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writes: I'm already 22 years old, but until now I never had a boyfriend. I've got so many crushes. How can I get them notice me? please help... Thanks!
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reader, monkeybuzz +, writes (17 August 2006):
hey there,
I know how you feel, I am 19 years and in the same position. I've had loads of unfulfilled crushes.
I find it helps if you chat to a guy who you don't really fancy, and build your confidence and improve your flow of communication.
Talk to guys and don't expect anything beyond friendship, to help prevent dissappointment, which will happen often when your trying to find the right person.
I'm still searching, and will continue to do so.
Stay optomistic and positive , the skys your limit.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2006): Just relax and talk to them as people first, crushes second. Try not to be paralysed by your feelings. Just be smile and friendly. Admiring from afar can be a mistake because the object of your fantasy becomes unattainable when they're just a human being like you. After all, you might get to know someone you thought you were crazy about and find out you're not that keen on them after all ..
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2006): No no no no no!
I'm going to presume that you have never kissed and are a virgin.
You need to rebrand yourself, dont confide and say you havn't had a bf, kissed or had sex, you'll scare them away! They dont need to know.
All you need to say is...
"you aren't good with relationships"
In fact most girls who have had loads also say this
"you aren't into kissing all the time"
Alot of men aren't into the lovey dovey stuff neither
"you are sexual inexperienced"
This dont necessary mean you are a Virgin. Its good both ways it says you dont "get around" and most men will like that, some men wont touch a Virgin, most will as only one man can take some girls Virginity and its special to them.
Stay confident, if you brand yourself as not good enough you wont get. the reason why you havn't had a bf is probably because you are careful and looking for "the one" and cant be bothered to get into relationships that fail. Thats a positive thing.
to answer your question, you would need to be more specific i would appreciate if you could PM me and i will be able to help further
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (17 August 2006):
 You need to be brave and ask someone out, if you fancy them and you suspect they fancy you then just go for it.
If you are not this confident and I suspect you may not be then you will have to resort to either asking a mate to approach love interest on your behalf or flirt or failing this just hang around places they hang and make sure they notice you.
Good luck but be brave even if on first attempt it does not work.
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