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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

Need help in getting over my ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

10 August 2006 (F) - How do I get over someone I dumped 4 weeks ago? We'd only been seeing each other for 3 months but he became lazy and dismissive and closed quite quickly, and I got angry with him all the time. However, the sexual attraction was incredible at first and this is what I can't get ... (89 words)

A long ago kiss between friends that she brought back up! What are her reasons for doing so?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 641 days ago

10 August 2006 (M) - I was talking to to a girl a couple of days ago and she brought up the subject of a kiss that happened ages ago between us, and we just pretended it didnt happen and carried on with our friendship. I asked her why she brought it up and she gave me a reason, which wasn't very ... (117 words)

When is the right time to start the 'sexual' stuff?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 641 days ago

10 August 2006 (F) - How long should you be going out with someone before you start doing "stuff"? e.g. giving head and being fingered?... (21 words)

The boy I like is giving me mixed signals! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 640 days ago

10 August 2006 (F) - Help: I recently went out with this boy about a month ago when we split after a week. I still think and dream about him and really like him. He says he has a girlfriend now and it hurts inside but he asked me out again which is giving me mixed signals. I never see him with ... (74 words)

How do I talk to my crush without sounding like an idiot?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 395 days ago

10 August 2006 (F) - There is this guy i have a MAJOR crush on.. and i am going to be seeing him today at a rodeo event thing.. How do i get a conversation going without sounding like a total idiot? How will i know if he likes me?... and any other advice you could give would be Great!! :D... (59 words)

Thoughts on an Anxiety Hotline needed!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 640 days ago

10 August 2006 (F) - I have posted here about starting a hotline; being a panic attack advisor to help anyone suffering from anxiety. Anyone would be able to ring even if suffering a panic attack at the time (even if unable to talk) and they would receive support, reassurance and understanding. It ... (95 words)

BF on vacation for a week and I can't stop thinking about him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 640 days ago

10 August 2006 (F) - My bf left on vacation on august 7th and is coming home on august 16th. I know its not that long but I love him so much and i miss him so much and i don't know what to do to make myself feel better and not think about it that much. I haven't slept that much since he left!... (60 words)

Did he 'pop my cherry'?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 640 days ago

10 August 2006 (F) - My bf fingered me and i think he popped my cherry but I'm not sure if he did cause it was bleeding a little so I'm not sure...... (28 words)

He's making me a wreck! Any suggestions on what I can do to stop being treated like a doormat?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 641 days ago

10 August 2006 (F) - i wrote earlier on under the heading my partner visits chat rooms.why is he looking elsewhere.i failed to say that he has also recently recieved explicit text messages from a women and again denied all knowledge.i know in my heart what i should do but feel trapped by ... (119 words)

I'm 30, I'm shy, I'm boring and have had only 2 bf's.i, in my past. I want to find love but not sure if I should go for it. Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 641 days ago

10 August 2006 (F) - I admit it i am a sad boring cow. I am 30 years and have only had 2 boyfriends. I am very shy and it takes me a while to warm up to people, i have never been interested in getting drunk in a pub or club and much prefer a good book! I work with a lot of men but most are married ... (116 words)

After dating just over a month, my bf claims to love me! I'm not so sure..what do you all think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 640 days ago

10 August 2006 (F) - im 14 and im going out with a 17 year old guy and we been going out for a month and a week and on are month anevirsery he told me he loved me and i love him 2 well i think he really does love me but im not sure do u think it could be love since we have been going out for a ... (70 words)

He finds me mysterious and interesting-is this a normal thing for a guy friend to say?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 641 days ago

10 August 2006 (F) - hello im friends with a guy who out of the blue told me he wanted to know everything about me, and finds me a mystery and interesting. i told him no one knows everything about me, not even my best girlfriend and he was just quiet. have i hurt his feelings? also, should i be ... (74 words)

We were friends-with-benefits for 3 days before she admitted she's decided to become a dominatrix! Now she won't return my calls...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 641 days ago

10 August 2006 (M) - I had a big crush on a woman about ten years ago. We had a good friendship and she contacted me intermittently over the passing years while we went our separate ways. She contacted me most recently and we started hanging out again. Things went really well and we spent lots ... (386 words)

How can I make my first time with my new boyfriend memorable

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 640 days ago

10 August 2006 (F) - I'm about to have sex with my new boyfriend for the first time. Neither of us are virgins, but we are both quite nervous. Any tips how to make our first time memorable?... (33 words)

Is it too soon after being raped to date?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 603 days ago

10 August 2006 (F) - Hello i wrote in before about my friend not helping me in my time or need (i was raped n needed her to go to court but she wont) anyways like i met this guy i fancy and he gave me his number today and said can he take me out for dinner soon he is a bit older than me but not ... (118 words)

I want to ask her out...Even though my friends say she's out of my league.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 641 days ago

