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writes: I'm a little freaked out because i've just realised that my relationship with my bf is exactly the same as my parents was. For example, we met when I was 15, he's my first serious relationship, he's an older guy, he's not liked by many people as he has 'social issues', he's been to prison, and the list goes on. All this happened with my parents. My bf and Dad even share the same name! This wouldn't scare me so much had I not watched my parents' relationship fall apart and see how much they now hate eachother and how muched me dad screwed up my mum. I really don't like my Dad as a person so it's not like i did all this deliberately. Should i be concerned about all this? I love my bf to death and we have discussed getting married some day, but this kind of puts me off the whole idea. Reply to this Question |
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reader, helpful girl  +, writes (17 August 2006):
 as though every thing is identical to your parents ralationship it does not mean it is going to be the same. of course seeing how your parents were it would affect you in any ralationship.but its 50 50 but theres no harm in seeing where your ralationship will go and i beleive in the saying everything happens for a reason. the one thing i should imagine that your parents has got in common they both love you and that will remain for ere.
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