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My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 6 April 2009: Glad to hear that, I'm really pleased for you honey. Take care and enjoy your new life...you certainly deserve it.
XXXX... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 17 July 2008: Sarcy, its only expensive because you both made it that way. I totally understand how upset and bitter you were, but you cannot stop this man from seeing his child, no matter how you feel about it. Because its totally un-fair on your son. You are ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 2 May 2008: Uncle Phil is right babe!! dont hang it out anymore than you have to. Except he is gone and have a good cry, but for goodness sake dont let those solicitors have any more of your money. Even if they get him to admit he is the biggest ar**hole in the ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 1 May 2008: Honey!! I cant believe that you called him. Its so obvious that he doesnt want anything to do with you, why keep hurting yourself. You know deep down that the only reason you called him was to get him to respond to you!! I dont know why you bother? ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 14 April 2008: I kind of agree with the last poster. Solicitors will do anything to earn some more out of the poor sod going through this pain.
Really it doesnt matter what you divorce him for, its not as if he will have lying cheating sh** across his head. No b... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 10 March 2008: I wish I could give you a hug, I knew you would get there in the end.
Hip Hip Horah XXXXXX... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 5 March 2008: Thank God!!! you are actually staring to fight this man back. I can also tell you why he cant look you in the face, it's guilt nothing else. For whatever reason he has for his actions, does not mean you have to take it laying down.
Go for what... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 1 March 2008: Hi Honey,
Reading your post, I can see that you have still got extremely strong feelings for this man. I know that its hard to let go of any hope, but I think that your husband has proved over and over again that you have no option. He has move... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 13 November 2007: Hiya!
I am so pleased for you, your sounding so much better, and a hell of a lot more positive. Good for you.
Its so nice when you try and help someone and they feel like there is no light at the end of the tunnel, and then they begin to see that... (read in full...)
My wife left me and our son, we got back together, she cheated on me and is now doing coke! What should I do?
Q. my wife walked out on me and my son 7 months ago. Six weeks ago, she meet a new guy which up set me so much as i did not know i still loved. Anyway, two weeks ago i asked her back to make a go of things and she said yes. Everything was so great. I...
A. 26 September 2007: No I dont think that its fair. She is his mum and she has a right. However, if she shows any sign of being under the influence of drugs then I agree with you. Perhaps you could get her mum to be there at the same time, so you wouldnt have to worry. ... (read in full...)
My wife left me and our son, we got back together, she cheated on me and is now doing coke! What should I do?
Q. my wife walked out on me and my son 7 months ago. Six weeks ago, she meet a new guy which up set me so much as i did not know i still loved. Anyway, two weeks ago i asked her back to make a go of things and she said yes. Everything was so great. I...
A. 26 September 2007: Sometimes though, what you think would be the best thing for you can turn out to be the worse. I understand that you want your family to be together, but at what cost to your little boy. Is it fair for him to see her come back for a while then go ... (read in full...)
My wife left me and our son, we got back together, she cheated on me and is now doing coke! What should I do?
Q. my wife walked out on me and my son 7 months ago. Six weeks ago, she meet a new guy which up set me so much as i did not know i still loved. Anyway, two weeks ago i asked her back to make a go of things and she said yes. Everything was so great. I...
A. 26 September 2007: Hi,
I am really sorry, but if she loved you she would'nt have done this.
Your son is a very lucky little boy to have such a great dad. I know how hard it must be for you but, I would not have her back. How do you know she has been doing coke wit... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 20 September 2007: Hi,
I have been sitting reading what has happened to you with a lump in my throat. Its so sad when you are in love with someone who falls for someone else. I should know this has happened to me.
But surely by now you can see that the only time he ... (read in full...)
After 2 years, he dumps me in a disgusting restaurant, and leaves like nothing ever happened between us!
Q. I acknowledge this is a long and possibly confusing post. I've been heart broken and think I'm losing my mind trying to rationally think about my situation! My boyfriend and i had been together for almost 2 years. Earlier this week he arranged...
A. 19 September 2007: What a coward, the only way he could of done it worse was send you a text. And there are a few more of those type out there as well I am afraid. Its easy to say you are better of without him, but I am sure you dont feel that way yet. The good thing ... (read in full...)
