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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

I'm dating a boy behind his girlfriends back and she confronted me at my house!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 629 days ago

20 August 2006 (F) - I have been seeing a guy for 6 months behind his girlfriends back. He says he wants to be with me but wants to break up with his girlfriend without hurting her too much and without her finding out. She suspects something is going on and even came to my house to ask me. I told ... (101 words)

13 years old and my finger just doesn't do anything for me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 628 days ago

20 August 2006 (F)

- Hi im 13 years old and like to masterbate but when I finger myself I don't get any pleasure .. whats wrong ?... (23 words)

My best mate is annoying the hell outta me! Should I tell her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 630 days ago

20 August 2006 (F)

- When somebody close to you annoys you, is it best to tell them and get it out in the open? I find it hard to talk about stuff like that and my best mate has been really annoying me lately. It frustrates me a lot and maybe this is made worse because I keep it all inside, I don't ... (109 words)

My BF is 21 years older than me and he just asked me to marry him!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 580 days ago

20 August 2006 (F)

- Hello at a young age i was sexually abused by a man who was 60 years older than me. He also was once nearly my grandad and then after that i became depressed and had an eating disorder. I've never really known my real dad. So therefore I have had a very hard life for a 19 yea... (125 words)

Is it normal to get so wet?!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 117 days ago

20 August 2006 (F) - hello...i was just woundering if there is somthing wrong with me! I seem to get very wet down there! I find it really embarrsing when my BF fingers me or goes down on me...is this something to be concerned about or not...plz help me x ... (45 words)

Advice on making our long-distance relationship work...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 628 days ago

20 August 2006 (F) - I am just about to start a new college abroad and my boyfriend is staying here but we're definitely going to stay together. I was just wondering whether anybody had any useful tips on long distance relationships - and how to make it work? I love him so much and I don't... (68 words)

Am I overreacting to my girlfriend's "friendship" with an ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 629 days ago

20 August 2006 (M) - I am divorced and have been in a "serious" relationship for 3 1/2 years with a woman is also divorced. About a year and a half into the relationship, it was going great, and I was madly in love. I had taken her to Italy and believed that she loved me, though she had only lip... (584 words)

18 year old virgin but scared of having sex!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 621 days ago

20 August 2006 (F) - Hi, I want to have sex, as I'm an 18 year old virgin, but when it comes to having sex, I get dead nervious and try and think of anything to make me have more time! Cause I'm really scared of losing my virginity help me plz ppl!!! .... x x x ... (52 words)

The guy's a loser! He messes me about and yet I still have feelings for him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 629 days ago

20 August 2006 (F) - I'm in love with is bloke who's a complete loser. For the past few years he's messed me about, he cheats on everyone I've ever know him to go out with and I don't even know why I'm in love with him. He's let me down so many times and whenever I've spent time with him it's ... (185 words)

Could he really be in love with his fiancee if he can be so romantic with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 629 days ago

20 August 2006 (F) - Hi all!I'm really hoping that someone can give me some advice about something. Basically I'm engaged to someone and this other guy I know is also engaged. Me and this other guy have known each other for about 8 years now and we've had a few flings over the years and I used to ... (518 words)

Should I make the move on my step-cousin?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 134 days ago

20 August 2006 (M) - Sorry to repost this question but i need a more balanced opinion, all i got was male advice. I need women advice as well to gain a more balanced opinion. Plus can i have advice on what i should do to this situation: I have recently been on holiday with my parents and my c... (603 words)

A case of the dry-horrors when we have sex! Ladies: does this happen to you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 628 days ago

20 August 2006 (F)

- Ok ladies, here's a question for you! When I am having sex with my fella my mouth seems to go really dry, it's prob beacuse I am heavy breathing and moaning, but does it happen to you too? Just curious! xx... (47 words)

My BF got deported now he won't answer my calls!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 629 days ago

20 August 2006 (F) - im 18 and my boyfriend is 23. He got deported back to South Africa. He left in March. We were both in love and he is my first love and I'm his but now he doesnt answer my calls or texts. He said he will never leave me - I dont know what to do!... (57 words)

Any tips on masturbation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

20 August 2006 (F) - What's the best way to turn yourself on?... (8 words)

We just can't stop arguing in front of our child and I am just about ready to leave him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 629 days ago

20 August 2006 (F) - I live in a house which I bought with my partner 4 years ago. We had a child 2 years ago but we are constantly arguing and I reluctantly feel that I have to do something (ie move out )before things turn really nasty. I dont want our child to see the constant arguing, its just ... (134 words)

