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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

I can't live with or without her and it is ruining my life

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 622 days ago

15 August 2006 (M)

- Help! Two months ago I split up with my girlfriend of two years and I'm haunted continuously by my own unanswered questions. She and I dated for two years after meeting on an online dating site. It was nice enough at first, but after six months I ended it because I had doubts. ... (666 words)

He loves rough sex and I want him to calm down! Is there anything I can do to make it less rough?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 636 days ago

15 August 2006 (F) - My boyfriend is really into rough sex. I've asked him time and time again to calm down but it's like he loses control and starts either biting me or going too hard...I've talked to him and he says he's trying to cool it down but is there anything that I can do to make things ... (57 words)

I love my friends husband!!

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

15 August 2006 (F) - I'm struggling with the same thing as before...My attraction to my friend's husband. I have tried to avoid him like the plague, but we still end up seeing each other coincidentally, our kids are very good friends,etc. I have no problem seeing him, but I feel like my feelings ... (273 words)

He's newly divorced and seems interested but refers to younger women a lot. Is he trying to make me jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 637 days ago

15 August 2006 (F) - What could it mean if a older guy seems to like an older woman (me), smiles, warm, comfortable, teases me, occasionally playfully touches me in a non sexual way etc, but occasionally refers to attractive women he would like to be with who are much too young for him. He is newly ... (88 words)

My friend wanted a picture of me naked. What the?!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 624 days ago

15 August 2006 (F) - i am 14 and was texting my boy mate the other day. it was his birthday a few days ago and i didnt know so i didnt get him a present. he said dont worry about it. i said to him "i'll have to go now cos i'm going swimming wiv mates". then he said "r u in the changing rooms naked ... (102 words)

I have an embarrassing mole! Help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 636 days ago

15 August 2006 (F) - im 15 and worried! i have a massive mole on my shoulder about the size of the tip of your finger! i dont wanna wear my bikini infront of the boys at school when we all go to the beach cos i think they will think its discusting :( its flat but i still hate it. what shall i do?... (60 words)

Is it normal to bleed from sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 636 days ago

15 August 2006 (F) - is it normal to bleed after having sex two days in a row? with the first day being your first time having sex?... (23 words)

Boyfriend saved my work as 'crap' - how do i get him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 637 days ago

15 August 2006 (F) - Hi, my live-in boyfriend saved my thesis as "merde" when I asked him to print it for me. I am rather insulted, what can I do to get back at him?... (34 words)

Boy moved on after I said no to sex. Depressed and feel down :(

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 636 days ago

15 August 2006 (F)

- I have a problem dating men most times, because a boy I liked very very much asked me for sex on our second or third date while I keep telling him I liked him but that I preferred knowing them better to see if we could have a relationship and this has caused the boy to feel ... (102 words)

Am I being insecure or jealous or is he up to something behind my back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 636 days ago

15 August 2006 (F) - Hi all, I hope I am not taking up too much of anybody's time! I am worried sick and I think I am myself insecure and jealous and I wish to stop being this way! I had a long term relationship and recently moved in with my partner. Things went well until I discovered a c... (251 words)

I know I can start something with my hot friend but I love my husband - help!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 635 days ago

15 August 2006 (F) - Confused: I am a 34 year old with a good job,a husband of 13 years, and son, basically everything a person could ask but recently I have found myself extremely attracted to a family friend. He is also married but with just a little try I am sure I could start something ... (140 words)

I love my partner but hate that he has more experience than me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 636 days ago

15 August 2006 (F)

- Hello, I was just wondering if I could have some of your opinions. I am 22 years old and have been with my boyfriend since I was 18. He is 27, we met when he was 24. He had fallen in love with me right away, and after time, I fell in love back. We have been living together for ... (287 words)

I am 60 years old, how can I reach orgasm?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 635 days ago

15 August 2006 (F) - Hi. I am a 60 year old female, have been in a marriage for 30 years, the last 25 years of this marriage has been without sex with my husband (or anybody else). I have resorted to clitorial stimulation of myself in the time of need. I have recently met a man much in the same ... (137 words)

I thought the guy was 17, like me... but he's only 12!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 626 days ago

15 August 2006 (F) - I'm 17 and I met this guy who I presumed was the same age as he looked so old, but then I found out he was 12! I'm so confused as he looks and acts my age. He's so sweet, I've never met anyone like him before, but I can't help thinking it's wrong as he's so young. What d... (78 words)

I'm having sex with my ex, and I don't know what it means!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 629 days ago

