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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

I'm in love but this girl just wants to be friends. How do I stop loving her

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 63 days ago

16 August 2006 (M) - I'm pretty sure im in love with this girl, and she is the most amazing person iv ever met - I dont think ill ever meet anyone like her again. She isnt interested in being more than a friend with me, and i dont know how to stop lovin her.. I never stop thinkin about her. What do ... (60 words)

I am confused by what my ex-fiancee wants!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 635 days ago

16 August 2006 (M) - I wrote before about my problem with my fiancee. We split up and now she wants to start over as best mates (who dont snog or do anything with anyone else) and see if we make it to the same stage again. I am now very confused as she does not yet know if she wants to be with ... (96 words)

I had a miscarriage, will this harm my body and can I have future children?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 633 days ago

16 August 2006 (F) - Hi, I had a miscarriage the other day and i am just interested if anybody knows if it harms my body in anyway or even damages my eggs at all?... (30 words)

He left me for this other girl, came back to me, then left me for her again! Why?!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 633 days ago

16 August 2006 (F)

- Our relationship was so perfect and other couples were so envious because we were so good together. But one day when we went to a house party my boyfriend got chatting to this other girl and from then on our troubles started. I found out that he had met her in secret behind m... (358 words)

Embarrasing anal sex question..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 634 days ago

16 August 2006 (F)

- My b/f has a habit of putting his finger up my bum when we are having sex, (eek) but - wait for it - it makes me 'fart' - and on his finger, too..I'm mortified about this, is it normal? Also, when we have anal sex, he slips out, and I don't know, but it feels as if I have ... (72 words)

I was with her for 7 years, I made a mistake, we broke up, still friends - when should I start seeing someone else?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 630 days ago

16 August 2006 (M)

- My girlfriend and I broke up in December and remained somewhat friends. We still hung out and did things together. We even kissed and held hands while we were out together. When I asked her what it is that we are doing or why is she leading me on she said that everything is ... (211 words)

My GF is moving away and I really don't want her to!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 634 days ago

16 August 2006 (M) - ok im 14 and me and this girl have been going out for 2 months, but because of her past relationship with her mom and her experiences she has to move with her dad in New York. Right now we both live in Moorestown and we are both from new york. The way we met and the ordeals we ... (141 words)

I want to hook up with his brother coz he's more intellectual and good looking!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 634 days ago

16 August 2006 (F) - I've been with my bf for 4 months. he has never set my world alight but is a nice dependable and funny guy and I thought I would have a stab at being a sensible adult for once and see if love blossomed. It hasn't. Yet for some reason I have hung in there and over the passed few ... (235 words)

My gay best friend keeps trying to touch and kiss me! Is he bi?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 635 days ago

16 August 2006 (F) - Okay, this is an embarassing question for me to ask because I really like to think that I know better. My best friend is a gay guy. He has sex with guys (quite often), but he has also told me he's curious about what it would be like to be with a girl although he would never do... (285 words)

I feel second-choice to everything else in my girlfriend's life!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 635 days ago

16 August 2006 (M) - In the last three days my girlfriend has been unfair, in my opinion. I was with her Monday evening and she got a phone call from her dad at half 9ish and she said she had to go home to see her cousin who she hadn't seen in a year and because she had bought her some clothes.... (225 words)

After a year with my BF, I feel butterflies for someone at work!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 634 days ago

16 August 2006 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for over a year now and recently iI'e made a new bunch friends at work who are great. I've been out with them a few times - there's one guy that really makes me smile and gives me butterflies when I think about him!! I really don't know what to do ... (60 words)

Had sex and now I'm experiencing tenderness in my lower abdomen. Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 635 days ago

16 August 2006 (F)

- Yesterday, I had sex. It was long, and very passionate and at points- rough, but today, my thighs are tender to touch and my lower abdomen is again tender to touch. The thighs I can explain but the pain in my lower abdomen I can't. Can anyone help please?... (53 words)

I'm on the pill, 3 weeks on 1 week off. Can I get pregnant having sex, on the week I don't take the pill?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 634 days ago

16 August 2006 (F) - I'm on the pill to help with my painful periods but i am now also using it as contraception. With my pill you take it for 3 weeks then get a week off. What i want to know is if you have unprotected sex on that week off do you have the same chance of getting pregnant as you do ... (71 words)

I have a flap of skin protruding out of my butt...is this normal??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 635 days ago