Married 9 years, had sex with another man, now he feels bad for it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 630 days ago

20 August 2006 (F) - I have been married 9 yrs. and recently had sex with another man. We had been flirting for months and I thought we really liked each other. I had only been with my husband sexually, so this was a huge leap of faith for me. My "friend" won't really talk to me now. He says he ... (125 words)

Too young to love

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 618 days ago

20 August 2006 (F) - I know 8 months is nothing but my boyfriend is 8 months younger. He is amazing! So, IF you are older than your boyfriend than tell me your story and tell me about it to make me feel better. I'm just used to being with older guys so please help! Thank you much!... (53 words)

Is it wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 630 days ago

20 August 2006 (F)

- dear cupid im a girl of 15 and i masterbate regulary but after i orgasm i feel very dirty and guilty also cheap why does this happen and how can i stop it? thanks xx... (35 words)

Trust my troubled fiance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 630 days ago

20 August 2006 (F) - hi i am 22 years old my fiance is 31 but he is leaving abrod and we will get married after 3 months but i have a problem his work is not workin too good and he has a lot of problem sure he doesnt have any savings to start our life but he never told anything but i knew this from ... (182 words)

Why is my old work colleague treating me like this?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 626 days ago

20 August 2006 (F) - In February of this year I bumped into an old work collegue in New York. I live in London, he lives in Hong Kong. Since then we have kept in constant touch and became really close. This man is 17 years my senior. Last weekend we eventually got together in New York, spendi... (359 words)

Mack daddy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 630 days ago

20 August 2006 (M) - watsup people,I need help!I've been dating this girl for almost a year now,she is the best thing thats ever happened to me,the problem is my mother lives over-seas so every july I go away for two months and leave her behind.she is very attractive and alot of guys mack on her,so ... (128 words)

Been married for 5 years but all he does is drink with his mates during his time-off work!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 627 days ago

20 August 2006 (F) - I am having a problem in my relationship I hope someone can answer. I have been married for 5 years now. We both have jobs out of the county. Well on his days off he does not spend them with me he likes to go drink with his buddies. I just want to know why he wants to do this. ... (93 words)

Is being with my third cousin incest?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 304 days ago

20 August 2006 (M) - Me and a girl are real close and now I find out that shes my 3rd cousin. Does 3rd cousins matter or is that still gross???... (26 words)

I feel guilty about liking my sisters ex! Should I tell her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 629 days ago

20 August 2006 (F) - Dear Readers, I am 15 yrs old and have a 17 yr old sister. Recently I arranged to meet with an ex-boyfriend of hers as more than friends, the more I thought about meeting him the worse I began to feel as i didnt tell my sister. However she is aware that he likes me but is not ... (126 words)

pestered by an ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 628 days ago

20 August 2006 (F) - I had a boyfriend for a long time. We broke up. He is now with someone else. Sometimes he calls me when he has been drinking and says he misses me and just wants to hear my voice. When I called him back the last time he did this(my first mistake) he told me I was a nice person ... (90 words)

Grandpa's a criminal

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 628 days ago

20 August 2006 (F)

- my dad has recently started looking into our family tree, he's has a proffesional doing it all for him. however he's decided to take it into my mums side of the family too and i asked my grandma for my grandads name for it, (my mum hasnt seen her dad since she was 3) and my ... (157 words)

Nervous lover

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 629 days ago

20 August 2006 (M) - Hey, I am having a sexual problem with a girl I'm hooking up with. I like this girl a lot, and I get hard when I'm hooking up with her and stuff. The only thing is, when it comes to getting head or a handjob, I get extremely nervous and it doesn't work out. I mean like I still ... (150 words)

Cheating uncle

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 629 days ago

20 August 2006 (M) - My aunt on my mothers side died last year from cancer in her late fifties, My uncle has now told me he is, and has been, having an affair with my separated sister since 7 days after my aunts funeral. I can't deal with it and find it repulsive. What should I do, I love my ... (69 words)

Been together 2 years but sex is non-existant and I find I can't say 'I love you' back to him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 628 days ago

20 August 2006 (F) - Hi, do you think its possible for two middle-aged adults to live together without sex (been together two years)? I've tried (for 8 mths) loads of stuff to have a more active sex life but nothing works. He's got a very low sex drive. Now I've lost my sex drive as i don't en... (212 words)

Girl on girl

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 616 days ago

20 August 2006 (F) - hiya i think i like my best mate shes a girl so am i and were 12 years old. everyone thinks were lesbians because all our friends think were very touchy. were both straight but ive had my past with girls. she loves boys but she might be hiding she is a lesbian should i tell... (69 words)