15 August 2006 (F) - My ex and I recently broke up. I was heartbroken and wanted him back bad. He told me he cares about me but just cant be in a relationship right now. He said he wants me in his life and wants me to be a close friend. So, i tried to do as he wants. I mean somthing is better than ... (336 words)

Guys, tell me honestly: are stretch marks going to turn off my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 637 days ago

15 August 2006 (F) - Hi- if it's possible I would just men to answer this question. So I hear that men don't care for strech marks and celulite, guys, is that really true? Like, when I had my son I gained tons of weight and I gain a lot of strech marks on my butt, on my belly and some on my thig... (311 words)

Sis steals my friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 637 days ago

15 August 2006 (M) - My sister always steals my friends. For the last year she has been dating my neighbor who has been my friend for like 10 years. It drives me nuts when I come home and her and him are there. I feel angry at him for ignoring me when she's around. I also feel angry at her for ... (73 words)

I'm in love with my manager....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 637 days ago

15 August 2006 (F) - I am pretty low at the minute which is highly unlike me! I'm a lesbian and I have developed this enormous crush on my manager at work. I am pretty sure she is gay but not so sure she would be interested in me. She is amazing.I only get to see her one week a month (ish) as the ... (236 words)

How can I over come feeling needy and insecure, when I know my ex is having a wonderful life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 636 days ago

15 August 2006 (F) - I'm female, 19 and going to university this september. I had a relationship with a teacher at school when i was 16/17 which lasted a year, this teacher was also female and 18 years older than me. The relationship ended before i finished college because my parents found ou... (266 words)

Is he after an affair?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 635 days ago

15 August 2006 (F) - A married man keeps winking at me and telling me i've seen his 'nice side'.... do you think hes after an affair?... (22 words)

Where do we stand? Should I ask him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 636 days ago

15 August 2006 (F) - i have an odd relationship cont..... well things have taken a bit of a drastic turn here. Sunday I hung out with him again. I have been talking a little bit with one of his friends lately about us, and she came to me with some shockign news! I guess he went over to visit he... (176 words)

If you're married would you always wear your wedding ring?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 636 days ago

15 August 2006 (F)

- Hey guys, its me bonym!!!! Just a quick question about something that has been bugging me for ages!!! Ok, its really for married men, but I dont really mind who replies!!! Ok, so here is the deal, if you are married, would you always wear your wedding ring? Ok that sounds s... (216 words)

My obsession is scary...I can't get over his past....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 631 days ago

15 August 2006 (F)

- I have been acting a bit strange lately and have no idea why! Here's a bit of background: me and my boyfriend have been together for a year now and he has had a lot of sexual partners before me. This really hurts me and it's caused a lot of problems, I am completely obses... (190 words)

I like him and he likes me but he is dating my sister who has another boyfriend...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 637 days ago

15 August 2006 (F) - Im 15 and i really like this boy who is lets call(N)he is 15 to but my sister is going out with(N)she however is 17.They have been going out a few weeks but have never kissed or anything.The most they have done is held hands.When i see him he looks real uncomfortable hugging my ... (154 words)

She's got me confused, so what do you think is going on here? Is she interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 637 days ago

15 August 2006 (M) - i have NO idea what to make of this girl. i can't read her. we've hooked up before but decided it was a bad idea to do it again because the timing wasn't right. she was in a relationship. anyway, now she's talking to me about how her relationship is going down the tubes and ... (240 words)

My ex is threatening to tell my new bf about my past cheating! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 637 days ago

15 August 2006 (F) - i have a 2 year ld daughter with my ex but now am living with my new partner who has taken my child on as his own. I have cheated several times with my ex, even in our house! Now i swore it wouldn`t happen again and it hasn`t and i wanna be faithful to my new man. My ex ... (144 words)

He wants the other woman. But he wants to hang out here until she gets back from her holiday. Kick him out now or what?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 636 days ago

15 August 2006 (F) - Just to give you an update on what's been happening over the last week. The last time I wrote I told you I was confused about my ex who I had just got back with after nearly 4 years apart. He was acting very suspicious and sneaking around with the same woman he had just left ... (442 words)

Would hynotism help my gf get over her aversion to giving me oral sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 637 days ago

15 August 2006 (M) - My girl friend wont give oral sex says it makes her feel sick any advice please. would hypno help.... (19 words)

In his past, my bf experimented with other males, sexually..how do I get these images out of my head?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 637 days ago

