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Archived questions from: 9 August, 2006 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

My BF talks to his ex and she wants to meet me so why am I so jealous?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 204 days ago

9 August 2006 (F) - I just found out that my boyfriend has been talking to his ex on the phone at work. I saw her number on his cell phone. She does not live in the area and he says she has called a few times to chat and he has called her a couple of times. He also said she always asks how I am ... (117 words)

I want kids now but he says another 3 years! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 642 days ago

9 August 2006 (F) - Two years before my husband and I got married we discused trying to have children after being married a year. Now that we have been married a year he keeps saying that he's not ready and pushes it back further...now he tells me in three more years. I really want to start trying ... (65 words)

Been together 2 years but we just seem to fight all the time!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 641 days ago

9 August 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for about 2 years now, we have our ups and down like every body else, however lately we are fighting so much. We love each other so much, and I am living abroad cause I'm a student so i have my stressed life. We share everything but when it comes ... (256 words)

I know he's gun shy about relationships right now...should I worry that he hasn't contacted me in 2 weeks?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 641 days ago

9 August 2006 (F) - I am a shy 1 and find romance and dating really scary. I like this guy but i think he doesn't like me that way. A few weeks ago it was my birthday he rang up and wished me a happy birthday, we were talking mentioned i was going into London with my friend he said maybe he could ... (251 words)

I kissed my dads best friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 630 days ago

9 August 2006 (F) - Is it ok to kiss and flirt with your Dads best friend? And be Jealous when he finds a real girl friend?... (22 words)

He said he doesn't want anything to do with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 641 days ago

9 August 2006 (F)

- He says he doesnt want anything to do with me plz help! Sometimes he says things like this and doesnt mean them but this time it sounds serious. I sent him a email expalining some things. He mailed me back being mean and said...I dont want anything to do with you! What should I ... (57 words)

We are with different people now but are still sleeping together & he says he still loves me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 642 days ago

9 August 2006 (F) - dear cupid. I was seeing my boyfriend for over a year. During around our ten months i find out he cheated on me 2 months after i gave him my virginity many times with the same woman. After that i went crazy. I slept with two of his best friends! I forgave him and he forgave me. ... (131 words)

Can long-distance work? Even long-distance like another country?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 641 days ago

9 August 2006 (M) - My Sister who introduced me to her friends by giving me thier phone numbers. Her friend live abroad and I contacted them and arranged to go and see them. It went really well. I did a bit of sightseeing while getting to know them. I really like one of them but have only be... (97 words)

We're friends and I want more. So does he, I think, but it's so awkward!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 641 days ago

9 August 2006 (F)

- I've known this boy, *James*, for nearly three years now and we've been very flirty in the past but nothing serious. But for the past year I've really fancied James and I dont know how he feels about me because he's always giving me mixed messages. I told him how I felt a f... (184 words)

If we wait until next year to date, when my girl's away at uni, can it work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 642 days ago

9 August 2006 (M) - I'm only right out of high school, so bear with the question. I was in a relationship recently, which went very well. There was only one problem, the girl's parents. They hated me, and due to this ended up tearing her apart until she finally decided it was best to break up... (217 words)

He broke off with me, but I miss him desperately. Should I get back in contact?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 642 days ago

9 August 2006 (F) - Hi, I really need some advice. Recently my bf of 2 years was treating me badly and got me so upset I had to walk out on him in an argument. It's strange for him because he was so nice and good to me usually. I didn't hear from him in a while and when he finally got in touch he... (234 words)

Are sex stories just as bad as looking at porn ?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 641 days ago

9 August 2006 (M)

- I know that a lot of women are uncomfortable about their partner looking at porn, but is men reading sex stories just as bad?... (24 words)

There are 2 woman interested in me, I'm thinking of dating both at the same time until I know which one I want!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 642 days ago