16 August 2006 (F) - This is a little embarrassing but for as long as i can remember i've had this wierd flap of skin protruding out of my butt. I'm 16 and i noticed it when i was about 10, thought it was unusual but chose to ignore it because i assumed it was probably normal and i just didn't know ... (101 words)

How do you stop sex farts, you know those sounds when air gets trapped? Any tips?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 635 days ago

16 August 2006 (F) - Does anyone know how to prevent those embarrassing noises during sex that are made when air gets trapped? You know, that sounds like farting (sorry to be vulgar).... (28 words)

How to suss a cheater?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 635 days ago

16 August 2006 (F) - Do you think counting condoms are a clear way to find out if someone is cheating..find one or two missing. is that a clear and definite sign that a person should break up...or other signs are better ways to see-such as how affectionate, excuses, not wanting to me as often etc ... (52 words)

sweet 15

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 634 days ago

16 August 2006 (F)

- Dear cupid, can anyone help me. i know this might seen slighty naive but i hav'nt ever had that much to do with boys for saying i am 15. And i don't realy know about turns them on can anyone help me? and i don't really know anything about how to give head or any sexual ... (65 words)

My weakness hurt him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 634 days ago

16 August 2006 (F) - i was in a relationship for about a year and it was so perfect.. before i met this guy i had no self asteem at all and i ended up cheating on him at the beginning. through our relationship i never told him but i decided to tell him anyways cuz i wanted to spend the rest of my ... (101 words)

Never been kissed

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 624 days ago

16 August 2006 (F)

- dear cupid,im 15 and i am a virgin and i was windering if people think its still late to a be a virgin, also i have never done anything to snog a boy is this unusal for girls my age?. can any one let me know what they think plz thnx xxx... (52 words)

A Family Affair

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 634 days ago

16 August 2006 (F)

- im in love with my cousin, please help... (8 words)

Will our parents interfere?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 635 days ago

16 August 2006 (F) - I like this guy and my friend this he likes me. We have great fun when we get together. He has never made a move on me and I have never made a move on him. We both have baggage and are both very shy about getting involved. I have been giving him space to think about wh... (168 words)

My ex can't get over me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 635 days ago

16 August 2006 (F)

- hey guys have a problem... im 16 and in a relationship with a perfect guy...but my ex is triing to split us up by making me feel bad about dumping him (for a perfectly good reason) he keeps saying that it would have been forever and that we were ment to be and stuff like tha... (127 words)

Now normal is it for dad to perve at his daughters?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 66 days ago

16 August 2006 (F) - hi, i'm 15. almost fully grown. is it normal for your own dad to look at their daughters bums or legs or boobs? cos i go and get a drink and i turn round to where my dad is, on the sofa and hes looking at my bum. i saw my mates dad look at her bum aswell. is this normal? cos... (101 words)

Why do men want threesomes?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

16 August 2006 (F) - first question: why do men want threesomes? second question: why would they want a threesome while they r already in a relationship with someone they love?... (27 words)

I dont want to have to tell the new guy about "my situation" until im settled, how should I handle this ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 635 days ago

16 August 2006 (F) - I have a conundrum. My long term boyfriend and I broke up a month and a half ago. We lived together, and I am staying elsewhere until our lease is up at the end of Sept. After that I will get my own place, etc. It was coming for a while, not a bad breakup (mutual), we are ... (211 words)

Shes a single mom of one of my students, should I let this stop me asking her out ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 634 days ago

16 August 2006 (M) - I would really like to ask this woman out, but I am hesitating because of the circumstances. I am a teacher at a martial arts academy, and she is the single mom of one of my students. There are a lot of teachers at the academy, so it's not like I'm the primary contact for her ... (137 words)

We are in a very open relationship, but he gets constantly jealous about his friends how do we overcome this ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 630 days ago

16 August 2006 (F) - I have lived with my boyfriend for 3 years, we where friends for about 10 years. In our past relationships we where both cheated on, he developed jealousy I did not. We are polyamorous, and can openly check out other people or bring them home with 100% full communication, no ... (98 words)

Over the last 10 years together I have constantly cheated!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 635 days ago

16 August 2006 (F) - I have been with my partner for 10 years and we have 2 kids. The problem is I can't seem to stay faithful. Over the last 10 years I have cheated on him on numerous occaisions. I dont know why I do it, cause I actually really love him. He left one time when he found out about ... (197 words)

Coming of age!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 634 days ago

16 August 2006 (M)

- I am a guy coming up to 30, yet have never had an orgasm. I have been in relationships since my early teens and have always (almost always) brought the female to orgasm, be it through masturbation, oral sex or intercourse. Are guys supposed to orgasm? What is a male orgasm like... (53 words)

