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Archived questions from: 24 August, 2006 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

I really like my mates girlfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 625 days ago

24 August 2006 (M) - I really fancy this girl in my class. I know her and we're friends but she has a boyfriend and he's my mate. How do i tell her?... (29 words)

I've fallen for my friend but he is having a 'casual sex relationship' with someone else!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 625 days ago

24 August 2006 (F) - I've fallen in love with one of my close friends and was thinking about telling him this weekend but now hes just told me that hes spent all day with a girl hes been seeing. He says its just a casual sex relationship and he doesnt think it will develop into more, and she ha... (114 words)

Go to the party that my ex will be at and annoy my current GF?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 625 days ago

24 August 2006 (M) - OKay, so I got invited to this party by a good friend of mine, which i know some okay friends will be going to. But the problem is is that my ex-girlfriend is going to be there, and i have no desire to see her until i am forced to by school (seeing as she pretty much tried [but ... (128 words)

Is this really the end of our 8 year relationship? (long post)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 625 days ago

24 August 2006 (M) - OK, I'm a 26-year-old man, who is somewhat successful and very educated, not that that means anything. Well, i need a someone's perspective male or female on my situation and i pray you can help me get back the love of my life. I'll try and make this brief and to the point, so ... (1603 words)

My ex was the biggest slob, we have a kid together - how do I act around her now? (long post)

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 625 days ago

24 August 2006 (M)

- SOMEONE HELP. I KNOW IT IS LONG, BUT I NEED HELP FAST!!!! I was with a girl for three and half years, living together for 3. We have now split and i am heartbroken, although i am starting to think, "lucky escape". She lived like a slob, never cooked, cleaned, compromised... (1075 words)

My bf has no patience with my son and says I need to be tougher!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 625 days ago

24 August 2006 (F)

- My boyfriend has no patience with my 15 year old son. We are talking about a quiet, confident teen boy, who is on the honor roll in high school, is polite and shows respect to all, loves sports, doesn't party, doesn't drink or act out in any way. He is a typical teen in the ... (154 words)

I like my supervisor but he said he's in a relationship, but I can't help thinking he wants me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 624 days ago

24 August 2006 (F) - I really like the supervisor in my office and we have been flirting non-stop. I plucked up the courage to ask him out and he said 'for now I'm in a relationship, so at the moment anything other than a friendship would not be possible at this time.' That has confused me as I ... (86 words)

My fiancee wants to experiment with another girl!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 621 days ago

24 August 2006 (M)

- My fiancee wants to experiment with another girl, I see this as cheating, but also am quite turned on by the thought. She also wants a 3some with me and another girl, I just feel that seeing her being intimate with somebody else, end vice versa, could destroy what we have. ... (61 words)

I'm a virgin at 38 years old...do I tell this to my new guy?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 316 days ago

24 August 2006 (F) - I have just met the man of my dreams, but i dont know whether i should tell him i am a virgin at 38 as he might think i am some sort of weirdo or something or will he work it out for himself, also as he is thin i am over weight he has not mentioned it to me but this is also ... (81 words)

Will my best friend say no if I ask her out?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 541 days ago

24 August 2006 (M) - There is this girl i really like. She is my best friend and I think i love her but I don't want to ask her out incase she says no. What should i do?... (34 words)

It's a love hate thing...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 625 days ago

24 August 2006 (F) - Please help me out. me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 months. I hate his feet which feet arent supposed to be attractive anyways. Sometimes the way he moves his hand up and holds it up i hate it. It reminds me of someone gay. Just little stupid things he does. ... (119 words)

I think I might be in love with my friend! He's in my thoughts all day, until he texts or calls me at night!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 625 days ago

24 August 2006 (F) - I've been battling with this confusion for quite some time now. I'm starting to get strong feelings for this boy that I have been knowing for about a year and half or so. It's obvious that we like each other, but we opted to keep things on a friend level. But now I wanna take ... (231 words)

Is it my personality they're interested in, or is it just sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 625 days ago

24 August 2006 (F) - Every time that I start talking to a boy, it seems as if they always seem to bring up sex, but they also talk about other important things as well. I was wondering should I take it into consideration that all these boys want to do is have sex with me even though they seem to be ... (63 words)

I broke it off because she wouldn't tell her parents about us...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 625 days ago

24 August 2006 (F) - I broke up with my girlfriend because she didn't tell her parents about us. I gave her almost 3 months to tell them she said she didn't know what they may say and that she is stupid. Did I do right? ... (41 words)

Don't care for the boys at school. Where are other places I can meet guys?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 625 days ago

24 August 2006 (F) - I'm 14 and all the lads in my school are not boyfriend material. I'm looking for a boyfriend and don't go to any clubs. Where can I meet some nice guys other than school? thanks x x... (37 words)

Help me find some marriage counselling, please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 625 days ago

24 August 2006 (M) - Hi, could you please suggests where is a good place or organization to go for marriage Counselling? we live in south east UK/Reading me and my wife are having a problem, and it can't continue like that, I really had enough and every one even here are suggesting for c... (73 words)

