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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

We are both in a relationship but I really like this other guy - does he like me too?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 261 days ago

21 August 2006 (F) - I've always felt as though there is something between me and this man. I can read his body language towards me and I'm pretty sure he can read mine. But, I just need some kind of confirmation or someone to say I'm getting it all wrong. Whenever we talk, our bodies are so cl... (201 words)

I was clingy and paranoid so she ended it with me but she said there is a second chance in the future!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 630 days ago

21 August 2006 (M) - My girlfriend broke up with me for being clingy and paranoid every now and then, but i've stopped being clingy and paranoid now. After that I asked my her for a second chance to prove myself to her and she said that she DOES believe in second chances but says normally theres a ... (225 words)

Pete is AMAZING! Shall I go for it?

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 621 days ago

21 August 2006 (F) - Hi, uh, I'm new to this so bear with me. I'm 18, and I've got a friend named "Pete". Pete is seven years older than me (25). I've known him since I was 15 and he was 22. And nothing happened, trust me. We just became really close friends over the past three years. And I've ... (204 words)

For a year all it has been is sex with him but now I'm starting to like him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 629 days ago

21 August 2006 (F) - I'm seeing this guy but all it is is for sex. We have been seeing each other for a year now but i am starting to like him now. The problem is we have been on one proper date but i wanna know how to find out if he realy actually likes me or not. Please help!!!... (57 words)

I no longer like kissing my girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 630 days ago

21 August 2006 (M) - Why do i find kissing really tedious? I find kissing once or twice and pecking etc is fine, but i have started too dislike long snogging!! I'm really confused. Too begin with it was really great! But now after 9 months I only like kissing slightly. Even during sex, i st... (116 words)

Husband admitted having feelings for someone else!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 629 days ago

21 August 2006 (F) - my husband of 10 years has just told me he has feelings for another woman who he works with but there is nothing in it and just feels comfortable being with her. It has left me devastated and hurt. Please someone give me some advice... (45 words)

We were in a committed gay relationship for 9 years but now he doesn't feel the same love for me...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 620 days ago

21 August 2006 (M) - I am a gay male and have been in a committed relationship for the last 9 years. Even though I knew deep inside, my boyfriend just confirmed that he no longer feels the same love for me. He says we have grown apart and only considers me his best friend. He wants me in his ... (232 words)

Should I ask for this girl's number?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 624 days ago

21 August 2006 (M)

- This is gonna be kinda long. Ok I met up with a (girl) cousin of mine for a few drinks a couple of weeks back. She was in town with her work mates. I got on really well with one girl, we had a lot in common and there seemed to be a spark. We chatted most of the night and... (270 words)

Does he love me too, or is there something going on with my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 630 days ago

21 August 2006 (F) - About a month ago me and a close friend (female) were were dicussing a close friend (male) of mine that we had spoken to online earlier that night, who lives overseas. She mocked me at first, saying things like "You love him, he loves you!" and when I told her that it was n... (546 words)

Was the teacher hinting at something inappropriate?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 629 days ago

21 August 2006 (F) - A teacher at my school recently said 'fancy a job, (name)?' and then winked at me while smiling at me. One of my mates says thats really inappropriate... is it? I'm so confused :S... thanx xxxxxx... (36 words)

An incident in my past makes me freeze up when my boyfriend talks about us having sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 630 days ago

21 August 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now and lately he has started giving hints about when and if we should have sex. I freeze each time he mentions this because of what happened when I was 15. I have a sister who is 2 years older than (I'm now 19; she's 21 now) and... (185 words)

I'm happy with him but I don't feel like making love anymore. What's wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 630 days ago

21 August 2006 (F) - i have a boyfriend and we are extremely happy i enjoy sex and feel so close to him. However, these past weeks i never feel like makiing love anymore or giving him any pleasure without a push. It is like i just cant be bothered. this has happened with other partners in the past. ... (59 words)

Can I be pregnant even though I have 'not' missed a period?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 513 days ago

21 August 2006 (F) - Hey... I was just wondering if it is possible for me to be pregnant even although I haven't missed ah period? Thanks x... (23 words)

He's pushing me to find a new job but I'm trying to adjust to this new country! He's harsh..so how do I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 625 days ago

21 August 2006 (F) - Dear All I am 30 yr old woman married with a doctor. My husband is coming from another culture. I am turkish hes indian. We are living in Uk. I just came here 2 months ago. And trying to adjust my new life here. Since I came here hes eating my brain about finding a jo... (147 words)

I'm crazy about him but does he feel the same way about me or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 630 days ago

