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Hi, I have been through loads in my life. Marriage break up, boyfriend break ups, and been a single parent. I have been treated really bad sometimes, but i think this is all to do with life. I dont hold grudges, and have a good sence of humour. I just love all my friends and family, and have loads of support from them. So i thought i could share that with a few of you. I have asked for advice a few times. You dont always want to hear it, but there are some smart people out there.

I have now found, after a lot of searching, my soul mate. But lifes not all a bed of roses for us. But he keeps me smiling, well most of the time anyway.

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My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   6 April 2009: Glad to hear that, I'm really pleased for you honey. Take care and enjoy your new life...you certainly deserve it. XXXX... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   17 July 2008: Sarcy, its only expensive because you both made it that way. I totally understand how upset and bitter you were, but you cannot stop this man from seeing his child, no matter how you feel about it. Because its totally un-fair on your son. You are ... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   2 May 2008: Uncle Phil is right babe!! dont hang it out anymore than you have to. Except he is gone and have a good cry, but for goodness sake dont let those solicitors have any more of your money. Even if they get him to admit he is the biggest ar**hole in the ... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   1 May 2008: Honey!! I cant believe that you called him. Its so obvious that he doesnt want anything to do with you, why keep hurting yourself. You know deep down that the only reason you called him was to get him to respond to you!! I dont know why you bother? ... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   14 April 2008: I kind of agree with the last poster. Solicitors will do anything to earn some more out of the poor sod going through this pain. Really it doesnt matter what you divorce him for, its not as if he will have lying cheating sh** across his head. No b... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   10 March 2008: I wish I could give you a hug, I knew you would get there in the end. Hip Hip Horah XXXXXX... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   5 March 2008: Thank God!!! you are actually staring to fight this man back. I can also tell you why he cant look you in the face, it's guilt nothing else. For whatever reason he has for his actions, does not mean you have to take it laying down. Go for what... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   1 March 2008: Hi Honey, Reading your post, I can see that you have still got extremely strong feelings for this man. I know that its hard to let go of any hope, but I think that your husband has proved over and over again that you have no option. He has move... (read in full...)

Husband having midlife crisis?? I want affection from him but I've read men don't offer it during this time. What can I do?

Q.   I am a 31 yr old female with a 37 yr old husband of 10 yrs, been together 15, have 2 boys, 4 and 7. Husband I think is going through midlife crisis. Last yr he decided to have an affair for 2 months in which i caught him in, he then moved out, ...

A.   13 November 2007: You sound like a very resonable lady, maybe a little too resonable. I wonder if it had been the other way around would have had you back. I am sorry but I dont believe in the Mid-Life crisis thing either. We all have our ups and downs in life, but ... (read in full...)

My partner calls his ex twice-third times a day - to ask about his children, he says. Am I being unreasonable?

Q.   my partner sees his children twice a week 1 evening during the week and all day sunday as he works long hours those are the only times possible which i am in total agreement with; the problem i have is he calls his ex wife twice maybe three times a ...

A.   13 November 2007: The main thing is, if he is in a relationship with you, he is being very unfair. It may be guilt that he calls them, or it could be that he cant let go and misses them a lot. I dont agree with the Aunts that say, "He comes home to you so why are ... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   13 November 2007: Hiya! I am so pleased for you, your sounding so much better, and a hell of a lot more positive. Good for you. Its so nice when you try and help someone and they feel like there is no light at the end of the tunnel, and then they begin to see that... (read in full...)

Do I leave him?

Q.   ive been with my boyfriend for three years and we selpt together and im not a virgin anymore but here in egypt you cant tell that you`re not a virgin. one year ago i lied to him but i didnt mean to i was supposed to travel for the weekend but i di...

A.   13 November 2007: Hi, I am just interested to know why you had to lie to him just because you wanted some time wiith your friends. Its not a crime is it? And I totally agree with the others, you shouldnt stay with the guy just because your not a virgin anymore.... (read in full...)

Can anyone tell me what's going on in my mind?

Q.   Im 47 a housewife just divorced my husband. We've been married for 20 years. He is a control freak and very selfish. Im not happy with him for many years but just dont have the encourage to leave him. Now Im on my own. Soon after my divorce ...

A.   13 November 2007: Hi, I dont know what you want anyone to say. You dont want to leave him, but you know he is mean. So what is the point of being with him. You may get a bit of attention, but its early days. You can bet your life that will change. You are the s... (read in full...)

Will he ever leave her?

Q.   Please help me im in love with a married man who doesnt live near me. We see each other often. We have been together 6 month they have only been married 4. Will he ever leave? I want to move to be closer to him but dont think he would agree. ...