Do you think my abusive ex knows everything is his fault and just can't handle his guilt?
Q. hi there, anyone got any advice about this? i have left my abusive partner of 20 years. yes we have split up time and time again before but this time i have spoke out and told him exactly what i think of him and told him all the nasty things he ...
A. 19 September 2007: Hi Honey,
I really do believe that this type of person never really gets it that they are to blame. To them all there actions were well founded.
The main thing is it shouldnt be your worry now. You have made the right move and left him.
Who cares... (read in full...)
My friend is building a relation with my ex, who was awful to me. Thought I'd be rid of him, but he's still trying to ruin my life with bad rumours. Views, please?
Q. Hi, I have a problem that has really disturbed me and I dont know what to do. I recieved a text message last night from one of my friends, basically telling me that she was seeing my ex boyfriend. I do not see this mate very often but she is a rea...
A. 19 September 2007: Hi, Thanks for all the advice. I really do apreciate it. And I am going to do exactly that and let them get on with it. Hopefully she will not end up in the same state that i did. Thanks again XXX... (read in full...)
My current bf is a lot like my ex. I don't want to repeat what happened - what should I do?
Q. Ive been seeing this guy recently for a couple of weeks and I really like him and he really likes me too. The only thing I have so far seen that may stop this working out in the long run is that he works so much! He works 50, nearly 60 hours a week! ...
A. 18 September 2007: Hi,
I would talk to him about it now before its to late. Dont sound to clingy, but let him now what happened in your past relationship, and how you were efected by this. Its better to be honest, and then you know where you both stand. Maybe that... (read in full...)
Is it normal for a guy not to let go of the last relationship when he's involved in the next one?
Q. Dear Cupids I have been with this guy for four months now. He is wonderful and very appreciating of me. We are very good friends and the relationship is progressing well. When we started he told me he was dating someone who is 1000 miles away ...
A. 18 September 2007: Hi Honey,
No I dont think you acted irationally at all. Why is it that the only people that rattle on about their privacy being evaded are the ones that have something to hide.
At the very least you have kicked him into touch, and proved that you... (read in full...)
He claims his ex is the only person he has loved, we're in the honeymoon stage now, but the ex is being disrespectful to my relationship with him!
Q. Ive been seening my guy for a few months now. Its the honeymoon stage. Although technically we are an unofficial couple, we have a great connection, tend to be inseperable and generally drive each other crazy in a good way. Also note that he is ...
A. 12 September 2007: Hi Again, Yes of course you did the right thing. If this has no effect on him, he was not the right one for you. It is really sad that he made you feel like this but you sound really nice and I am sure it will be his loss. Take care, I know how... (read in full...)
My husband had an affair. We are sorting it out but the other woman is fighting for him!
Q. By accident I found out my husband was having an affair. We are trying to work out our marriage because I won't let him go. I'm making it hard for him to go. We have 4 little children under 9. He's been honest with me about his feelings for her. At ...
A. 11 September 2007: Hi,
Your right!! she doesnt know the commitment of marriage, but I am afraid that neither does your husband.
He has fallen into the trap of having two women, and both not wanting to let go.
A lot will depend on how you react to him now, if you ... (read in full...)
Sometimes I sing her to sleep on the phone at night but lately I've been hearing noises of moaning, groaning and what sounds like sucking or kissing. Very confusing.
Q. Ok well this we'll be the first time i've truly ever asked anyone for help, especially online in a situation like this but i just can't help this feeling.it's driveing me crazy.I'm currently in a long distance relationship with a girl that i truly ...
A. 11 September 2007: Hi,
I am sorry to hear that you feel like this. Your right there is nothing worse than a Liar.
If she is doing this, she is kind of sick letting you listen. She should just tell you and be honest. But there is a posability that she is being ho... (read in full...)
I suspect my husband may be cheating (again)!
Q. I have a gut feeling that my husband has been cheating on me, he just says that I'm paranoid. In the past he has cheated on me, and the way he is acting, the same patterns are there!! On his phone bill, there is this one number that he talks to, and ...
A. 11 September 2007: Hi,
Well admitedly it doesnt look good. But there could be an explanation for it.
