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female
age
16-17,
Steely
writes:me n mi bf have been together nearly 2 years now, n ium so paraniod that hes bored of me. I went on the pill resently so we didnt have to worry about anything. But we hang about with a lot of ppl, a lot of girls n he opens up more n has a laugh with them more then he does with me , Should i be worried? i just want that spark back... wen we used to have fun n love been around 1 another. How do i get it back? please help me i love him so much .
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reader, Miss C + ♥, writes (9 June 2007):
 Firstly, tell him how you are feeling and ask him if his feelings for you have changed in any way recently. The spark is usually huge at the start of a relationship and it is very common that it dies down after a while so don't be worried about this. If you want to put the fun back into your relationship then do something out of the ordinary or spontaneous. You may both have great fun and it's worth it to try something new.
As for opening up more and having a laugh with other girls. You need to talk about this with your boyfriend. He may be doing this subconsciously and therefore does not realise the impact this has on you.
I hope this has helped in some way! Miss C
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