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I have a hang up on my penis size due to what the ex said, should I mention this to my new girl ?

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Question - (8 June 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 8 June 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 22-25, djjazzyjeff writes:

Right, straight talking on penis size..

It's 4.75 inches in girth and length, - I was with my ex for four years and during this time we had some break ups, although she did never sleep with anyone else,she did get intermit with a guy with a "thicker" scholong, this was said to me in a really horrible way and I have had a hang up ever since. We always had a good sex life until a few months before we broke up.

I am just about to enter into a new realtionship with a fantastic girl, - should I share my feelings with her, - I dont wish to come across as scorned but it has had an affect, I have always been a very confident sexual person and because this girl means alot to me, I want to ensure I can give her a good time.

Any words possitive or negative would be apprectaied.

Cheers all

J

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2007):

dont listen to your ex its not the size of wot you got its wot you do with it. i know men think we say this just to be nice but its true. ive been out with two people with roughly the same lenght penis's and the one i'm with now is fantastic he makes me go all dizzy with pleasure and i lose feeling in my arms and hands and if anything the one im with now is smaller than the one before. spend time on fore play and oral too she'll think your a god trust me. if your ex ever says anything again just say its not your fault shes a bucket should be enough to put her in her place a girl will never want to hear that about herself :)

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A female reader, Dani28 Ireland +, writes (8 June 2007):

Hi,

Listen to me, you sound like a fantastic guy and what your ex has said to you is unforgivable, male pride is very important. You say this new girl is fantastic, i would sit her down and talk about it with her, explain exactly how you feel, if she's as fantastic as u say, everything will be fine. Another thing.... don't put so much emphasis on penetration, enjoy being intimate in other ways, penetration is overrated, it's the closeness and passion that counts.

Good luck xx

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A female reader, Ms_Iwal Ireland +, writes (8 June 2007):

I dont think Size matters its how you use it. after a while if you find out shes self concious about an intimate part of her body as most woman can be, cheer her up by mentioning you dont think your perfect either. As long as she enjoys it and you do to all will be fine.

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