A.   13 November 2007: Honey, Stop waisting your time. Do you mean he has only been married for 4 months, becuase if you have been together for 6 what the hell did he marry the other one for. Sorry babe but you are being used. Cut your loses and run. He will only ma... (read in full...)

My daughter's bf is disrespectful - and I don't know how to handle this. I've taken care of my grandchildren up to now.

Q.   My Daughters bf just shows no respect .. my daughter has been dating this guy for about 5 yrs they have 2 children together , My daughter and her children live with me . My one grandaughter is almost 3 and they other is abt 8 months the 8 mth has ...

A.   13 November 2007: Hi again, I understand completely that you want to support your daughter and grandchildren. And I wasnt sugesting that she was a lazy cow who didnt want to work. You two are not the problem, its him. But unfortunatly buy you suporting your daughter... (read in full...)

My daughter's bf is disrespectful - and I don't know how to handle this. I've taken care of my grandchildren up to now.

Q.   My Daughters bf just shows no respect .. my daughter has been dating this guy for about 5 yrs they have 2 children together , My daughter and her children live with me . My one grandaughter is almost 3 and they other is abt 8 months the 8 mth has ...

A.   12 November 2007: Hi, Oh you poor thing, your right in the middle of it. He has got it made really hasn't he?. Doesnt have to pay for anything while you struggle to make ends meet. You wont like what I am going to say, but here goes. He is not the only one to blam... (read in full...)

I slept with my my bf's brother 8 yrs ago. Sometimes we're happy, sometimes he suddenly brings up this issue. Why?

Q.   I have fallen in love with a guy who has been a friend of mine for so long. I really love him and his daughter so much. I have always gone to him for relationship advice and other issues. We have been living together and working on a relationship ...

A.   12 November 2007: Hi, You cant!, The longer you let him carry this on, the worse he will become. You have tried to persude him that his brother meens nothing to you. And the only one that you care about is him. This is his problem, and he needs to see that (he) not ... (read in full...)

Could I get pregnant by another man and claim it was my husband's child?

Q.   I have a husband,and want a child from him.He also likes a child from me. But he can't give birth.Can i get pregnant from other and tell him that it is yours? Is there a method of checking who the parents of the child are?What can i do-please help...

A.   12 November 2007: Hi, Yes as Seratuki has said, your husband cant give birth and they would be able to tell if he is not the father. Seriously though, how do you know he cannot have children, and how do you know that he is the one with the problem?. Have you had the ... (read in full...)

What is holding him back?

Q.   I've been with my bf over 2 years. We have off/on discussed future plans, including buying a home and marriage. We've both been married before (his divorce is not yet final); we have kids similar ages. I knew sometime ago that I was committed to him ...

A.   12 November 2007: Hi, You are handling this fantastically. You have done the right thing, by giving him time to think about what he wants. Not many women or men would have the guts to do that. You must understand, that he has been hurt deeply by his ex. And for some... (read in full...)

I've been sleeping with my husbands best friend! He doesn't know. What should I do?

Q.   Ok Guys And Gals here's my problem.2 yrs ago i did a very stupid thing and slept with my husbands best friend 3 times(over the course of a year)My Husband and i were having a really bad time and his friend was a shoulder to cry on so to speak.He ...

A.   12 November 2007: Yes honey I have. I fell in love with my boss, which I am really ashamed of. His marriage was on the rocks, but that was no excuse. I should have sorted that we were both single first, and no one got hurt. But we were totally selfish, and want... (read in full...)

TEXT ME BACK!

Q.   There's a guy I used to work with who I'm also sleeping with. The problem is that leading up to me staying at his place we'll be texting loads, but afterwards he doesnt text and wont reply to my messages. Then 2-3 weeks later he'll text and be like ...

A.   12 November 2007: 2-3 weeks before he gets credit on his phone? Sorry the guy is a user and a moron. But you dont have to put up with it do you. There are plenty more fish in the sea Babe, dont lower yourself to speak to him again. XXX... (read in full...)

I like another woman! Please, please help me!

Q.   PLEASE take time to read this...and help me if you can... Basically, I'm a 20 year old girl and for about 3 years now I've been completly besotted by another woman... She's 32 and single, but I don't know what her sexual orientation is. ...

A.   12 November 2007: Hi, Rather than asking her outright, which is the only way you would know for sure. Have you thought about telling her that you are sick of men, and are not sure about your own sexuality. Just to see how she reacts. If she laughs at you, you can ... (read in full...)

I've been sleeping with my husbands best friend! He doesn't know. What should I do?

Q.   Ok Guys And Gals here's my problem.2 yrs ago i did a very stupid thing and slept with my husbands best friend 3 times(over the course of a year)My Husband and i were having a really bad time and his friend was a shoulder to cry on so to speak.He ...