15 August 2006 (F) - my boyfriend just told me that his dad raped his brother and sister and went to jail. but left porn magazines round the house while my bf was young. my boyfriend experimented because he didnt know wat it was....with other boys. he told me that he loves me but sometimes he ... (75 words)

Scared to let my guard down in case I end up hurt again...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 637 days ago

15 August 2006 (F) - I can't relax in my relationship because i'm scared that if i let my guard down i'll get hurt. I'm 16, and until my current bf my longest relationship had been 6 days, purely because I'm scared to let people get to know me, so they dump me pretty quickly. The guy i'm with now... (324 words)

Im only 13 and addicted to porn, but want to stop please help...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

15 August 2006 (F) - help me i am addicted to porn at age 13 plz help me i like it at first but then i feel disgusted and sick wid myself how do i stop lukin at it plz help me!!!!!... (37 words)

Could someone please tell me what sperm is supposed to taste like ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 637 days ago

15 August 2006 (F) - This is a very weird question to ask just anyone but I was wandering what sperm is supposed to taste like? I dont want guys to answer this question just women... Please I really need help with this..?... (38 words)

Im very insecure and Im scared this will drive him away.. How can I change this ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 637 days ago

15 August 2006 (F) - I need advice on what i can do to sort my head out. I love my bf to bits and i know he loves me too, but my personality defects are really dragging me down. I'm really insecure and if i haven't seen him or spoken to him in more than 24 hours then i'm convinced that he's ... (112 words)

Not sure if the baby is my guys, or one of the guys I slept with in between!!...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 634 days ago

15 August 2006 (F) - i'm 19 and have a one year old son. I broke up with my partner last year in December as he was violent. Although we were'nt together we continued to have sex. But unknown to him i have slept with other men. Now i have just found out i am pregnant with my second child. Me ... (88 words)

How do I know if he really loves me ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 538 days ago

15 August 2006 (F) - i need to know if my bf really loves me, we have been on and off for a year, when we first got together he messed me about abit and we split up for a month because he was scared to tell me he had 4 kids. we got back together and things seem to be so differant then they was befo... (103 words)

We are nopt well off..so what can I give my bf without spending a lot of money!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 635 days ago

15 August 2006 (F) - its my bf b day this saturday. ive been goin gout with him for 2 months and one day. he is really nice to me and so far he has got me a necklace some ear rings a winnie the pooh teddy and these mermaid crystals balls things. my mom doesnt work and she has 2 children and she is ... (126 words)

Will things ever change? Will he always say hes too tired to be bothered to go out together ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 637 days ago

15 August 2006 (F) - Am I wrong to feel peeved by this? My boyfriend of 1 year and I hardly ever seem to go out these days. He always says he is too tired after work or is working on his house. I see him most nights but we usually just stay in at his and he'll cook dinner and we'll watch tv. The ... (252 words)

He tells me im his first true love, but Im still hung up on his ex, because I think he really did love her!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 636 days ago

15 August 2006 (F) - I have a HUGE problem which is eating me up from inside. I have been with my bf for 10 months, he is 25 and im 20, i love him alot and i know he loves me, however i cant get over his PAST, i dont know whats wrong with me. We are both asian-indian, but i cant take the fact hi... (335 words)

Why does my girlfriend seem to put me down all the time ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 637 days ago

15 August 2006 (M) - My ex girlfriend used to like commenting on guys she sees on telly whenever shes with me. Like, 'oh im so sorry, but ive got to tell you that this guy is absolutely gorgeous!!'. I usually just go, 'yea, he is' but am recently asking myself why the hell did i put up with all of ... (131 words)

My mum had 2 stillborn's, shes pregnant again and Im really really scared!!! Please help...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 580 days ago

15 August 2006 (F)

- dear cupid, i have just turned 17 years old and i have a brother(stephen) and a sister(skye) but they both died through still birth, my brother died 18 years ago through placental abruption. my sister died last year but she died the day she was due and to the fault of ... (187 words)

How much of an age gap is too much ?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 257 days ago

15 August 2006 (F)

- What are the age gaps between you and your partners? And at what stage do you think a age gap is too much? Thanks! x... (31 words)

I cant get my ex out of my head, I want to be his friend but I dont want to fancy him anymore any advice ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 628 days ago

15 August 2006 (F) - heya i need help getting over my ex... i just split up with my boyfriend and we're gonna stay good mates but i cant even start to get over him. i think i loved him but it wasn't gonna work. i work with him and so i have to see him regularly which doesnt help me get over him ... (182 words)