Its really hard when you have been cheated on to get back the trust, so of course you are paranoid. Why on earth would he expect you not to be.
How would you ha... (read in full...)
Why do I keep having these fantasies about having sex with a DOG?
Q. Hello everyone. I am 19 a 19 year old college girl. I have a pretty good sex life, but lately I have found myself masturbating more and fantasizing about k9. I swear to you I have never done it and have not even touched a dog down there, I don't ...
A. 11 September 2007: Now if you said a horse that would be a worry.
Dont know whether to laugh or cry, are you serious?. Its very strange, what if the dog doesnt fancy you. (I am now crying with laughter. Sorry!!!!!!... (read in full...)
I'm quite well off but am I wrong to like a woman that has manners to offer to pay her way on dates?
Q. I'm on the dating scene.I'm quite well-off, but I hate women who are after a free ride. I know as the man I'm expected to pay,initially at least. But am I wrong to judge a woman because she doesn't have the manners to even offer to pay her way? It ...
A. 11 September 2007: Hi,
I think your question is really interesting, because you mention you are quite well off but you dont like it when a girl is asked out and doesnt cough up for half?. Do you mean on the first date?.
I had a guy that was really well off, I helped... (read in full...)
I think my boyfriend might be sexually involved with his sister!
Q. im feling totally diasturbed! i have a boyfriend of 4 yrs who has a sister that is 3 yrs older than him ( she's 24 ) and i think they are sexually involved. no. 1 they sleep in the bed together and thinks its totally okay! shes totally okay with ...
A. 11 September 2007: Hi,
I would like to put a different veiw on this, coming from a sister that was extremely close to my brother.
When i was 18 my little brother was 15, and we had been going through a really bad time in our family. We went everywhere together... (read in full...)
They love me when I am invincible, but as soon as I crack they don't support me. Do guys only like women who are strong?
Q. I know this sounds weird but guys only like me because they think that I am strong and don't put up with their crap. All my bf's always tell me how I am different from other girls (I hate when they say this). How I don't care about the same things ...
A. 10 September 2007: Hi, It will be interesting for me if you get the answer to your problem, because I have been the same way all my life. And am told by my girlfreinds it's because I pick the wrong men. I am 47 by the way, and have no trouble in finding love, ju... (read in full...)
My fiancee recently asked for permission to kiss two other men before we get married. It has shaken my faith in our relationship. Suggestions?
Q. My fiancee recently asked for permission to kiss two other men before we get married. We are going to get married in about a year. She said she just wanted to get it out of her system. I didn't really think about it much and said she could. The ...
A. 10 September 2007: Hi,
Yes I have a suggestion: Dont marry her. What is she thinking, I presume she is not a teenager. And why would you agree to this.
I am sorry but I think you are heading for disaster with this woman. She lets you babysit, then sod's off out with... (read in full...)
He claims his ex is the only person he has loved, we're in the honeymoon stage now, but the ex is being disrespectful to my relationship with him!
Q. Ive been seening my guy for a few months now. Its the honeymoon stage. Although technically we are an unofficial couple, we have a great connection, tend to be inseperable and generally drive each other crazy in a good way. Also note that he is ...
A. 10 September 2007: Hi,
I think Red has given you some good advice there. Talk to him and let him know how this is effecting you. Why should you put up with it anyway.
She is an ex for a reason though, and just because they spent some time together could just have bee... (read in full...)
My husband and I are separated for a year now, after I confessed about my affair. 15 years of marriage, thrown away? Help, please.
Q. i was with my long term partner for 15 years we had a son together,we split up a year ago,because i had cheated on him in all the years we lived together i never even looked at another man,but what happened my ex started going to the gym all the ...
A. 10 September 2007: Hi Honey,
You made a dreadfull mistake and have suffered for it dearly. What you need to do now is not keep crying and begging for him to come back.
Let him get on with it, and move on with your life. I am not condoning what you did, but it sound... (read in full...)
He's got to go to a stag do at a strip club, I'm not happy about it...help!!!
Q. My BF is going for a Bachelore party next month - yeah,that doesnt sound like a big deal to you guys, but to me - I AM GOING NUTS! I don't agree with Strip clubs at all. I don't unerstand why guys go there. To me its the biggest disrespect to th...
