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writes: we r indians who got arranged marriage.in our culture girls parents should giv all house hold items and gold to the pair.my parents did't do the household.This created a ego problem with my husband,parents and my parents.i asked my husband to giv up for me but he did't,still tells its my parents fault and does't speak to them properly.then he asked them to give $12000,they told will give when we go to india.whose fault is it anyway.because of this i'm frustrated and fight with him.his mom lies a lot and creates problem but he does't belive me.he tells only i should respect his parents but he does't need to respect mine.please help me.i always loose my temper Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2008): enjoy life and divorce your husband......trust me thats the best way.....if he does'nt like your parents then he has got no self respect.
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reader, bonnismiles +, writes (27 August 2006):
 i think that he is not been loved him self when he was young has no respect for anything or anyone if i was you try and talk to him if he doesnt listen try counselling hopefully that will work mind family are there forever men come and go
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reader, helpful girl  +, writes (17 August 2006):
 every body should respect every body else. talk to your parents and explain to them that he doesnt respect them and as also said you should respect his but he is not to respect yours see what they say. but if he does not respect your parents and have difficulties getting on with them then i really think this marrage will not work. i think you should really talk to him explain he respects your parents or else there is divorce to consider. i apologise now if i offend you i know you are indian but i really do not beleive in arrange marriages i mean how do you know his not an ex criminal? you dont know who your marrying and thats why you end up divorseing people so quick. i beleive you should marry who you truely love. not a stranger. once again IM REALLY SORRY IF I HAVE OFFENDED YOU.
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