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After having kids I cant get in the mood for sex, how can I change this ?

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Question - (17 August 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 17 August 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

since having my two children i cant seem to get in the mood for sex. i have been with my partner for 5 years now and my kids are 1 and 4 it is realy putting preasure on my relationship we used to be in bed 24/7 and it was great but now he wants it 3 or 4 times a week but i dont seem to want it at all is there anything i could do or use to get my sex life back on track

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A female reader, helpful girl United Kingdom +, writes (17 August 2006):

helpful girl agony auntI THINK SINCE YOUVE HAD YOUR TWO CHILDREN THERE IS PROBERLY NOT TIME FOR SEX AS WAKEING UP AND TAKEING CARE OF YOU CHILDREN DOES WARE YOU OUT. I WOULD CONSIDER LETTING YOUR OR HIS PARENTS TAKE CARE OF THE CHILDREN FOR THE WEEKEND THAT MAY GIVE YOU A BIT MORE ENERGY TO WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH HIM AGAIN.

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A female reader, AmberBambi United Kingdom +, writes (17 August 2006):

AmberBambi agony auntI think what it boils down to is how you feel. Do you feel less sexy beause you have had children? Or is it that life is just to busy for it now? Maybe you and your partner need more time for 'just the two of you'. Does he still make you feel wanted? Maybe its not you at all.

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