Mums the word

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 635 days ago

16 August 2006 (F) - Hi everyone - I really don't know if this sort of question fits on this website, but I'm not sure where else to turn that I won't get a biased answer (my mom makes me feel guilty about every decision I make - long story - so I don't want to ask her for help and my husband says ... (442 words)

Hes still seeing the ex and is VERY much in contact! Should I stay or walk away ?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 635 days ago

16 August 2006 (F) - I have known my partner as a friend for 4 years. We became an item on New Years Eve then at the end of January he called it off to go back to his ex. he was back in feb and we gave it another go. We were happy and got engaged in June, then went through a bad patch as I had cold ... (247 words)

Am I right in thinking that a threesome would ruin us?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 631 days ago

16 August 2006 (F) - is a 3 sum out of the question??? my boyfriend has recently admitted he wants to see me with another girl, at 1st i was unsure but sed i would consider it. now he says he wants a 3 sum where he can join in. this has made me insecure as i feel i am not good enough, i would ... (126 words)

Am I just being Paranoid about him wanting to meet his ex for a drink ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 635 days ago

16 August 2006 (F) - am i being paranoid? before i met my boyfriend he was engaged to a girl, he has told me that he never loved her and that it he loves me very much. the other day he was wearing his engagement ring on his wedding finger, i told him that as he was with me i diddnt want hi t... (123 words)

How do I get rid of my stretch marks??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 285 days ago

16 August 2006 (F)

- dear cupid, My problem is that i am 15 years old and i have strectch marks on my thighs and boobs. i am not very fat at all they have been there for bout 6 months now why have i got them and how can i gt rid of them ??? please some one help me!!! ... (58 words)

Can we get back our sex life naturally ? or is it too late for us ?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 634 days ago

16 August 2006 (F) - Im really concerned that there is no way back for me and my man. We have been together for 3 years are in our 30's and just lately all we do is argue over sex. I feel unwanted and not sexy and he says its me thats feeling that way and thats not how it is... we hardly have sex ... (638 words)

Ladies:- Being a toned guy would it be better to wear Briefs or boxers ?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 632 days ago

16 August 2006 (M) - Lady's. im am an athletic build and my whole body is toned. would wearing briefs turn a girl off or would boxers be the best option?... (26 words)

I am too nice! Girls just lead me on and I'm sick of the game!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 635 days ago

16 August 2006 (M) - I am 34 years old who split up with a girl 4 years ago. She walked out for somebody else. This left me hurt for a while but i have managed to move on. Now i don't go in for full on chatting up women and trying to be the amateur comedian up but ask questions about themselv... (307 words)

I feel like his mistress, but I'm stuck here! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 636 days ago

16 August 2006 (F) - Hi, 3 years ago I met a guy in turkey when i was doing some research there. I stayed at his house but with in a relationship at the time so nothing happened although there was an attraction. We became friends and saw each other every year when I visited. This june I went alone ... (471 words)

How many chances can one person get?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 635 days ago

16 August 2006 (F)

- How many chances should you give to someone you love? If they mess up and you forgive them, won't that teach them that their bad behavior will be forgiven? How can you let them know it's not okay without breaking up with them, and ensuring that it won't happen again?... (50 words)

My girlfriend thinks I am a control-freak, but I'm only making sure she's okay!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 462 days ago

16 August 2006 (M) - Am i being over possesive ? My Girlfriend/ ex girlfriend (current status unknown) tells me that i am a control freak and over possesive. It seams that my calling her during the day is causing this. I understand that basicly i should just stop calling her, so no problems ther... (282 words)

Is there still hope for me and my love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 633 days ago

16 August 2006 (F)

- PLEASE help! This is a very complicated, frustrating, and confusing situation. I'll try to keep it as brief as possible. What I want to know is, is there still hope for me and my love? We have been together for a year. The first nine months or so were wonderful, we spent a... (432 words)

How can I stop these petty fights?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 635 days ago

16 August 2006 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are constantly arguing these days. Its nothing major, usually a spat that lasts 10 minutes and its always petty but its really making both of us fed up and im scared it will finally push him away. Im trying to not saying anything when they start so as not to ... (222 words)

How can I help my girlfriend climax during sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 635 days ago