We havent had sex for 7 months!!! All he says is he doesnt feel like it!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 637 days ago

15 August 2006 (F)

- I have been with my boyfriend for about 16 months now and for about the past 7 we have had no sexual contact whatsoever! His excuse is that 'I just don't feel like it' Now any I guess normal person would think they are being cheated on! But I checked his phone bill (wrong I ... (169 words)

He went away and asked me to wait for him...but now there is this other guy! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 637 days ago

15 August 2006 (F) - I found a new guy recently and when we first met, he made me laugh so much that i was straight away attracted to him because of his personality. He didn't ask me out until 2 weeks ago and afterwards we kissed but then i found out he was going to see his parents and sort out ... (236 words)

Im nervous and distressed about my husbands Family and im not sure whats going on, so I dont know what to do!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 637 days ago

15 August 2006 (F) - dear cupid I'm 26 years old and I married 2 yeard ago.I live in middle east, I just mentioned this to let you know that we have a bit different cultures(sorry for my bad english). 2 days ago my mother in law and my 2 sisters-in-law came to our house from another city the... (420 words)

Is 18 considered late to still be a virgin ?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 575 days ago

15 August 2006 (M)

- I'm 18 never had a proper girlfriend and never had a proper kiss with any girl and obviously never had sex. I'm getting fed up of all this pressure to have sex (there was this thing on BBC Radio 1 about sex) and it just brought back all this pressure of having sex. I'm even ... (81 words)

Hes asking me to be patient as he has trust issues any suggestions how to handle this ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 637 days ago

15 August 2006 (F) - Hi, I wrote for help on 9th Aug "We grew real close I thought we could be together, but Now I fear I have pushed him away!" and i would like to thank the two people that replied. I did as you guys said - I left him be. To my surprise he got in touch and took back everything ... (191 words)

Was my train-guy showing he's "interested"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 637 days ago

15 August 2006 (F) - I met this man on a train trip. We struck up a real good conversation about our interests (p.s. I'm 19, he's 20). We both live in the same town and when we got off the train he asked for my number and we hugged (by the by most people our age hug each other, friends and such you ... (165 words)

I chatted to strange women, and my wife found the emails!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 637 days ago

15 August 2006 (M) - My wife and I are a month apart in age and after being married for almost 19 years (december), I made a very foolish mistake. I turned to the computer and tried to find someone I didn't know to fullfill a missing part of my manhood. My wife and I had problems with my ability ... (151 words)

I want to have sex, but I can't get past the idea of pain!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 633 days ago

15 August 2006 (F) - I'm really nervous and slightly scared to lose my virginity to my boyfriend of 3 1/2 months. We're both 19, we're both virgins, we're both in love with each other and plan to get married after college. We've discussed sex, we both want to, we both plan to be safe. My really c... (188 words)

We are planning to get married but my mother and sister recent me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 552 days ago

15 August 2006 (F) - Please help, My Mum is very ill, has been for a long time. The longer she's been ill the more difficult she gets. I was engaged to a chap when I was 19 and I'm now 32. She constantly refers to this guy who I dumped when I was in uni (we were engaged) and how wonderful my lif... (256 words)

I don't understand why she doesn't see how lucky she is!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 635 days ago

15 August 2006 (M)

- Sorry this may be long, I hope you read it though and have suggestions. Basically I was in a relationship for three years, we had ups and downs, but always managed to sort things out I think cos we had such a strong love. However she fell pregnant when I didn’t want her to l... (1113 words)

He want's me to be more dominant in the bedroom,any tips?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 103 days ago

15 August 2006 (F)

- Hi, my bf and i have been together almost 3 years, im 20 his 25, we live together. our sex life is pretty good maybe once a week, we always mix it up,different places in the house,different postions,making our own movies,toys etc the thing is he is always asking that i be more ... (152 words)

I am a virgin and my ex wants sex wih me

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 464 days ago

15 August 2006 (F) - My x boyfriend and me are still like really good friends and he wants to have sex... But Im still a virgin and Im affraid that it might hurt.. And I want to know if i should or not.? He told me that he doesnt want me to do stuff that i dont want to... But I was just trying to ... (68 words)

I want to, but I am worried about losing my virginity

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 482 days ago

15 August 2006 (F) - Hi, im 17 and want 2 lose my virginity but im worried about loseing my virginity, but only because im scared about the pain and is it possible for me 2 have sex! i feel to tight ? help me please! thanks ... (42 words)