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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

It doesn't feel the same anymore...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 633 days ago

17 August 2006 (F) - Is this unusal? Before i lost my virginity i was fingered numerous times, and it was painful but felt good at the same time. After loosing my virginity it doesnt feel the same, and im not really interested in doing it anymore, but i dont know how to tell my mate about i... (124 words)

Continue with him or not???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 632 days ago

17 August 2006 (F) - To make this short basically there is this boy i have alot of feelings for, but my best friend also has feelings for him. lets say the boys name is Rob and my best friends name is Monica. I was talkin to Rob for a long time and then i got a boyfriend therefore i coul... (335 words)

Is she too attached to her dad???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 631 days ago

17 August 2006 (F) - Hi. I've been dating this lovely man for about two years now. However his adult daughter seems not to think much of me. She's been cold to me for as long as I've known her. On the other hand I'm wondering if my boyfriends relationship with his daughter is a little bit too ... (312 words)

How can I get over my confidence and rejection issues to ask her out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 598 days ago

17 August 2006 (M)

- Hey PPL! Well er here goes,last monday i started a new job and during the afternoon of our first day we went on a tour of the offices where we'll be working after training and there was a girl who worked there and well she was totally intoxicating,really pretty!,i never ac... (137 words)

Should I take him back or what???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 632 days ago

17 August 2006 (F) - I need some serious advice. Well, I broke up with my ex-boyfriend of 10 months about 3 and a half months ago and have been single since. There was a very complicated reason why we broke up. To sum it up i had alot of issues going on in my life, and basically he had many iss... (318 words)

Should I move on or wait for him???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 632 days ago

17 August 2006 (F) - Ok.. well i've been talking to this guy for about a year and a half, but we havent "technically" became more than friends. I had a boyfriend for about a year during the time we knew each other, but me and him always had a connection and had feelings for each other. He asked ... (317 words)

Is she leading me one????

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 632 days ago

17 August 2006 (M) - HELP ME! so confused...OK so me (24) and my GF (22) of 13 months broke up about 2.5 months ago. We had agreed to get married and promised each other so much while dating, so I was set on her. I am so still in love with her. Anyway, she gave the whole "not ready to settle"... (198 words)

Why are my orgasms different when I masturbate than during intercourse?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 633 days ago

17 August 2006 (F) - My orgasms are different with my bf to how they are when i masturbate. Is this normal? They're so much better when i do them myself even though he uses the exact same technique. Or is it just that I'm not actually having an orgasm with him? He does make me wet but i'm not sure ... (95 words)

My relationship is identical to my parent's!!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 633 days ago

17 August 2006 (F) - I'm a little freaked out because i've just realised that my relationship with my bf is exactly the same as my parents was. For example, we met when I was 15, he's my first serious relationship, he's an older guy, he's not liked by many people as he has 'social issues', he's ... (156 words)

Just friends or does she want sex???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 625 days ago

17 August 2006 (M) - I have recently been on holiday with my parents and my cousin came along with her parents too as our parents do get along. i am male and i am 18 and i admit that i do like her in more than just friends. A little background info is that she is actually my step cousin. Some peo... (565 words)

His mobile tells the tale and I'm worried he's cheating...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 633 days ago

17 August 2006 (F) - Me and my bf have been goin out for 9 months, but he is quite funny when it comes to his mobile phone, he never keeps it out, its always in his pocket and lately keeps it on vibrate. About 3 months ago, i found texts on his phone from another girl saying "we should meet up, ... (329 words)

I broke up with him and took him back but I don't love him....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 632 days ago

17 August 2006 (F) - I have just broken up with my boyfriend and feel completely terrible about it. I have never been the one to end my relationships, I have always been dumped and been through some awful lows as a result, and now to hear my boyfriend say the same things to me that I have said in ... (187 words)

How can I keep Thrush at bay!!?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 619 days ago

17 August 2006 (F) - Hi, This is a bit of an embarrasing problem, but I need help on how to get Thrush banished from my life! I get frequent bouts of it... My sexual health is okay ive been checked out.. I just seem to get rid of thrush and then a week later get it back, ive tried different... (184 words)

We have an arranged marriage and my husband has no respect for my parents. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

17 August 2006 (F) - we r indians who got arranged marriage.in our culture girls parents should giv all house hold items and gold to the pair.my parents did't do the household. This created a ego problem with my husband,parents and my parents.i asked my husband to giv up for me but he did't,st... (125 words)

Lost in the crowd

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 633 days ago

17 August 2006 (F) - hi i'm 15, whats wrong with me!?! I hate going round in a big group of friends and i go really quiet when i go down town and just hang out wiv a big group of people even if they are all my friends. But the wierd thing is i am great at talking to just 1 or 2 people. i love goin... (140 words)

calling all agony aunts

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 288 days ago

17 August 2006 (F) - right i know this is going to sound so strange but i really need someones advice/help. when i get upset about sumthing that i can't handle i tend to take it out on myself, whether its not eating, throwing up etc its just always seemed to help when i'm stressed out. however a ... (265 words)