9 August 2006 (M) - I've been single for a couple of years and wasn't thinking much about dating. Now I have 2 women that are interested in me and both "relationships" are about at the same place. Woman 1 is at work, she is tall and thin and beautiful. She is Indian (India) from Trinidad, lo... (255 words)

He wants time to sort out his head... but cant promise we will get back together..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 632 days ago

9 August 2006 (F) - Im in a bit of a mess to say the least. Ive been seeing someone for 4 and a half months and after a stupid argument at the weekend he says he needs time to sort his head out. Maybe in the future we can sort things out but he cant make no promises. Ive realised i love him more ... (106 words)

Is it possible to still get pregnant if you dont have any mishaps with a condom ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 642 days ago

9 August 2006 (F)

- My period is 3 weeks late and this is unusual for me. I've had all the symptoms of 'coming on' for about 2 weeks now (sore boobs, needing the toilet 24/7 and being really moody etc) but still no period!! My boyfriend thinks I might be pregnant but we've been careful and have... (93 words)

I realise hes now not the one, but how do I break it gently!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 642 days ago

9 August 2006 (F) - I have been living with my boyfriend for a year and a half. After a lot of soul searching, I realize that he is not "the one" for me. In fact, I have been hanging onto the relationship, thinking that it's okay for now, but not what I want long-term. I made a huge mistake b... (150 words)

My self esteem is a little low, and I now need tips for girl on top!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 642 days ago

9 August 2006 (F) - Okay. I am embarrassed to post, but here goes. Okay, I was married and now divorced. My ex did things to hurt me very badly. He lowered my self esteem extremely. After lots of work, I am a pretty confident person except for one thing. When I am having sex with my ... (129 words)

How to get on with my life after a marriage breakup

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 642 days ago

9 August 2006 (F)

- I am getting a divorce from my husband. We have 2 sons aged 27 and 34. I left 3 years ago, but have kept in (kind of) friendly contact with my ex, even to the point of inviting him around for Xmas dinner for the past 2 yrs, as he would have been on his own - he has no close re... (404 words)

How many times do I forgive him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 641 days ago

9 August 2006 (M) - Please advice - My partner is keeping secrets from me, and I need to know - does not matter how bad. Forgiveness will be given because we have a connection.... (32 words)

Worried about his ex, what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 642 days ago

9 August 2006 (F) - Hello, I've been in a relationship for about 3 months. I like my boyfriend, but he still goes to his x-girlfriend's house and few times he spent the whole night with her! She is few years older than him and she has a 16 year old son. My boy friend says they are just friend ... (345 words)

Worried about sex, love and all that stuff!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 642 days ago

9 August 2006 (M) - I've met this girl but she says she looks for a certain qualities in guys. i match all the qualities accept 1, i am inexperienced. the thing is, im one of those guys that want to have sex for all the right reasons, not jus for fun. I would like to lose my virginty to this girl ... (99 words)

Breaking up confusion...should I stay with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 642 days ago

9 August 2006 (F)

- My boyfriend broke up with me because he says he is going through a hard time right now with his past childhood experiences, the death of his mother, etc. He still wants to remain friends and I want the same thing. I have to go and get my stuff next week from his house and he ... (104 words)

Has she really got a boyfriend or did she lie because she was scared ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 641 days ago

9 August 2006 (M) - Hi i'm 20 and I have a problem, about 2 months ago a friend of mine told me that her little sister (who is 16) fancyed me and wouldn't go down to the pub that night if I didn't go with her, so I gave her a call and asked her if this was true and she said yes so later that night ... (267 words)

I want to propose, but in a really nice and special way!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 633 days ago

9 August 2006 (M)

- I am considering proposing to my girlfriend and want some advice on how to do it and also the ring. We have been together three years, lived together for over two, and have a 8 month old baby. Any ideas on a good way to propose, something romantic is what i am after. We liv... (198 words)

When I was trying to get her back she couldnt care less... now though shes texting me and showing an interest... what is she doing!?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 633 days ago