21 August 2006 (F) - dear cupid,i'm seventeen years old and very confused.there is this boy that i'm crazy about and at times i feel as if he feels the same way about me but then there are times when he keeps his distance.what does that mean?sincerely,angelbaby17... (42 words)

My bf is in jail and I cheated. Should I tell him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 630 days ago

21 August 2006 (F) - dear cupid im 17 and my boyfriend is in jail and i just met this guy and i really like him and i cheated on my boyfriend i`ve been tryna break uwith my boyfriend should i tell him that i cheated.... (41 words)

I' m a little unsure as to when I lost my virginity-does partial penetration count...or not??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 492 days ago

21 August 2006 (M) - I am a little unsure as to when I lost my virginity, sounds stupid but let me explain. At 22, I tried to have sex with a new girlfriend, she had a problem, vaginismus, which prevented full penetration. Although I did try and part of my penis did go in, but it was too painful ... (137 words)

I'm worried over my b/f leaving the area to be with his family...How do I deal with this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 628 days ago

21 August 2006 (F) - I am worried over my b/f leaving the area. His brother and wife will be moving to a new state. They have a 1 year old and a baby one on the way. My b/f is close with his family. The mother takes care of the grandchild a lot. When i speak to her she says I don't fly, i would ... (235 words)

what's a 69?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 628 days ago

21 August 2006 (F)

- dear cupid, im 15 and very naive can some one please tell me wat a 69er is??? thanks xxxx... (19 words)

He doesn't want sex..is it because of his mishapen penis? What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 630 days ago

21 August 2006 (F) - I'm 17 and I want to have sex with my 17 year old boyfriend but he doesn't want me going any where near his penis i found this strange and scared myself by thinking he doesn't have one, but later after walking in on him "accidently" on the toilet and well...it's (his penis) is ... (102 words)

I'm feeling claustrophobic

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 630 days ago

21 August 2006 (F) - this is really hard - i've been with my bf for four years now and we have just bought a house together, this in itself is freaking me out. this is the longest relationship i have been in and i'm starting to struggle, but he seems fine with everything. there are no specific... (99 words)

He drinks more now, how can I gat him to understand?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 628 days ago

21 August 2006 (F) - my boyfriend of 14 years has hardly ever come straight home after work he usually goes to the bar, he never even really communicated with me. he now drinks more and if it's possible talks less with me now. accusing me of having affairs. he states he is over 18 years old and ca... (106 words)

My bf doesn't want me to live with him and I find it hard on my own. How do I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 629 days ago

21 August 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together almost two years. We haved lived together but he couldn't handle someone being there all the time and wanted his space. He said that on occasion I did his head in (no one else has ever said this about me) so he wanted me to go. Reluctantly, ... (301 words)

I know he is a messer, is he using me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 629 days ago

21 August 2006 (F) - i went out with this boy for a short amount of time when he broke up wiht me. last week i went to see him and theres atill attraction because he kissed me. i liked it. he says he still likes me but i dunno if to trust him. is he just using me? yeterday i had to leave him ... (115 words)

She is 20 year older, I am attracted but I don't want a relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 629 days ago

21 August 2006 (M) - I have for some time been attracted to my nextdoor neighbour, she is 20 years older than me but is divorced how can i approach her without offending her i am not looking for a relationship i just want to tell her that i have been attracted to her for 15 years... (52 words)

How can I build trust that has been lost?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 629 days ago

21 August 2006 (F) - my boyfriend and i just broke up because we've been dealing with trust issues; dealing with my past. there are some things i am not ready to tell him... he is giving me a chance to prove to him that he can trust me.. but only as friends.. what are some ways to start building ... (60 words)

I need lubricants and know how to apply

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 630 days ago

21 August 2006 (F)

- where can u get lubricants? and how do you apply?... (10 words)

We hadnt been in contact for years, we now chat most days, I really like her, but not sure how to proceed ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 626 days ago

21 August 2006 (M) - hey...i came out of a 3 yr relationship on the 22nd july and im only 19, all thats ok now im trying to move on and just partying away!... but ive recently been talking to a girl i no,but havent been in contact with her for years until about 3 weeks ago and since then weve ... (295 words)

Im concerned over splitting with my man, he will try and win me back, what shall I do ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 630 days ago

21 August 2006 (F) - Hi I am planning on splitting with my boyfriend tonight. He is nearly 27 I am 25. We both live at home have been together nearly 4 years. We broke up as we both kissed other people while on holiday with friends. Got back together 3 mths later and everything was great now he ... (248 words)

My Stepdad is a right horrible so and so.. Mum says she may leave, but it would be my fault!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 630 days ago