Im only 19 and really want a baby, is this a wise thing to do ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 632 days ago

17 August 2006 (F)

- i have wanted a baby now for about 3 years and whilst going out with my boyfriend we had been trying for one however i just couldnt get pregnant. I was so into the idea for having a baby because now i feel that i am ready, even though im only 19. I have my own house, have a ... (240 words)

I thought "what happens at camp stays at camp"... but now I think I did the wrong thing :-(

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 632 days ago

17 August 2006 (F) - well, i cheated on my bf while i was at camp. it was for the last week, and i deffently dont have feelings for this guy anymore. me and my bf almost never get to see each other durring the summer, and its hard on me because i love him soo much. so while i was at camp, durring ... (294 words)

Any ideas how I can orgasm through penetrative sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 633 days ago

17 August 2006 (F)

- I find it really hard to have an orgasm when I have penetrative sex. In fact, I have only ever come once doing this. I find it hard to come at all in front of someone so this was the only time. I want to start getting out of sex what my partner does. Don't get me wrong, I ... (110 words)

My good friends are backing away from me because I don't look that cool. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 632 days ago

17 August 2006 (F) - i have a bunch of really good friends at school..im 15 by the way. But recently we are not that close anymore and they dont really want to go anywhere with me..i think it is because they want me to look a bit "cooler" in public ..please help! ... (48 words)

I am terrified of giving my bf a blowjob! What if my teeth get in the way? Tips needed.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 619 days ago

17 August 2006 (F) - hi there, im 17 and terrified of giving a guy a blow job because i dont have a clue what im doing, the man im with just now luckily enjoys pleasuring me but i want to give him something in return but am too scared. i get the courage to do it then when i come to doing it i ... (80 words)

He had an affair and hasnt broken off contact with her, what should I do ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 633 days ago

17 August 2006 (F) - my husband has had a affair which I have forgiven but he cannot seem to break off contact with her, advice please.... (22 words)

Should I feel guilty that I have to tell my bf I want to go and see my family? I fear he will flip out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 633 days ago

17 August 2006 (F)

- I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years and I am ment to be going back to my home country [Australia] for Christmas this year. The trip will be about 5 weeks in total and im not sure how my boyfriend will react when i tell him. I havent seen my family for over 2 ... (171 words)

After 2 year of dating-I find out he lied to me about having a son! Can I believe anything he says now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 633 days ago

17 August 2006 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 years now...and I asked him from the begining the usual questions that come to mind (do you have any children or have you ever been married, you would think those things should be told to you anyhow), but he always replied no to both. Well ... (152 words)

How do you tell a friend you've fallen in love with them without risking your friendship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 619 days ago

17 August 2006 (F) - How do you tell a friend you've fallen in love with them without risking your friendship? I'm too scared to say anything to a male friend of mine. We had feelings for each other since we were classmates in college, but I knew he was uncertain about dating a friend, so I put ... (154 words)

Do guys want to marry sexy women?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 265 days ago

17 August 2006 (F) - Hi there, This may seem a silly question but for some reason it has me worried! I am 25 year old blond female. Most guys I meet who get to know me always say I am very sexy. I don't know if this is a good thing or a bad thing. Do guys want to marry sexy women?? Yo... (82 words)

We have been together 2 years, hes just found his "lettesr box" but wont let me see.. I feel put out!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 633 days ago

17 August 2006 (F) - Hi there, I have been with my boyfriend for two years. He had four previous relationships, each only lasting 10 months, but pretty intense I think. The first of these, in particular, was very full on, although they were both young at the time ( it was ten years ago). T... (167 words)

After having kids I cant get in the mood for sex, how can I change this ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 633 days ago

17 August 2006 (F) - since having my two children i cant seem to get in the mood for sex. i have been with my partner for 5 years now and my kids are 1 and 4 it is realy putting preasure on my relationship we used to be in bed 24/7 and it was great but now he wants it 3 or 4 times a week but i dont ... (87 words)

My ex wants to remain friends for the time being and see how things go... how can I put things right ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 633 days ago

17 August 2006 (F)

- I wrote before about my ex. And i was just wondering what any of you people think i should do? My ex says he still wants to see me three times a week, but he wants to be friends for the time being and see how things go. He said we'll see how things are in two weeks. What do y... (187 words)

Im worried when he goes travelling he will find someone else....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 569 days ago

17 August 2006 (F) - hi, my boyfriend and i have been together for a year and a half and he is thinking of going travelling for over a year soon before he starts university as he is 26 years old and doesnt want to leave it too late. I have the option of joing him next may when my year from college ... (159 words)

He text the girl that he used to fancy, but lied, am I wrong to feel worried ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 630 days ago

17 August 2006 (F) - My boyfriend used to really fancy a girl before he went out with me. Although now he reassures me that I’m the one who he is completely devoted to – and I believe him. But I noticed that he still kept a message from her on his mobile. And just recently he randomly told me ... (132 words)