9 August 2006 (M)

- This is the situation. My ex broke up with me and I was devastated. I tried to get her back and she said she didn't want a relationship right now as she didn't trust me. So in my mind and heart I let her go. Since I let her go and live the life she said she so wanted, she ... (197 words)

My heart is breaking for the 2nd time!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 641 days ago

9 August 2006 (F) - i wrote to this site a little while ago about how my partner was telling me that he didnt want me anymore and how he didnt love me, after i had finally stopped begging him he said he wanted me back and that he wouldnt hurt me again. well i got some very good advice about not ... (556 words)

We broke up, first I was relieved, then he wanted to get back, I didnt but I do now and now he doesnt want to!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 642 days ago

9 August 2006 (F) - My boyfriend of two years broke it off with me a couple of weeks ago. At first i was relieved because we had been arguing so much and he was extremely jealous and wouldn't allow me to do things i wanted to. However, now i'm having regrets. He text me after we split saying he ... (147 words)

Im really worried that my past lies will wind me up in trouble with my girl!!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 642 days ago

9 August 2006 (M) - Hi, I have been seeing my gf for over 6 months now. We love each other to bits and are really happy together. However in my first year of Collage (months before I met my current gf) a girl stayed over in my room. We didnt really do anything, maybe kissed and thats all. ... (611 words)

He masturbates over Page 3 and its really upsetting me!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 642 days ago

9 August 2006 (F) - My boyf of 3 1/2 years is driving me mad! In the past Ive caught him lookin at Page 3 about to masterbate whilst he thought I was asleep. Ive caught him looking at it on the internet and during an argument about it he admitted the evening before he had masterbated whilst ... (208 words)

I'm only 14, I'm in a serious relationship, problem is he has kissed girl!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 641 days ago

9 August 2006 (F) - I am only 14, but i am in a serious realtionship to a guy i lost my virginity to, but yesterday i found out he kissed another girl, but it was in a game of truth or dare, and he is really sorry, i told him to delete their numbers off his phone but he is really protective over ... (81 words)

Im having my partners baby, but Im still madly in love with my first childs father!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 642 days ago

9 August 2006 (F) - I love my partner that im with and having his baby but im still madly in love with my first childs father what should i do ?... (27 words)

We grew real close I thought we could be together, but Now I fear I have pushed him away!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 642 days ago

9 August 2006 (F) - Feel empty and alone - hope someone can help! I have been friends with this guy for nearly two years now but in the last 12 months grew closer and closer as I have been through quite a rough 12 months and he has been there for me. Im 32 and he is 24. He knows how I feel and ... (393 words)

My wife only seems interested in herself and what she does.. is this right ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 642 days ago

9 August 2006 (M) - My wife seems to have her own agenda in life, I don’t know how to explain it , but it is like she is heading a different road to the one that I believe should be our road of success. she is a successful women with the very good earning, I always believe married life should be ... (318 words)

My wife really really needs help, but I cant get her to see it!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 642 days ago

9 August 2006 (M) - My wife needs professional help but she cant see this yet everything to her is a problem me the children the house she is in bad form all the time and we constantly argue last week she threatened to kill herself and our son if i went to the shop she even put the pills in her ... (170 words)

How can I make our sex life more of a priority again ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 641 days ago

9 August 2006 (F) - I have a problem with my sex life with my partner. He wants it less than me despite him saying he has a higher sex drive. Basically he doesnt put precedence on our sex life anymore and it drives me crackers. We do have sex but its few and far between and normally when he ... (685 words)

He says that the dating site is just for laughs... should I accept this ?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 636 days ago

9 August 2006 (F) - my boyfriend is still on a singles dateing site he told me when we first got together that he deleted his profile of there and just by chance i found out otherwise, he said that he is window shopping and only having a laugh!! should i except this??... (48 words)

There's so much stress in my relationship. How do I vent?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 642 days ago

