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Archived questions from: 28 August, 2006 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

I love him but he says he will never go out with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 621 days ago

28 August 2006 (F) - i love my best friend and he knows but he fools around and teases me because i love him. he says he will never go out with me because im 3 grades lower than him. please help i really love him,... (41 words)

I was raped and I cant talk about it

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 621 days ago

28 August 2006 (F) - i am very self concious since i was raped even more than i was before and that was alot i find it very hard to sleep because wen i manage to sleep i only get bout 2 hours if that sumtimes i get less than 30 mins i dont eat because i cant it makes me thro up everything i do now ... (153 words)

I am so scared that another girl is going to take him away

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 621 days ago

28 August 2006 (F) - I have been with my bf for alittle over a year now. Just recently he decided that he wanted to cool things off and be single for awhile. Things are great between us. I knew that going into this relationship he was suppose to have time to himself before we got serious. But we ... (193 words)

I'm wondering if he enjoys the flattery while still maintaining his singledom

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 622 days ago

28 August 2006 (F) - I was texting a guy for 6 months because he wanted to get to know me before meeting, we have a few mutual friends. Then I started dating a guy I had known for a few years and after 3 weeks he told me he loved me and wanted to be with me forever and it was all too intense, but ... (222 words)

I'm miserable and don't know how to be happy! Can anyone help?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 621 days ago

28 August 2006 (M)

- I always feel miserable. Everyone around me is having a great time and always happy, and I'm always miserable. I can't smile because I always look like an idiot when I do, but I don't know what has caused it but I don't know how to be happy. Can anyone help?... (53 words)

Ideas needed for my bf's 23 rd birthday. Something romantic (non-sexual) and not too intense.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 309 days ago

28 August 2006 (F) - Would appreciate any suggestions of something really special I could do for my boyfriend's 23rd birthday (non sexual cos we aren't there yet!) in a few months. Something romantic and sweet (not involving vast sums of money as we both don't have much) that he won't forget, but ... (57 words)

She flirts with me-her bf doesn't bothered by it-should I ask her out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 301 days ago

28 August 2006 (M)

- hello. i'm 31 my problem is i have very strong feelings for a lady i know. my friend has told her friend i've got a thing for her. whenever i see her she's all smiles and readily talks. on one occasion her friends left the pub and came back later for her as we were talking so ... (187 words)

Is he really getting married or was he lying?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 614 days ago

28 August 2006 (F) - A guy that I care about recently told me he was getting married it was only me and him around, he told me his wedding date but when I asked him her name or who she was he didn't tell me. Why is that? Is he really getting married or lying, should I ask him if he's really ... (61 words)

I really want to make it work, On the other hand I don’t want to be a doormat

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 621 days ago

28 August 2006 (F) - My male friend and I (he’s nearly 23, me nearly 31) are getting ourselves in a confused state with one another and need some help. We both really like/fancy each other like crazy. He has asked me to be his girlfriend but I am a little wary of a few things:- One of them ... (1011 words)

I want him but he's falling for his new gf. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 621 days ago

28 August 2006 (F) - Right, I met this lad. we will call him lad a. me n lad a went out for a while till i found out he had a gf. we split up but then got back together till i slept with some other lad. We then split up again but then got back together. then we were both going on holiday n he broke ... (146 words)

Any Sheffielders? Say "hi"

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 618 days ago

28 August 2006 (M)

- Just curious if anyone else is from Sheffield, England? xx... (13 words)

My father molested my daughter when she was small. I kept quiet and now..I feel like i should've done something more.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 621 days ago

28 August 2006 (F) - I didnt grow up with my father since he separated from my mum long when we were kids but still we had a good relationship with our father especially after mum passed away. I had a bad marriage since my husband was violent and physically abused me and my daughter so i left and... (213 words)

I'm cheating on my boyfriend but don't want to throw my relationship away!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 196 days ago

28 August 2006 (F) - i been going out with a guy for four years and im faling out of love i dont want to throw something away for nothing but i am willing to sacrifise.,im messing around with a guy from work who i do like alot.But not sure if he feels the same way about me.Iwas going to ask him but ... (91 words)

I'm 14. How do I tell him I don't want to go further?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 614 days ago

28 August 2006 (F)

- ok well ive been gd m8s with this boy 4 about a year now and 2 days ago we started seeing each other. I really like him but hes 16 and im 14 and I know he will want to go further with me and I dont know how to tell him how much i like him but not want to go further with him ... (75 words)

Her parents won't let me see her any more after they heard us foolin' around!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 621 days ago

28 August 2006 (M) - My girlfriends parents wont let her see me anymore. Her mum and dad let me stay over with no hassle and even let me stay in the same bed as her, when i did we fooled around a bit but i made sure we didnt have sex as it would be too loud. However her mum heard us fooling around ... (132 words)

Any Ideas to reduce in growing hairs ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 621 days ago

28 August 2006 (F)

- Hi, Does anyone have any easy treatments for ingrowing hairs ? My man shaves every other day to try and eradicate so many, but just lately hes getting quite a few and no matter what he tries he still gets ingrowing hairs around the neck area. He has tried shaving ever... (101 words)