21 August 2006 (F)

- My parents split up when I was five years old and it was just me, my twin sister and my mum, left to our own devices. Anyway, when we were 12, Mum remarried a seemingly decent older man and they absolutely adored each other. 5 years have passed since then and it is absolute... (323 words)

How can I work balance between uni and a social life ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 630 days ago

21 August 2006 (F)

- so, I will be starting university next month and i am scared I will overdose on freedom!!I have never had freedom before, not in the slightest and because I will be living in halls, life will be so different to living at home where I am not allowed to date, to go out in the e... (126 words)

Been with my Fiancee 7 years, also been seeing a guy at work for a year, not sure what to do ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 628 days ago

21 August 2006 (F) - I have a problem not sure what to do. Im 25 and Ive been with my fiance for 7 years now and recently been disagreeing with most things - petty things mainly. I do love him in my own way but been seeing this other guy from work for about 1 yr now and i enjoy his comapany - i ... (121 words)

Is cheating ok so long as he doesn't find out?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 630 days ago

21 August 2006 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for 4 yrs, he is 27, I am 22. Three months ago I slept with some one else, so I split up with him, but didnt tell him why and he still doesnt know. We got back together three weeks ago, in the meantime, I had slept with 5 other people w... (143 words)

How do you build trust in a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 630 days ago

21 August 2006 (F) - hiya i am just wondering how i can build trust with my boyfriend because no matter how much i want to i just cant trust him he hasnt done anything to make me not trust him. its because my parents left me when i was younger and i think this might have something to do with it. we ... (109 words)

Why did he "wither"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 630 days ago

21 August 2006 (F) - Here it is, I have known this guy for a couple of years, hes is younger than me. Last year we were, i guess you could say, "sex buddies" as it suited us both. However, he started seeing someone and things ended. Thing is, the last few months we have grown closer (close enough ... (215 words)

I love her as a friend but she wants more... How do I make myself clear without breaking her heart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 556 days ago

21 August 2006 (M) - Right this is my situation, I'm very good friends with a girl basically she's my best friend, emotionally we are very great, but physically I am not attracted to her at all, plus I'm not looking for a relationship. She came out of a long term relationship a year ago, and si... (232 words)

How best to deal with a less than average lover's penis?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 630 days ago

21 August 2006 (F) - I have been seeing a wonderful guy!He is caring sensitive and great company!!he makes me feel beautiful! Our only problem as such is that he is quite "small" (4in fully errect)(about there are times when it gets difficult for him to stay inside me no matter what position... (101 words)

Does he want me... or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 627 days ago

21 August 2006 (F) - Right ive been seeing this guy for about 5 months, things are really complicated however, ive just come out of a 5 year marriage (no affair, i met my new bloke after) Well anyway everything was going great, we spent a weekend together then nothing. I didnt hear anything for a ... (166 words)

Would he lie?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 630 days ago

21 August 2006 (F) - hi--i have been with my b/f for longer than a year. We already agreed a long time ago no single vacations--meaning no trips away like say to mexico to just be drinking all weekend and with friends without the S/O. He has agreed to it and sees why i am uncomfortable with ... (187 words)

Do other people interlock fingers during sex?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 627 days ago

21 August 2006 (F) - I recently slept with a male friend of mine (we aren't going to be dating, just messing around) but I've never had sex before this and was wondering if it's normal for a guy to hold your hands during sex. He was on top, and kept interlocking his fingers with mine. It was kind ... (79 words)

How do I let a girl know about my feelings for her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 631 days ago

21 August 2006 (M) - I fancy a girl in my form. I'm 13 but I just don't know how to let her know that I love her.... (23 words)

I can't stand to be Just Friends with my ex. It's doing my head in. So how do I tell her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 630 days ago

21 August 2006 (M) - OK so here's the situation: I realized I need some space from my ex who broke up with me but promised there's a definite chance for us in the future. I've been trying for 2 months now, but it's just way too stressful being around her now and I can't be her friend right now. ... (97 words)

We've agreed to wait six more years until we date. Can our love last that long?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 603 days ago

21 August 2006 (F) - I'm 12 years old and in love with an 17 year old. We love each other very much and we are very open with each other. We both have said that we will not go out with each other until I am 18, which is in a very long time! Can we still love each other without going out?... (61 words)

My BF can't remember one drunken party -- and now a woman is claiming he's the father of her child!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 630 days ago

21 August 2006 (F) - OK so in trying to do some research on how others may have handled this situation, I came across this site. Seems like a good outlet for someone like myself so I figured I would try... To get right to it, me (28) and my boyfriend (31) of 4 months, who is asolutel... (811 words)