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writes: HELP ME! so confused...OK so me (24) and my GF (22) of 13 months broke up about 2.5 months ago. We had agreed to get married and promised each other so much while dating, so I was set on her. I am so still in love with her. Anyway, she gave the whole "not ready to settle" reason, but said I am the "perfect guy." We still hang out once or twice a week, but it is wearing on me because I don't know what's going through her head and I want to be with her so bad. We still flirt physically, like her laying on my lap and me playing with her hair, so I just don't get it! I think she still has feelings for me, but when I bring it up, she doesn't seem to want to talk about it. So here's the obvious question: Am I wasting my time waiting for her? Is she leading me on? How do I avoid hating her for promising me so much while dating and then ending it and leaving me in the dark like this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2006): bro Im in the same postion I suggest leaving her alone give her time to herself without u in the picture If u love her walk away if she comes back she's yours forever
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reader, helpful girl  +, writes (17 August 2006):
 well 13months is how long i have been with my boyfriend now and when we brake up it is going to take me a very long time to stop loveing him so maybe ye she still does love you. but from the sounds of it she has been hurt before or maybe she has a horrible father shes seen treat her mom evil, theres something emotionall whats happened to her in the past with men thats stoped her trusting men and as confused her. give her time or talk to her and ask her if theres any emotionall scars shes bben through with males. just be there for her and adventually she will learn to build trust in you. or may be its the fact she hasnt had much attention in her life and she likes you chaseing her for that reason attention. but try haveing a talk with her.
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