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This seems so right but we both know it is so wrong but can't end it.

Q.   I need some help.I have a friend, a dear friend who has always been there for me and I have fallen in love with him. We are both married although my marriage is abusive and generally unhappy. He and his wife work away alot and she isnt always t...

A.   8 February 2008: in my opinion, women are more stronger then men. suppose, u happen to quit ur marriage, do u think ur friend will still stand up for u, or atleast b there for u? he might feel totally lost once u r alone and left out. obviously, ull be left alone as ... (read in full...)

How can I learn to like giving blow jobs and how can I develop a healthy libido again?

Q.   I am 18 and I have been married for a little more than a year. We have a baby boy who is almost one years old. I got pregnant the first time I had sex and I think that maybe that really damaged my libido. It's really hard for me to get in the ...

A.   6 November 2007: i suggest u do a '69'with him and just concentrate on ur emotions and how u r feeling and try to ignore u r giving a bj. im sure if he really loves bj, eventually he will look for outlets if u dont satisfy to save ur emotions, ... (read in full...)

We only had a brief fling, now my neighbour won't talk to me

Q.   Is this normal behaviour from a 54 year old man? He(R) lives across the road from me. 6 years ago when I moved in we got to know each other and I fell for him quickly and hard. When we tried to make love, he was unable to sustain his erection. ...

A.   6 November 2007: i feel he is just hurt becoz his male ego was hurt. I dont suppose its easy for any man to face a woman after he fails during sex. he is avoiding u becoz he can't face u not becoz he is angry or doesn't want to talk to u. maybe, he also feels the ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend asked for a break, will we get back together?

Q.   A few days ago, my boyfriend suggested that we take a break. He said that at the moment, school and work are taking a toll on him and our relationship is stressing him because he doesn't feel he has the time he needs to put into it. He said he ...

A.   6 November 2007: i think u should give it time as he is unsure too.Don't make hasty decisions, wait till he completes school and his mind can focus on u completely. don't rush things, don't chase him...that will make him run away even more...but talk to him very ... (read in full...)

I like him he like's me, he's married, is this why he won't reply to my messages now?

Q.   ok this is driving me mad, this guy i like is married so i dont really see him that often,anyway ive been told he likes me, but i sent a text message to him today its not much just asking if i could meet up with him, hes still not written anything ...

A.   6 November 2007: I would definitely advise u to stay away from him. u already admit its a school girl's crush, so obviously things will spice up once u get more acquainted with him. he is also obviously trying to stay away from u as he very well anticipates the ... (read in full...)

I don't know what she feels for me.

Q.   Hi to all that reads this I have been with my partner for 23 years now and have three grown up children all still at home. Its very rare my partner and I sleep together I sleep downstairs on the setee we do not do anything together on our own our ...

A.   4 November 2007: its high time u should start saving ur relationship. u cannot afford to lose ur life partner of 23yrs, 3 grown up children and ur 'home' (not a house) for a "customer's kiss". u have struggled & invested ur youth for a peaceful and fufilled life... (read in full...)

I don't know how to talk to her without seeiming like a jerk

Q.   Hello. I'm 16 and about a month ago I found out that the girl I've had a massive crush on for five years has felt the same way for me all that time. The problem is that for 3 of those 5 years she was at another school and, during that time, got a ...

A.   4 November 2007: Obviously a love triangle. but all is fair in love n war. if u have feelings for her and dont want to lose her, u better hurry before someone takes her from you right infront of ur eyes. not telling her about ur feelings now will only prick like ... (read in full...)

Trying to move on without thinking about who he may be with next.

Q.   Why is he doing this? I broke up with my ex a month ago, but he has already added lots of friends to his myspace that are girls and adds lots of pictures of him with girls to his other website. I know I shouldn't look at it but it hurts me terribly ...

A.   3 November 2007: u r feeling this way coz he was also ur friend, not just ur lover, and obviously u r jealous and so is he. maybe, he just posted all that for 'YOU' to see. he knew u r bound to evesdrop and he wants to hurt u for hurting him. Mostly, we women get ... (read in full...)

Why did I do this to myself? Have I become the 'other woman'?

Q.   I don’t know why I let this happen!!! I was married for 23 years he had an affair that he would not end so I filed for divorce. That all happened since May 2005. Divorce is final as of June 2006. I still love this man but he has chosen to live ...

A.   3 November 2007: no, definitely you are not the "other woman". Infact, you are the first woman and you are the one who is hurt and cheated in the first place. Living with him for 23yrs itself proves your loyalty and commitment. He only came back to you because now ... (read in full...)

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