went off you and is using any excuse to get out of this relationship get over and move on you sound like a nice bloke I'm sure theres plenty of women out there looking for someone like you. sorry i couldn't be of any more help. tc Jax xxxxxxxx
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