I'm in love with him but what shall I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 621 days ago

28 August 2006 (F) - what shall i do? im in love with this boy i met on camp hes was one of the leaders and hes my m8ts brother.Hes 18 and going 2 cambridge university and after my mates party i will never see him again its really strange because i keep having these dreams about camp and flash ba... (128 words)

Relationship concerns! Do I dump him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 622 days ago

28 August 2006 (F) - Hello :) Me and boyfriend are in a long distance relationship, He lives in Nottingham/Leicster and I live in Portsmouth, I have trust issues with him and cant seem to trust him, although hes never cheated before on me or anyone. So I have no reason to. Im very clingy to him and ... (297 words)

Relationship problems! (long post)

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 621 days ago

28 August 2006 (M) - Hi everyone, One week ago all hell broke loose for me and my life. My, now ex, fiance drank a bit to much on friends birthday party and cheated on me. It was nothing to big (she kissed a guy) becouse they ware in the dark (for full 3 mins) and when she spoked my name he came ... (1607 words)

What do I wear to my homecoming do? "Red Carpet" is the theme. Any ideas?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 621 days ago

28 August 2006 (M) - Homecoming is almost here!! What do i wear?? The theme is the red carpet...... (14 words)

He used to want marriage and kids, now he doesn't? Do I leave him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 622 days ago

28 August 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together almost four years. He's 23, I'm 27. We have talked about marriage off and on for most of it, and we always talked about having one child (he certainly doesn't want more.) Now, he's declaring that he doesn't EVER want to get married, ... (177 words)

My best friend slept with my crush!! Should I forgive her?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 492 days ago

28 August 2006 (F)

- My best friend slept with my crush. ive had a crush on a guy named pete for 5 years now and i HAD the bestest friend ever. She helped me get with my crush and she said we were perfect together and i was pleased that she did all of this for me. Pete and her became frien... (247 words)

My fiancee has a gal pal and her parents hate me! They say I am spoiling their plans, for their daughter to marry my guy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 622 days ago

28 August 2006 (F) - Hi there, I need some advice on getting through to my fiance. He has known this girl since school and knows her family well, I started going out with my fiance 3 years ago, and met these people he is friends with. The father instantly didnt like me and said things such as "I'm ... (218 words)

I got a hair cut and it turned off my gf! She ignored me and wouldn't even kiss me...what's up with her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 622 days ago

28 August 2006 (M) - Right this is going too sound strange but i had my hair cut the other day and i had too much off so my hair is shorter than my usual medium length etc... My girlfriend loves my hair longer and swept over but yesterday she was acting as if i was a different person...She would ... (162 words)

After 4 years she suddenly said she doesnt know what she wants!! As far as I can tell theres nothing wrong!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 622 days ago

28 August 2006 (M) - ive been with my girlfiend for nearly 4 years, i do anything she wants and we have been really happy,, i made her dinner the other day with flowers and everything just normal,, we wnet up stairs everything was fine.. then she just bursts into tears and says she doenst know what ... (180 words)

I can't seem to have both bf and friendships without causing conflict. What can I do about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 622 days ago

28 August 2006 (F) - I have a bit of a dilemma. I've just finished school and i've had a 2 month break before starting college in a week or two. When school finished I finally got back together with the love of my life who I had had an on/off relationship with since December. We've had a fantastic ... (249 words)

Met a girl while out in Spain, trouble is she lives in Norway!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 615 days ago

28 August 2006 (M) - I recently returned from a holiday in Spain. I met a girl there and we got really close. She's British but lives in Norway and I live in the UK. I'm 15 and it would be difficult for me to visit her. She's 14 and is under the same circumstances. I really miss her and I don't ... (68 words)

I Enjoyed watching my wife have sex with other men, want her to do it again but shes not so keen!!

This question has 40 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

28 August 2006 (M) - Hi all, I have a bit of a problem. About two years ago, when my now wife, then girlfriend were dating, we were both at University. We were working at a local hardware store part-time as was a number of guys i went to school with. I had always found my wife to be highl... (339 words)

I want to try anal sex with my gf but she's worried about the pain! What's the best lube to buy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 622 days ago

28 August 2006 (M) - my and my girlfriend have a strong sex life we have tried various things doggie style etc etc but now i am wanting to try anal sex she is curious about but what puts her off is the fact that peole have told her that it can be painful but she is willing to try i would like to ... (77 words)

Does he fancy me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 619 days ago

28 August 2006 (F) - I'm 14, does my boy mate fancy me cos he's always txting me like every night. One night he asked if I could send him a picture of me naked! I said no obviously. He always smiles at me when I walk past. Does he like me do u think?... (52 words)

I have a higher sex drive than my bf. Will my bf get annoyed at me for always initiating it all the time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 622 days ago

28 August 2006 (F)

- i've been with my boyfriend for a while now and i love him 2 bits but he doesnt seem to want sex as much as i do and it drives me mad im 17 and he's 18, he's quite happy to have sex once a week or even less and it drives me mad i stay at his house quite a bit and he always ... (161 words)

I like the girl my ex run off with, but im sure he just thinks im trying to wind him up!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 622 days ago