10 August 2006 (?) - There is a girl i know that I have found attractive for a long time even while i fancied another girl. Anyway even though we haven't spoken that often she has approached me several times when i looked down and helped me cheer up. Soon enough i couldn't get her out of my mind ... (147 words)

How do you cure premature ejaculation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 641 days ago

10 August 2006 (M) - i have not been in a relationship for over three years and have been celibate ever since apart from masturbation. i have had many opportunities but am to afraid as i have not got the courage as i suffer from premature ejaculation. all journals i have read about the squeeze ... (92 words)

Why are my parents treating me like this???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 641 days ago

10 August 2006 (M) - What to do about parents. They refuse to see who I am and constantly tell what I can and can't do. They won't listen to what I have to say, they think that they know everything and that they are always right. They treat me like an idiot especially in my relationship. My ... (295 words)

Am I right for being upset he looks at porn?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 640 days ago

10 August 2006 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend over three years hes cheated on me before and let me down many times promising to change and not sticking to it, hes realy nice to me nicer than any other guy i know and our relationship has been great for a while. he recently promised me he never lo... (89 words)

He stopped, looked at me and smiled. Does it mean what I hope it means?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 641 days ago

10 August 2006 (F) - There is this guy i kind know... and really like! I was out of town taking pictures at a rodeo event (approx. 3hrs from where i live) and lo and behold i see him across the street. My parents were with me but i was walking ahead of them. They stopped to talk to his dad, aka... (129 words)

Having feelings for my neighbor and we are both married!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 637 days ago

10 August 2006 (F) - I'm married and I do love my husband,but there's a man that lives next door to me that I have been attracted to for a few years and just in the past months I have felt as though I would like for there to be more, I get vibes from him that he's interested but he too is married. ... (88 words)

Because I'm working overseas, I thought we should take a break. Good idea, or bad?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 639 days ago

10 August 2006 (F) - Hi there My boyfriend and I are 'on a break' 'broken up' whatever the logistical difference is. We still care for each other a lot. We are very close and have spent more time together than anyone I've dated in the past even though these past relationships were much longer... (411 words)

My boyfriend is very controlling and its getting worse!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 445 days ago

10 August 2006 (F) - This is kinda long; but i really need advice and help. i have a boyfriend and i've been with him for about a year and two months. He's always been so controlling and jealous since day one. But now i've noticed it has gotten worse. I am madly in love with him and I would neve... (235 words)

What age do you know?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 639 days ago

10 August 2006 (M) - When is a person/what age is a person ready for a true, intimate, maybe life-long relationship?... (16 words)

Six guys are 'in love' with me! How do I tell them all..I don't feel the same way?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 641 days ago

10 August 2006 (F) - When I'm first in a relationship I find many things that i have in common with the person and get really involved and when they say I love you I say it back (i usully feel i do) but after awhile i quit feeling that way and then i get annoyed or suffocated and begin making ... (150 words)

Guys I date turn me on for awhile..then I get 'turned off' quickly! Is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 640 days ago

10 August 2006 (F) - is there something wrong with me? whenever i get involved with a guy he can turn me on like hell for a while but after a while what he does loses its affect and does little to nothing for me when it used to do loads. Is there something wrong with me or is this what happens to ... (102 words)

Why don't I feel sensitivity during sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 641 days ago

10 August 2006 (M) - Hi there, I have a problem while having sex with sensitivity. I almost feel nothing during sex but i can keep an erection up to the end. Do i have a problem? The only time i feel sensitivity when am about to come. My partner enjoys from start to finish, why can't i feel the... (59 words)

How can I put my pride aside?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 640 days ago

10 August 2006 (F) - How do I Put my pride aside n have sex with a boy ive been spending alot of time with lately?. Im 18, hes 20. I'm horny but I dont want him 2 think i'm easy! He has alredy asked me 2 b his girlfriend but I sed i didnt wanna rush things. Wot Should I do? I'm confused. HELP!... (60 words)

We have a long distance relationship, so how do I tell for sure, he doesn't have a gf?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 641 days ago

10 August 2006 (F) - I got to know a guy two months ago. He is far away from me. How can i tell whether he has a girl friend back there? He always insisted me to go to visit him. Time is too short for us. I want to know his true feelings. I got my heart broken a few times before and it is hurts ... (73 words)

Shes 18 im 17, shes had more partners and it gets to me, how can I be less concerned over it ?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 641 days ago

10 August 2006 (M) - My girlfriend is 18, I'm 17. I like her a great deal and would do anything to stay with her, but something that I keep being reminded of is the fact that I know I'm at least her sixth sexual partner. I'm not worried about diseases or anything, but the idea of her having sex ... (87 words)

He refuses to drop contact with the girl he had "one off" sex with saying I have nothing to fear, what should I do ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 641 days ago

10 August 2006 (F) - I started dating my guy back in November,when we met he had a girlfriend but eventually he left her completely.Though we have an age difference he has always gotten along with my family.The problems started about6 months ago when I noticed a mysterious number in his phone,when ... (609 words)