9 August 2006 (F)

- Now it's my turn to ask for advice. I'm in love with a man, he's only 2 years and 11 months older than me, but at this age that can make a difference in experience. He's been in serious relationships before, I haven't. Actually, I avoided them due to past experiences. He h... (309 words)

My 18-year-old fiancee never wants to make love any more! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 642 days ago

9 August 2006 (M) - Hi I'm 21 and just got engaged to my 18 yr old gf. We have been with each other over a year and we love each other loads, and have been through a lot with each other. At first sex was great, but now has completely died down, which I know happens in most relationships but ... (143 words)

I'm 26, engaged, and can't see past my need for instant gratification - do I need to grow up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 643 days ago

9 August 2006 (M) - Hi All, Please help! i have been in a relationship since 3.5 years now and things were going absolutely fine uptill some time back. i care for her the most and can do anything to keep her happy. the girl loves me more than enough and wud die to get me in her life. she make... (315 words)

My boyfriend has a thing for ethnic girls, but I am not, and he's trying to change me into one

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 642 days ago

9 August 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. I love him and know that he loves me. The issue I face is that he is really into ethnic/exotic looking girls. I am the complete opposite. I'm fair skinned with light hair and light eyes. Everytime he points out ... (216 words)

I'm 16, said yes to the boy's proposal, so what was I thinking?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 642 days ago

9 August 2006 (F) - ello, i'm 16 and i had this friend that wouldnt stop asking me out and after 6 months of him asking me to date him he took me to a hockey game and acted completly different then he did in school so i finaly gave in and desided to give him a chance well after dating him for t... (172 words)

How do I get my man to last longer than FIVE seconds?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 177 days ago

9 August 2006 (F) - I don't entirely know how to ask this, or if it is at all possible. But is there any way i can make my man last longer in bed. Last night he lasted all of 5 seconds, i love him to death but i was wondering if there is anything that i can do to prolong it?... (57 words)

Still desperately hoping beyond hope that my ex returns my feelings for him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 642 days ago

9 August 2006 (F) - My ex and I dated for 3 months and broke up 19 days ago. Things were going great, with the exception of his ex-girlfriend manipulating her way back into his life. I found out that he cheated on me with her and so I broke up with him. He denied (and still does) that anything ... (430 words)

I'm trying to deny that my fiance is trustworthy when he hooked up with girls online

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 642 days ago

9 August 2006 (F) - So i've been with my fiance for about a year and a half and we've had an off and on long distance relationship because he's from the states up until about 3 months ago when we moved in together. The other day he had left his email page signed in by accident and so i took a peek ... (223 words)

I'm jealous and afraid she'll drift away from me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 642 days ago

9 August 2006 (F) - My friend lied to me last night. She is supposed to be living here and she had a job so she was like ok i will get done at 5:30 or 6 every day so we can hang out i mean since she is living here and all and she always told me she would never pick a guy over a friend but she... (504 words)

I have problems achieving orgasm with my fiancee and he's becoming upset with me! Someone, please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 642 days ago

9 August 2006 (F) - I'm at the end of my tether at the moment,me and my fiance have been together three years (I am his first sexual partner). Even though I fancy my fiancee very much, I cant come during sex with him, I can orgasm when I masturbate, however it takes me along time to (sometim... (110 words)

Ladies, tell me why you would want to have sex with a man who looks at porn and gets horny over other women?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 610 days ago

9 August 2006 (F) - It is totally incredible to me that some women will still want to have sex with a man who uses porn. Ladies doesn't this make you sick? Why would you want to have sex with a man whos gets horny over other women? I dont understand. To the arguement that 'he comes home to me... (236 words)

He moves away from me when we our skin touches. Why is he doing this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 642 days ago

9 August 2006 (F) - i've been married for two years, everything has been like a honeymoon since we got married but now just our skin touching or my hand on his hand and he moves away just the simple touch and he moves .why?... (40 words)