16 August 2006 (M) - Im having a bit of a sexual problem with my girlfriend at the mo. During sex, she cannot feel me inside her. We both have put this down to my penis being too small or her being to wide and deep. I normally have to stimulate her with my fingers or mouth to get her senses going ... (166 words)

I like my new boyfriend, but everyone wants me back with the ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 636 days ago

16 August 2006 (F) - Need any advice quick because my family don't want to know about my situation. Went with a guy for couple of years and he was my first love so obviously it was really special but he didn't treat me the best because he was drinking alot and out with mates at uni. After the ... (318 words)

My ex wants to meet up, im scared to in case Im developing feelings for him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 635 days ago

16 August 2006 (F)

- i havent been with my bf long but we get on really well and i have strong feelings for him already. Recently me and a ex bf have been talking and we met up last night and he kept talking about when we used to go out. He later text me and told me that he likes the idea of goin... (124 words)

I would like some of my own space, how can I tell her that without hurting or losing her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 636 days ago

16 August 2006 (M) - My fiancee of 1 year seems to want to spend every minute of the day with me, everyday. I enjoy spending time with her but it seems like she dont want to do anything else only wanting to be with me. How can i have my own space, but still spend time with her? How do I tell her I ... (321 words)

Two days left? What does this mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 635 days ago

16 August 2006 (F) - my fella has told me that we only have 2 days left of our relationship!! why has he given a deadline? what does this mean? im risking everything for him and now we only have 2 days left together!! i am so confused as i love him so much! i do i love him more than anything! ... (66 words)

Should I fake it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 635 days ago

16 August 2006 (F) - I've started seeing a new guy and things are going great and I think pretty soon we will have sex. My problem is that I've only been with one other guy (I'm 20) and in that 2 years we were together I never had an orgasm, through intercourse, oral or fingering. I enjoy sex ... (100 words)

He's scared of commitment but he gave me a diamond! I'm confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 634 days ago

16 August 2006 (F) - My boyfriend is scared of relationships and commitment but he got me a diamond ring for our 8 month aniversary. He says it's just a gift, and only means he loves me and nothing more. We are only 20. Could the meaning of the ring have a any other meaning?... (50 words)

He's scared of commitment but he gave me a diamond! I'm confused!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 622 days ago

We broke up and I still love her and am still sleeping with her!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 633 days ago

16 August 2006 (M) - please ladies help me I going crazy. Me and my ex girlfriend were together 4 about a year. After 2 months of being broken up and no contact she called me out of the blue and we hung out one night and had sex with each other. It's been about a week now and we have been seeing ... (202 words)

He wants me to spend every second with him! It's too much!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 635 days ago

16 August 2006 (F) - My boyfriend of 10 months seems to want to spend every second with me, everyday. I enjoy spending time with him but it seems like we dont do anything, we just hang out. How can i have my own space, but still spend time with him? And how do i tell him i need some time to ... (62 words)

How do I tell him I need some time to myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 634 days ago

Age difference is creating problems with starting a family

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 628 days ago

16 August 2006 (F) - I am a 22 year old girl, in a serious relationship with a 32 year old man. We have been together for 3 1/2 years and broght a house together 18 months ago. Everything is going well but I now have growing concerns about our age difference... We both want children. But WH... (149 words)

I need help speaking to guys I think are hot!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 635 days ago

16 August 2006 (F) - Hello guys, I know this must be a common problem, I'm 19 years old, at uni (waiting for resit results), and get very shy when i come into contact with guys I instantly find attractive. I blush alot, and worry about blushing thats probably what triggers it, this is what hol... (194 words)

Married 23 years and hubby wants a threesome! Should I do it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 635 days ago

16 August 2006 (F) - Ive been married for 23 years and now my husband wants to have sex with me and another girl he says he would like to watch us suck each others pussy and then have sex with each as the other helps should I or should this be a no no ... (51 words)

My new guy was perfect but I went back to my bad tempered ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 635 days ago

16 August 2006 (F) - i need help! im 19....right been with my current boyfriend 3 years hes 19,but we have split up a few times in the last 9 months! whilst we were apart i got with some1 new hes 22... he was evrythink my bf wasnt,everythink iv ever wished 4 infact! he treated me like i was a ... (315 words)

Why am I always the one to spice things up with my hubby?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 39 days ago

16 August 2006 (F) - Here I am married 10 years and trying to make the best of a romantically starved marriage. I am not one to throw out my dirty laundry among friends and family -- so I thought I would throw my true thoughts out there to whoever is interested in anonymous cyberland. Maybe along ... (280 words)