Chat up or shut up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 629 days ago

20 August 2006 (M) - This letter will probably just sound like I'm having a bit of a whinge but anyway, I'm 26 and have been single for just over a year now, the thing is I'm totally useless at chatting up girls and I'am becoming increasingly frustrated with exactly what it is girls actually look ... (295 words)

Is she gay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 629 days ago

20 August 2006 (F) - hi everyone who wants to help. i think i like my best friend abit more than i should i think i really like her.it all started when most of my friends say me and my best friend are lesbians because we hug and 'touchy' they claim we touch each others legs and stuff. and i dont... (166 words)

Liar Liar

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 630 days ago

20 August 2006 (F) - me and my fiance is very happy itill i lie to him i cant help it and after i feel bad and he knows i lied. and one day he is going to finish us i i dont want that i love him for than anything he knows that but i cant stop lyin and dont no why someone help please befor it is to ... (67 words)

How can I make him ONLY want me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 630 days ago

20 August 2006 (F) - How can I make my husband to be madly in love with me and not to look to any girls anymore?... (21 words)

Men... Need your views on a third nipple!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 630 days ago

20 August 2006 (F)

- Dear cupid, i no this may seem like a very stupid question but i was wonderign if i could get the opinions of some guys. I have a 3rd nipple and i was wondering whether it would put you (a guy)off having sex with me? i would like an ones opinion but especially males oin this ... (60 words)

We tried having sex but it hurts too much to make it special, any advice ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 628 days ago

20 August 2006 (F) - me and my boyfriend are serious and love each other and trying to have sex but for me it hurts to much and i wanted it to be special but just hurts to much for me i feel it is my fault and feel really bad has anyone got any advice to stop it hurting? please help thank you!!... (59 words)

16 dating 32

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 609 days ago

20 August 2006 (F) - i am a young girl i am only 16 and going with a 32 year old and dont no what to do its got really seriouse be asked me 2 be his fiancee and i said yes cos wanted to but now i not to sure i only young plus he is wanting to marry me and all that its going really fast. please help... (67 words)

Should I break free or carry on trying?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 630 days ago

20 August 2006 (F)

- I feel like I'm in a rut with my boyfriend. I'm unhappy most of the time due to his past, but just can't break free from the relationship because it's all I've known for a year. I guess I keep hoping it will get easier to deal with but now I know that will never happen. You ... (162 words)

Need help with my fairlytale net romance, because of who I said I was...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 630 days ago

20 August 2006 (F) - Dear readers, i really need help on this one. I met this guy on the net, real fairytail story, anyway we were kind of friendly for the first 2 weeks; discussing different topics but still anonymously like "you've got mail" type of thing. After that we used the microphone, and ... (269 words)

We have both cheated, she with the same person, me as one offs... we are still in love what to do ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 629 days ago

20 August 2006 (M) - I ve been married for 5 1/2 years. My wife cheated on me 5 months after we were married and we worked it out. I m madly in love with my wife but started cheating because I was insecure. I went to Iraq for 2 out of the past 3 years to find out she has had an affair with ... (105 words)

My ex knows I want her back, so why is she insisting on dating another guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 526 days ago

20 August 2006 (M) - Hey, I am struggling with an ex-girlfriend who I want to start again with. A couple of days ago, she wanted to go back out with me again. When she brought it up to me, I told her I'd need a little more time to decide on it. The next day, she brought it up to me again, but I st... (199 words)

My inability to deal with issues is ruining my relationship. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 629 days ago

20 August 2006 (F) - I would like some help please. Basically I have caused a serious amonut of damage to my relationship and have caused my boyfriend to distrust me because I lied to him about my past and my drug addiction. There has also been a few other issues that have come up and these have ... (227 words)

The guy I love might be free soon... and he's getting flirtatious!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 629 days ago

20 August 2006 (F) - I have been friends with this guy for about six months and we have grown close in a platonic way. I have loved him from the first time me we met but he had a girlfriend so I had settled into just being friends. Now he is contemplating breaking up with his girlfriend for vari... (116 words)

I have feelings for my therapist!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 630 days ago

20 August 2006 (F) - hi i,m 22 and i have feelings for another woman. The thing is she is 39 and she is my therapist. She is married and has a son who is 12 yr's old. I can't stop thinking about her and i,m sure she has been flirting with me. My feeling's for her have grown and i sense there is a ... (333 words)