I think I _may_ have married too soon... My wife can't bear to be touched by me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 622 days ago

24 August 2006 (M) - How do you tell the difference between settling down, and just settling? Married, and regretting it. Finding my wife and I are quite incompatible sexualy, and I often wonder whether I just gave up looking, and settled too early. I feel unwanted, and depressed, and often wish i ... (91 words)

Me and my fiance are stuck in an expensive rut!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 626 days ago

24 August 2006 (M) - Hi, Im with my fiancee over a yr now and lately im beginning to get bored and fedup of the same routine of doing things.We are both in our early 30s, with good jobs and fell in love very quickly when we met.She has a habit of wanting to stay away somewhere every weekend in... (125 words)

Found out he has a lot of girls who like him...Is he taking me for a fool

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 626 days ago

24 August 2006 (F) - i need ur help quick, i keep seein this lad hu is really fit he is my best m8s brother and my best m8 is goin out with his m8, but anyways his mum is on hol so have been spendin alot at his!! but with his mates, i have slept at his loads of times but he sed that he doesnt wanna ... (163 words)

How can you tell if your bf is cheating on you?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 415 days ago

24 August 2006 (F) - hey ppl i need ur help how can u tell if ur bf is cheating on u? i know its stupid and there aint really any really questions but anything will do i need to know weather he is cheatin or not... (42 words)

He says he won't get a divorce for 2 years and wants no strings sex. Should I go for it?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 554 days ago

24 August 2006 (F) - I have been seeing a guy for about four months, however he still lives with his ex, I wanted to wait till he moved out before we became serious, but he said he didnt want me to throw away what we had. I thought i loved him and things progressed between us. We spoke about th... (160 words)

10 ideas for things to do tonight?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 626 days ago

24 August 2006 (M)

- I'm bored, and at my Dad's place so can't hook up with friends. Begging for 10 ideas for things I can do tonight?... (24 words)

He needs time to get his head together so is there a chance for us to be together again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 626 days ago

24 August 2006 (F)

- My boyfriend and I broke up a month ago and I just saw him this past weekend for the first time. It was awkward at first but then as the day went on we were acting like a couple again. At one point we were telling each other that we still loved each other and he says that he ... (117 words)

Newly married. My wife earns more than me, is against me socialising and is FULL of herself! Feel I made the wrong decisision...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 626 days ago

24 August 2006 (M) - Please help me if you can, Well I don’t know where to start, I was a happy successful person, confident with life and my achievement in life and with people around myself, I was going to the gym, meeting friends and family nothing at all excessive just to the point of normal p... (544 words)

I think I was too 'easy' with him. Do I try to win him over or just learn from this experience?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 614 days ago

24 August 2006 (F)

- Hi, Ok so here it goes........... I fancy my best mates cousin who is only a couple of months younger than me (im 19) well we all meet up for her b'day and he tried to kiss me whilst i was dancing with him, i pulled away and everything seemed fine. I then offered him a lift h... (189 words)

Sunbed question:- Are you supposed to turn over when using one ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 626 days ago

24 August 2006 (F) - Stupid question on a sunbed are you supposed to turn around or not? I was on the sunbed this morning and my back got more red than my top side? Are you meant to turn on your stomach?... (45 words)

Im not sure if its lust im feeling towards him or love!?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 538 days ago

24 August 2006 (F) - How can you tell the difference between love and lust? Ive got really strong feelings for a friend but i dont want to tell him untill i know for sure its not just lust. I think about him 24/7, i cant sleep at night if i know he's gone on a date with another girl, and ever... (142 words)

I love him - I'm hurt/confused by his nonchalant, non caring behaviours.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 626 days ago

24 August 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up almost 6 months ago over a silly argument. Prior to the breakup we had been seeing each other for a year. Part of the breakup was my fault and I've apologised and stated my desire to continue our relationship since I never intended for it to end. ... (203 words)

Im worried that I have left it too long before being intimate with someone again and scared that now I never will be....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 624 days ago

24 August 2006 (F) - I lost my virginity when I was 16 to my boyfriend and i havnt slept with anyone since i broke up with him. That was 3 years ago!!! furthermore, ive only kissed 2 people. The problem is that because im so self conscious about myself, whenever i have been approached by guys ... (153 words)

How can I get things back to just friends...?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 626 days ago

24 August 2006 (F)

- me and my boyfriend broke up which im perfectly happy about , although i wish i could still be his friend ,and i dont understand why he doesnt like me , although going out didnt work we used to get along so well , and i wish things could still be the same ... (53 words)

Im always putting others first so as to not feel guilty.. but this is ruining my life!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 626 days ago

24 August 2006 (F)

- My life seems to revolve around guilt and I have no idea how to handle this emotion. I feel guilty about everything from not bringing in the bin before being asked to do so, to telling my boss I can't work because I have to go out. I constantly put myself out to meet people's ... (72 words)

How do you tell if the affair is over ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 625 days ago