28 August 2006 (F)

- Last year my ex split up with me for another girl. I was so upset and it took me months to get over it. I havnt spoke to my ex since, and dont want to either, but the other night I got talking to his girlfriend and realised that I actually like her. I must admit that when my ex ... (317 words)

Are we having enough sex ? Could we go bad if not ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 622 days ago

28 August 2006 (F) - I was wondering if me and my partner are having enough sex and does it mean you dont crave one another as much if your not having alot of sex. We tend to have sex every other week, sometimes once a week, but never really more than once a week. Sometimes this bothers me other... (702 words)

I practice kissing when alone... is this normal and do others do this ?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 617 days ago

28 August 2006 (F) - hi, 1)first question: im 14 and never kissed anyone before :( but at night i always kiss my hand and pretend its the person i fancy. is this normal or is there something wrong wiv me? does everyone do this? 2)second question: will kissing my hand help me become a better ... (55 words)

I seem to get really jealous when she talks to other guys, how can I manage this a little better ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 613 days ago

28 August 2006 (M)

- OK first of all I'm really inexperienced when it comes to dating and gf's etc, I have been seeing my first gf for only a month now. Yet I see her sometimes talking to other guys who aren't close friends, which makes me a little jealous, even though she talks to me a lot. I ... (108 words)

Scared that I wont find a man to have a relationship with, they never seem interested, what can I do ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 622 days ago

28 August 2006 (F)

- Im a bit down at the moment and I think some people will think this isnt a real problem but its upsetting me quite a bit. Im 23 years old and have ben single for just over a year now. My last relationship ended in a bad way so for a while I wanted to stay single. Now I th... (204 words)

Tatoo turn off!!! How do I tell her?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 58 days ago

28 August 2006 (M)

- I have a dilemma. My girlfriend has a tattoo. It's not very large, and its right in the small of her back. The problem is, I really don't like it, and for a bad reason. A tattoo in that spot just has negative associations for me: 'tramp stamp' and so on. The tattoo itself re... (263 words)

She did the breaking up and now she "changed her mind"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 622 days ago

28 August 2006 (M) - Hi, a girl I was seeing for a month recently broke up with me. She said that she had "changed her mind" about being with me. However, several days after the break up, she texted me a message in the middle of the night that read; "I feel so bad about everything". I did not ... (101 words)

I tried a move on him and he rejected me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 622 days ago

28 August 2006 (F) - Please I need some advice, because I have totally made myself look like an "ass". Basically, I was going out with a man for many many years, and we broke up a couple of months ago. So, we decided to meet up for the first time ever since our break up. We had a nice night, but ... (200 words)

I Want to go for a week and my GF will have none of it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 622 days ago

28 August 2006 (M) - Please help, myself and my girlfriend have been together 13 years since high school I am now 27 she is 25. We live together and have no previous history of cheating. The problem is I have booked to go on holiday with the boys for a week in Sept and she is just not wearing it. ... (81 words)

His grandad says we're cousins but I am adopted

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 613 days ago

28 August 2006 (F)

- im 17 and recently started seeing a lad who lives near me. we were at his grandads one night and thought everyone was in bed when his grandad walked in the living room and caught us laid on the floor kissing eachother, i dont know how long he was there because we didnt hear him ... (411 words)

Help me with my list of pro's and con's about him

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 621 days ago

28 August 2006 (F) - ok ..tell me if i should or if you would stay with a guy if you had these pro's and con's about him. thanks. some of these things i got over though like the feet thing and i'm getting over the age thing. pro's -he's ALWAYS there for me -he's the best thing to happen... (320 words)

We broke-up, he says he wants me back but he is abusive

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 622 days ago

28 August 2006 (F) - my boyfriend brokeup with me and he wants to get back with me and i love him, but lately he has been abusive and i dont know what to do. he says he nothing without me and wants to kill himself because i wont take him back. what should i do?... (53 words)

I love him but, He has a hooker pipe

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 622 days ago

28 August 2006 (F)

- Hi I am 13 and very upset because even tho we have split up me n my x-boyfriend still like eachother and he knows how much I hate the thought of drugs but tonight he said he had a hooker pipe which is like a bong. He has said he has had weed in the past but has said it to wind ... (125 words)

We spend so much time together - is it normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 622 days ago

28 August 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years. We have a great relationship and are now beginning to move forward woth our relationship and working on plans to move in together. We were wondering whether our current situation is "normal" or not- Since we spend the ... (106 words)

Tips of flirting

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 622 days ago

28 August 2006 (F) - i like a guy, feel kind of silly for liking him, im 16 hes 18, we get on really well, not know eachother for long but we did hit it off straight away spoke and that a few times but we talk online alot he gives me lovely compliments !!! i dont want to say i like him id just like ... (82 words)

My husband insults me...what shall I do!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 622 days ago

28 August 2006 (F) - My husband and I have been together since we were 15 we are now 26 and I accepted his moods and the fact that he made it clear that I should not expect romance as its not in his nature. We never fought. I thought we had the perfect marriage. He admitted he never loved me. He ... (78 words)

Her parents have banned our relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 623 days ago