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writes: Her heart is with her ex husband,she says she is with me for security ,we have been together for 5 years and nothing has changed.She apparently stays on his couch once in a while when I am out of town.should I run or stay ?
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (17 August 2006):
 You have allowed yourself to be just a meal ticket to her. Stop it now. Show her the door.
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reader, Lostandalone +, writes (17 August 2006):
 MY GOD MAN!!! I have to commend you for doing something I couldn't do you have been made an ass out of. I mean how many times do you have to get slapped in your face to realize it hurts or at least duck to keep from getting hit again. My heart goes out to you because that would break my heart to no end. Someone you have given everything to for 5 years and she in turn pisses on your heart. To answer your question, RUN RUN RUN RUN far away!!!! Don't allow yourself to be treated like this any longer. Your providing security and he's providing the pleasure. Not right. Hold your head up because you did what you thought was right. Move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2006): RUN
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2006): Would you actually leave her if even 100 people on the Internet told you to, I think not.
She's basically said she doesn't love you and is only with you because you can provide for her.
Personally speaking, if someone said that to me, it would break my heart and it would be clear the relationship was over.
I think your goodbyes are long overdue, to be honest.
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reader, maxsteel86  +, writes (17 August 2006):
 Your kiddin yourself if you think she's just over there sleeping on his couch. She's made an ass out of you totally. Leave her right now!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2006): She is USING you.I suggest not staying, nor running, well...run to the bus stop/bus station/railway station, get to an airport, get a flight to the otherside of the world and dont go back.Ok..what im saying is leave her. She goes round there for sex and loving, thats the truth, why else would she stay around someone she LOVES, on a COUCH rather then a BED with someone she is ina RELATIONSHIP with?? :S
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