Is he having thoughts about dumping me ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 633 days ago

17 August 2006 (F) - Hiya, I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months now. It's my 1st relationship in some time and I really like him, however, maybe im a bit paranoid but recently he has been acting differently. He will only say I love you if I say I love you to him first, has become very quiet ... (163 words)

We have been together 5 years, she tells me her heart is with her ex husband and stays with me for security!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 633 days ago

17 August 2006 (M) - Her heart is with her ex husband,she says she is with me for security ,we have been together for 5 years and nothing has changed. She apparently stays on his couch once in a while when I am out of town. should I run or stay ?... (49 words)

He used to be my Teacher, but we are now really close, should I tell him I have feelings for him ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 632 days ago

17 August 2006 (F) - I need some advice. Im 17.. I had this teacher who was no doubt the most amazing guy ive ever met..I fell in love with him and still am. He always used to treat me so differently to everyone else. Me and him could talk for hours. He left the school so he's not my teacher ... (227 words)

Update on previous question:- "Advice from those having affairs"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 630 days ago

17 August 2006 (F) - On July 19 2006 I posted a question "Advice from those people having affairs please." Forgive me if it came across that i was looking for validation for what i was doing,that was not my intention.I know i made a choice(albeit most think it a bad choice) I have spent the ... (455 words)

At 16 I was raped-is this why I am not into sex with my bf?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 633 days ago

17 August 2006 (F) - ok.. i think i might be having a problem.. me and my boyfriend have been together for 1year and 5months and we have been living together for 7months and right now our sex life really isnt going anywhere.. he is all about sex but i have never been into it that much cuz when i ... (95 words)

Should I just kiss him first or wait until he makes the move?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 619 days ago

17 August 2006 (F)

- Alright....This Adam Guy asked me (finally) if I wanted to be his "girl." Well, I said yes, of course. It's been about 1 week and 3 days and he still hasn't kissed me?? Should I kiss him first. There has been about 2 or 3 times when It could've happend. Should I? or just wait?... (55 words)

Why does my boyfriend hate my ex? They've never met!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 633 days ago

17 August 2006 (F) - I am in a new relationship after being with my ex boyfriend for seven years. My new guy is a nice person except that he has a jealous streak and constantly makes nasty references to my ex...he has never met him and it bothers me. I still hold my ex boyfriend in good regard and ... (80 words)

Sweet ~22~ and never been kissed! How do I get guys to notice me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 619 days ago

17 August 2006 (F) - I'm already 22 years old, but until now I never had a boyfriend. I've got so many crushes. How can I get them notice me? please help... Thanks!... (28 words)

Caught him with his pants down, was it more to it?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 620 days ago

17 August 2006 (F)

- hi, my bf and i have been together 3 years, about 10months ago i saw my bf doing something which i have always qestioned in my mind. im 20 his 25. one day i was coming home afer school early , i opened our front door and walked in and saw my bf standing iwth is jeans down but... (221 words)

Unhappy and depressed, and scared of something,am I going Mad?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 619 days ago

17 August 2006 (F)

- Everything bores me. I feel unhappy and depressed constantly. I feel like there's nothing to look forward to in life and there is absolutely no point in life. I can't remember the last time I really enjoyed myself. ... (310 words)

I swallowed. How long does it stay in my body?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 633 days ago

17 August 2006 (F) - Hi im 18 years old in a good relationship. I was just wondering how long does semen (cum) stay in my body/ bloodstream after i swallow my bfs? Any replies gr8ly apreciated!!!!!! thanx... (33 words)

If move out my dad will suffer, its just getting to much for me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 619 days ago

17 August 2006 (M) - i am a gay man in his thirtys still saring a house with his father my boy friend asked me to look after his dog for a day but my father will not let it in the house he also will not exept that i am gay he can not keep the house with out the money he gets off me should i move ... (123 words)

How can I stop perspiring so bad...it's really embarassing!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 633 days ago

17 August 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, This may sound gross, but it's really been bothering me, and I was hoping that someone on this site would be able to help me out. One of my biggest problems is that I sweat. Now, I'm not talking about after gym class or cheerleading practice. I can be ... (231 words)

My BF wasn't answering his phone - was he with someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 634 days ago

17 August 2006 (F) - I probably sound paranoid but just need reassurance of that. A few days ago it was my b-day and my b/f calls me at a time when he knows i will be getting out of the train. He never calls me at that time. His cell isnt in perfect condition but he still gets calls etc. And i... (128 words)

My ex is moving back closer to me, should I tell him I want to get back together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 633 days ago

17 August 2006 (F)

- I'm really confused at the moment. My ex bf and I broke up about 8 months ago becuz he was moving back 2 his home state since he wasn't happy at our college. If it hadn't been for that, I know we would have stayed together for a while. Now he's going to be attending a really ... (126 words)