A. 10 September 2007: Hi,
Whilst I understand that you feel vunerable because of this situation, I think I would as well.
If you have ever been to a strip club you would have seen that this is definatly not a pulling place.
I recently went on Holiday with my boyfriend... (read in full...)
My mother said she likes to pick trouble with me so I can do something wrong and she can call the cops!
Q. I cant stand it! i am very emothional and people who I "thought that love me" are bringing me down. Like my mom, when i stand up for someone she yells at me like i was the one who to blame, but when she stands up for someone and i disagree she ...
A. 7 September 2007: Hi,
It sounds like you need to fly the nest preety quickly.
I had a terrible relationship with my mother when I was a teenager. She was always beating up on me, and never shouted at my brothers. I could never understand why though. I was naughty ... (read in full...)
My 25 year old daughter and mom both say it would do us good to move to another state away from family and give us a fresh start.
Q. My husband of 5 months was offered a chance to be a co owner of a company that is very successful but he is afraid of change. Not just that his family is a very meddling family, they have to be in the middle of everything which started after we got ...
A. 7 September 2007: Hi,
You need to talk him into going. What an oportunity, is he mad not taking it?.
The family!! ah yes thats another matter. Why are they meddling in your business, and why are you letting them?. He is right, you should stand up to them. You dont... (read in full...)
How can I rid myself of this jealousy before I kill our relationship?
Q. I separated from my husband almost 18 months ago but have to remain in the same house due to financial pressures. Just after we separated I became more than friendly with a man I'd known from a distance, he told me he too was separated although I ...
A. 7 September 2007: This is a hard one. Is there no way the two of you could afford to get a place together. I dont think you will ever have peice of mind in this awfull situation.
The good thing is that if he is now working days he can see you a lot more. (Per... (read in full...)
I'm stalking a girl my boyfriend was seeing while we were on a break! Am I a psycho?
Q. This will sound strange, but i am 22 and i seem to have really weird emotional issues. i'm stalking a girl my boyfriend was seeing for 2 weeks while we were on a break back in january. she was devastated when he left her to get back with me but shes ...
A. 7 September 2007: Hi,
I think that you are jelous of her. Otherwise why would you do something so cruel.
You have your man back, and she has at last moved on, so you need to as well. Stop doing this or it will consume you, and its not normal. Its ok to be a bit curi... (read in full...)
I lost my virginity to a guy then he abused me. How do I get over feeling betrayed and used?
Q. I had sex with my bf after 10 months of going out with him. He was my first kiss, my first bf. I am 18 years old. However about a month after we had sex for the first time we broke up. I broke it off with him, however the reason why I did was ...
A. 4 September 2007: Hi Darling,
Its not you that should be ashamed, its him. You did nothing wrong apart from trust someone that was not worthy of your feelings.
Just put it down to experience, and I am sure there are many ladies on this site that would tell you the ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and never had a boyfriend. I feel there is nothing appealing about my personality. Could anyone advise me?
Q. Hey! I'm 15 years old and I have never had a proper boyfriend. I'm not bad looking but I don't feel I have much personality. I know guys would rather girls with a big personality and I feel insecure and that I'll never have a boyfriend becaus...
A. 4 September 2007: Hi,
First: stop running yourself down, we cant all be CO-CO the clown can we?. Just like we cant be as thin as Kate Moss.
You are only young and your personality will bloom as you get older. You sound a little shy, so you could try joining some clu... (read in full...)
My partners son said I hit him. I didn't and his 21 yr old sister lied and said I did to my partner. How can I deal with step children?
Q. I have reached the end of my tether with my partners children. My partners 9 year old son and his 21 year old step daughter live in Northern Ireland and visit during school holidays and for long weekends. In short they are horrible to me, ...
A. 4 September 2007: Hi,
I know exactly where you are coming from and your right its hell.
My partner also has two children, one of them is lovely and used to be my Saturday girl. The other is a boy who aparantly hates me, wishes me dead, and wants to set me on fire.... (read in full...)
I love to perform oral sex on my girlfriend on a daily basis, as many times as possible, but it is even better when she is on her period and I insist that she sits on my face...