He decided to get engaged to her after only a week, but we were so in love, now he wants to be friends!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 641 days ago

10 August 2006 (F)

- My bf of 1.5 years broke up with me, and got himself engaged to a woman of his parents choice in a week's time... he met this woman and in two days time he decided he wanted to marry her and got engaged in a week. My life has been very, very lonely without him... I miss hi... (141 words)

Why would he not rise to the occasion, even though he wants sex ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 641 days ago

10 August 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost a month now but have been friends for over two years. We started to have sex not long ago and it's great. We make love almost everyday and it's amazing. But there's the occasional "He's in the mood but he won't get hard" and he ... (133 words)

Sex is not good for us, even though he does try, how can I make it more pleasurable for me ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 641 days ago

10 August 2006 (F)

- My boyfriend doesn't satisfy me in bed. I've had some problems with sex and have had counselling for them. The short version is, I spent my sexual life trying to please others and not me. Since I've been sorting myself out and trying to get something from sex for me, I've rea... (130 words)

We have only been together 7 weeks but hes a "bad boy" should I give him more time or move on ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 641 days ago

10 August 2006 (F) - I've been dating my bf now fr 7 weeks which i know isn't very long, but things have moved soo fast between us that after 3 days he told me he loved me! i love him so much but he never tells me anything i always have to find out the simplest of things from others and hes the one ... (160 words)

Engagement concerns related to moving

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 641 days ago

10 August 2006 (F) - I want to get engaged to my wonderful partner of 8Yrs. The problem is I want us as a couple to move across the country. He says he is willing to move, but he says it just seems so far away from his family and friends. His parents are very backward and I would even say that the... (224 words)

I dreamed I kissed a man at work and my BF doesnt know

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 641 days ago

10 August 2006 (F) - my bf and i have nearly been together for a year, i love him and he loves me but recently i've had dreams about another guy i work with which involved kissing but nothing more. i dont even like the guy in that way but now i'm obsessing over it all and dont understand why. my bf ... (86 words)

Is our love strong enough???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 641 days ago

10 August 2006 (F) - Hi, i have sent in this problem at its earlier levels before, but now it has progresses i have left the country that my boyfriend lives in, we both have different religions. and it is very difficult for us both. we stay in contact by messenger emails messages and phone in every ... (139 words)

So was it good for you? err no!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 641 days ago

10 August 2006 (F) - I have ben going out with my boyfriend 2years and im 17 we have had sex and he tells me that it s=is really good for him but it does nothing for me!!??? is there sumthink wrong with me????... (39 words)

I am having an affair and I don't know why he is doing it

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 641 days ago

10 August 2006 (F) - i started this affair with this guy 8 years younger than me,he lives with his partner and 2 kids i asked him why he was doing it but he wont give me a answer,there was some guilt on his part so i said lets end it because of this but he still wants to see me.thing is i think he ... (108 words)

He's been on dating lines, and I really dont know why he is looking elsewhere!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 641 days ago

10 August 2006 (F) - I have been with my partner for 5 years and have three kids one of only 4 weeks and discovered he has been on dating lines for our area.he has done similar things before but never admits anything and makes me in the wrong for not trusting him.i dont know how much more i can ... (98 words)

Could I be pregnant if I come on my period?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 641 days ago

10 August 2006 (F) - I think I might be pregnant but if I come on my period after doing things does this mean for certain I am not pregnant or do I still need to take a pregnancy test?... (35 words)

I've got this crush on a guy I'm never going to see again... what should I do ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 641 days ago

10 August 2006 (F) - I have a crush on this really cute guy and we started to get closer and closer, but he moved away and now I'll never see him again. The worst part is that he was with someone else. He told me that before he left and now i'm mad plz help... What should i do?? ... (59 words)

The girl my BF cheated with works with us both!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 633 days ago

10 August 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I work together. Two years ago he cheated on me with a girl at work who the left. We got back together and now she is back here working with us. I can't help but feel insecure. How do I get over it and move on? He said he does not have anything to do with her. ... (66 words)

I just get the feeling off him he only wants me for sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 642 days ago

10 August 2006 (F)

- I’m 18 have been single two years coz I’ve found it hard to find a nice trustworthy guy. My friend introduced me to this guy three months ago hes 24. He really liked me so she gave him my msn and we spoke on line a lot. And we often text each other. He soooo nice to me…he... (273 words)

Am I still a virgin ...or not?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 630 days ago

10 August 2006 (M) - when I was 16 me and a male friend of mine had sex with each other and i've been told that means i'm not a virgin anymore but i've also been told that i am so my question is am I still a virgin ?... (45 words)

Men have Viagra..anything out there for women?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 641 days ago

10 August 2006 (M) - Dear cupid What is on the market to enhance a womens sex drive? Men have viagra.What about women?Is it hormone shots.I have herd of some creams.There has to be something out there.Men have a high level of testosterone can women take it to?I simply think if my wife were to take ... (181 words)