24 August 2006 (F) - how do you know if an affair is truly over? I only see my lover once a week anyway but are usually in contact throughout the week by either phone or texts,the last time we were together felt wierd because my lover is a friend who people knew i was going out with on that par... (182 words)

Tips for eating before the Gym!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 626 days ago

24 August 2006 (M) - Hello, need some health and gyming advice. Is it recommended to have a meal before gyming? If you have a heavy meal or dinner then go to gym thereafter, does it do more harm then good?? Thanks... (44 words)

He suddenly asked if I would be ready for a baby ? He doesnt know im still a virgin!!!!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

24 August 2006 (F)

- Hi, I have been seeing my b/f for 5 months.He told me he loved me 4 months into the relationship. We have not been 'intimate' yet, shall we say and I realy want to but the thing is he does'nt know I am a virgin.(He isn't) Anyway.... Yesterday i was sat in a cafe with him a... (230 words)

What to do with my not so "everyday" journals ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 625 days ago

24 August 2006 (F) - I know this problem may seem a bit silly, but it is worrying me, and I WILL have to make a decision one day. It has been playing on my mind more than usual as my father died recently, very suddenly, and at a young age, so I know how unpredictable life can be. From the age of 1... (223 words)

I love her so much that when we are apart it hurts so much, how can I deal a bit better ?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 613 days ago

24 August 2006 (M)

- Is it possible to love somebody TOO much? I am engaged to a girl, she has made me the happiest I have ever been in my life. When we are together, I am in heaven, but when we are apart, I am like a lost puppy. When she is not around, I become moody and always upset and wis... (97 words)

A co-worker treats me disdainfully! How do I nip this behaviour of hers...in the bud??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 625 days ago

24 August 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for awhile and work with his ex. She broke up with him a year and a half ago, has a new boyfriend whom she seems happy with so her current behaviour has me puzzled. She is a player and puts on a really good face to others at the office. Last week ... (157 words)

All my guy friends always hook me up with thier friends, why dont they date me when they all say im hot!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 626 days ago

24 August 2006 (F) - I am a 21 year old single female and have a lot of guy friends. I just got out of a serious relationship so I am not looking for something real serious. My problem is that it seems as though all my guy friends are never interested in me, even though I may be interested in them, ... (118 words)

My parents are upset that I am dating a co-worker! What wrong with that??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 622 days ago

24 August 2006 (?) - I really need help!! My parents are upset that I got invovled with someone from work! Is getting invovled with someone that you work with that bad or is it just them? Help PLEASE!!... (34 words)

He's in a band and I trust him..but I don't trust the girls he's around. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 626 days ago

24 August 2006 (F) - My boyfriend is in a band and are on tour now i managed to go to the first gig where a girl from another band was giving me dirty looks becuase i was talking to my boyfriend and now she is stayin at the same hotel as him for the next week, also my boyfriend sed 2nite lots of ... (193 words)

My BF just doesn't seem interested in me sexually - is it because of his 'slutty' past or is it me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 626 days ago

24 August 2006 (F) - Ok so here's the deal. I've been going out with my boyfriend for over 2 years now. We are great friends and we have a pretty good relationship with a couple minor fights every once in a while. When I first met him he was a total slut, he would sleep with anything and everythi... (269 words)

Did this girl just use me to have a baby? What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 626 days ago

24 August 2006 (M) - my relationship with this girl to say the least started rocky,firstly i am a recovering alcoholic and willingly admit all of my wrongs and realise the trust and time thing,i have a 5 week old baby girl and accept the mother i would do the same.i have access at least.but i but ... (188 words)

Am I wrong to have relationship expectations?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 626 days ago

24 August 2006 (F) - Is it right to have expectations in a relationship?... (9 words)

My husband of 30 years took one of our cars and hid it from me!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 620 days ago

24 August 2006 (F) - I reside in california and married 30 years. We have three vehicles, my husband took one of our vehicles and stated it is in a safe place. I want my vehilce returned, what can i do?...he wont tell me where it is...both names on registration..can i file a police report?... (52 words)

I've fallen for my work colleague!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 626 days ago

24 August 2006 (F) - Im 19 and I think ive fallen for one of my close friends who's also a work collegue. I literally cant stop thinking about him and get jealous whenever i see him talking to other girls. I feel like im going to burst if i dont tell him but im worried that if i do tell him and he ... (157 words)

Is he cheating or really concentrating on his school work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 626 days ago

24 August 2006 (F) - Me (14) and my ex (16) were dating for 2 months. Alot of people have said he cheated, and likes my cousin. He said he loves me alot but he said he brokeup with me because he needs to concentrate on school and he is worried about me cause i live in a different town. Is he ... (58 words)

She hooked up with me then went back to her bf...but she still flirts with me What's up with this girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 626 days ago

24 August 2006 (F) - ok, i'm completely lost as to what to do or think. i met one of my current best friends back about 7 months ago. i introduced myself to her because i could tell she liked me, and i was very interested in her, too. but it initially took me a while to gather up enough ... (503 words)