Q. hello my name is vince and I am curious to know whether anybody else out there believes in vampires, I believe I am of this origin. I love to perform oral sex on my girlfriend on a daily basis, as many times as possible, but it is even better when ...
A. 3 September 2007: Oh please Maddie, get over yourself.
The Guy is obviously not sensitive or he would not have posted the question would he?
Yes its true, some guys can be into some weird stuff. Even worse than this, BUT, i dont care what you or anyone else says its... (read in full...)
He left me for his ex, but now he's back. I'm afraid of getting hurt again, so what should I do?
Q. hello. please i need help. i dated this guy 4 about 6 months when he disided to go back to his x girl friend. well its was very painfull 4 me but i could understand him as i know how it is when u r in love. but the thing is that i m not yet over him ...
A. 31 August 2007: Hi,
Do you know why they have split up, because this could be one of the reasons he wants to be back with you. What I mean is "did she finish with him".
If she didnt and you love him that much, you may have to take the chance and try. But if s... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my boyfriend, but I don't know what to do about our problems!
Q. I really need some advice, I have been with my boyfriend for about 5 months now and everything has been going really well, yeah like in any relationship we have had a argument or 2 but everything has always moved on and it has been fine. Over t...
A. 31 August 2007: Firstly you did nothing wrong, and whatever is going on in his head he needs to sort out.
I think if you left him alone for a few days he might realise he is spoiling your relationship, and come to his sences. But the more you question him and try ... (read in full...)
I looked at his bills, he saw me and ripped them out of my hands! Is there something to this?
Q. my boyfriend lives far from me. he visit me every 4 months. he just visit me last week and we had a great time together. but there was one thing confused me. i saw he has lots of bills from his bag. and i started to checking one by one. some of them ...
A. 31 August 2007: Hi,
Whatever it is you have the right to know the truth. Its obvious he is hiding something, it could be that he has got in debt or something like that.
If you live together and he is away a lot, how come these bills did not go to your house?. ... (read in full...)
I love to perform oral sex on my girlfriend on a daily basis, as many times as possible, but it is even better when she is on her period and I insist that she sits on my face...
Q. hello my name is vince and I am curious to know whether anybody else out there believes in vampires, I believe I am of this origin. I love to perform oral sex on my girlfriend on a daily basis, as many times as possible, but it is even better when ...
A. 31 August 2007: Hi Vlad,
Have you thought of saving her tampons and then you could make tea with them when she is dry.
God some werdo's get on here!!!
That was a joke by the way, not the werdo's the tampon's.
YUK YUK YUK... (read in full...)
If he brings me a present I'll feel bad as I told him I'm a material girl, if he doesn't I'll feel worse...
Q. Difficult situation, I'm damn escort, material girl, think I fell in love with a guy that does not treat me like that... I like him in some ways, but hate myself or at least don't feel well if don't get any profit from him... What the hell i ...
A. 31 August 2007: Are you Charley of this years big brother, because you sound like her.
Are material things that important, more important than love. Not in most peoples lifes i hope.
Why should he pay for all your drinks, meals out, presents ect. What do you do a... (read in full...)
I work for an older man, he is on the verge of divorce and I feel we have become close. What do I do?
Q. Hey guys, i am 20 yrs old and i work for a 40 yr old man (he is married with two kids and his daughter is only 2 yrs younger then me!!) Him and his wife are seperating and may even be getting a divorce. When i first started working with him i ...
A. 31 August 2007: Hi,
Him and his wife are seperating, but they havnt yet do you mean?. How do you know this, did he tell you or do you know this for a fact.
I would not go near him until he is properly seperated, otherwise you are going to get the blame for the ... (read in full...)
Things started to go bad after he found out I was working as a prostitute...
Q. Hi.. I was in a relationship with this guy for 2 years and we were also engaged....He found out that i was working as a prostitute and he was so angry and after some time he said he forgave me..Everything seemed like it was fine and we even went awa...
A. 31 August 2007: For gods sake!!!
This is never going to work while you work as a prostitute is it?.
If you love him get a normal job, and maybe he will change. I would very much doubt there are many men that could put up with there girlfriend doing this kind of ... (read in full...)
I've been engaged to him for over 4 years, suddenly he wants to break it off despite of the fact he says he loves me.
Q. i have been engaged for 4 1/2 yrs to a great man. Suddenly he wants to break it off says its not working but loves me and tells me every day. i am heart broken and could never imagine being with anyone else. i talk about us everyday and cry and ...
A. 31 August 2007: Hi,
Do you live together and is he leaving you?. Its very sad when one person feels differently to there partner, but the cold fact is, you cannot force him to stay engaged if thats not what he wants.
He probably does love you in his own way, but... (read in full...)
I stopped at my uncles and erased some stuff off his pc. Do you think he is still mad at me?
Q. I recently went to an all expense paid vacation at my uncle's. He paid for the airplane ticket, and everything. It was a great vacation and I was very happy. The most important thing is that this was his idea. He wanted to do this to help me because ...
A. 31 August 2007: In all honesty Yes.
They may have been very important to him and somethings you can never get back again.
But you have said how sorry you were and there's not a lot more you can do.
I would Email him again telling him how bad you feel, not on... (read in full...)
A girl I like said I was 'nice' What does 'nice' actually mean?
Q. There is this girl that i have met, she is very pretty and has a great personallity. After a couple days of knowing her i asked her what she thought of me, and all she could say was that i was "nice". my question is what does she mean by "nice"?...
A. 31 August 2007: Hi,
It means nice, not horrible. Are you asking if she may wish to date you?.
She could be shy and like you but not know how to say it, or she could mean nice as in a friend. Only time will tell. You could just carry on and see where it leads, j... (read in full...)
Was getting back with my ex, Now I'm panicking cuz he's not txt and his phone's off???
Q. was going out with my bf for a year. we broke up and i never made a secret of how i wanted to get back together. last weekend he said he felt the same and would like to get together soon, my prob is im a worrier really badly and haven't heard from...
A. 31 August 2007: Hi,
Of course you will worry, its normal. Its a huge step getting back together after a split.
You dont say why you broke up in the first place, so its hard to say if you have anything to worry about. If I were you I would send him a text message ... (read in full...)
I'm wondering if my guy is cheating with my friend..what do you think???
Q. I think my boyfriend is cheating on me with an old old friend of mine. we've been together for about 2 years and he has cheated before (dont give me shit about it, we're all abit deluded when we really love someone...) thing is, i am not up for ...
A. 29 August 2007: Hi,
I agree it does sound very fishy, but you dont really have any proof do you?.
You are accusing him non-stop so perhaps thats why he is getting angry with you. I think you should be a bit more clever and try to catch him out, and if it doesnt w... (read in full...)
My guy can be verbully abusive, and has been txting someone else. Am I heading for an abusive relationship?
Q. Hi, just alittle reassurance needer here please. My bf and i have been together for 11 months. Two months ago i foun out that he was smsing another girl and she was smsing him back (she was from his past)When i confronted him, he told me that he did ...
A. 29 August 2007: Hi,
I think if you are prepared to split up if he doesnt change, you could go along with it and give him a chance. I dont want to tell you what you should do, only you know whats in your heart. But please be carefull, and remember he has lied to y... (read in full...)
I've been having an affair with an attached girl, I want her to leave him, can her relationship survive with him??
Q. Just after some different opinions bout me problem. I know its bad but been having an affair wiv a girl whos got a boyfriend of three years. It was both emotional and sexual and quite highly charged. We became v close through it. Think it started ...
A. 28 August 2007: Hi,
Can I just say, that if she really wasn't in love with the guy why hasn't she left him. It sounds like she has the stable life with him and you are the bit on the side. They have no commitment to each other, and yet she wont give this up.
I won... (read in full...)
My guy can be verbully abusive, and has been txting someone else. Am I heading for an abusive relationship?
Q. Hi, just alittle reassurance needer here please. My bf and i have been together for 11 months. Two months ago i foun out that he was smsing another girl and she was smsing him back (she was from his past)When i confronted him, he told me that he did ...
A. 28 August 2007: Hi,
I would say run as fast as you can. Not only has this guy constantly lied to you, but he is verbally abusive.
Why do you want to put up with that anyway. I understand you have feelings for him, but really this guy sounds horrid.
Surely yo... (read in full...)
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