A.   12 November 2007: What do you mean! you cant control yourself. Its wrong and you know it, but what you do is up to you. Clearly neither of you have any morals.... (read in full...)

Why don't I feel pregnant??

Q.   hI i'M 19 and 11 weeks pregnant with my fiance of 2 years and we've decided to keep it but my question is why don't I feel pregnant? I mean I'm not showing much and I havent had my first scan yet because we only decided to keep it recently and my d...

A.   12 November 2007: Hi, I didnt know that I was pregnant for 6 months. I had periods like normal (a tiny bit lighter, but regular) and no morning sickness at all. In fact, I only found out because I wanted to wear a skin tight dress, and my tummy was a little bit fatt... (read in full...)

I'm his wife, yet he loves his first fiancee more.

Q.   my husband and i have been married almost 2 years, together for 4 1/2. about a month ago he announced he wanted a divorce. apparently he found the "love of his life" a woman that had been his first fiance, 27 years ago. i was unaware that we were ...

A.   12 November 2007: Hi, Pack his bags and tell him to go. He is the one that wants out of the relationship, so let him have the problem of finding somewhere else to live. Dont! Whatever you do let this man bully you, into giving up your home. What a cruel and callous ... (read in full...)

I want my parents to accept my soon-to-be, tatooed and pierced boyfriend!

Q.   ok, so im almost 18 and my guy friend and i decided we would wait until im 18 to start dating, because hes 21. he is one of those tattooed and pierced guys, and i want my parents to be okay with him, how do i tell them about him so that they are ...

A.   9 November 2007: Hi, You need to warn your parents what he looks like first, otherwise it could be a bit of a shock to them. Also you need to tell them how respectfull he is of you, to wait until you are 18 before you date properly. I have no tatoo's myself, ... (read in full...)

I'm confused, I kissed this older guy, now I don't know what to do?

Q.   I like this guy alot and I have for a while but I dont know what to do...Last night we were at a party together and he was upset while makeing himself some food and I was just like whats wrong and he said his daughter and I just look at him with all ...

A.   9 November 2007: Hi, How much older is he?. I mean are we talking 10 years or more. He probably said he cant remember because he is embarrased that you wont want to know, and will laugh at him. I dont know about America, but the age of consent here in the U.K is 1... (read in full...)

Am I being a jerk?

Q.   It's been eight months since i broke up with my high school sweetheart of four years. She's pregnant and getting married but i still think about her. I've dated alot and got over most of the junk with a relationship that lasted three months. I'm ...

A.   9 November 2007: Just wanted to say simply, YES you are a jerk. And i think you know that already. If you stay with this poor girl and it lasted a few years and you happened to go bald. How would you like it if she said "oh sorry I dont do men with no hair". A... (read in full...)

I'm not coping and I'm so confused. What can I do?

Q.   Well my boyfriend broke up with me 4 months ago now. We had been together for 2 years and had been engaged for over a year. We were a perfect couple but things started to go wrong when i kept falling out with him over stupid things and now i hate ...

A.   9 November 2007: Hello darling, Nothing is worth killing yourself for, I tried it myself when my husband left me with 2 little kids. I know how you feel, and your heart is breaking,. You feel like you will never get over it, and nothing anyone can say will make you... (read in full...)

Why can't I get a relationship for more than three months.

Q.   why cant i stay in a relationship for more than 3 months, after that i always try pushing away, finding her flaws, and making fun of her? all in all i become an asshole...

A.   9 November 2007: Hi, I have a 20 year old male friend with exactly the same issues. Only he only lasts about a month before he gets fed up. I was talking to him the other day, and he is seeing a really nice girl, but the signs are that he is becoming bored. H... (read in full...)

Am I foolish or should I trust him?

Q.   PLEASE HELP!!!! I have a boyfriend of 15 months who is so good to me. He's everything I could ever ask for. Smart, funny, attentive, and so kind to me...truly everything. We are both early 40's. The problem is that when we first started ...

A.   9 November 2007: Hi, No I dont think it makes him a cheater. If he only just got out of his marriage, he was probably dating a few ladies to boost his ego. Until he thought he may lose you, he would have gone on doing it, as in his mind he had said nothing abou... (read in full...)

Is this normal behaviour?

Q.   I moved in with my boyfriend a year ago with my two children. The problem is he is vey huffy, over the slightest of things and will huff for weeks...he goes off and sleeps in another bed and does not speak to me at all. is this normal?...

A.   9 November 2007: Hi, Well its normal for him by the sound of it. But I wouldnt say it was normal behaviour for a grown up really. What does he get Huffy about, is it small things or the children, maybe. Have you tried talking a about this problem when he isn't Hu... (read in full...)

How can I get my friend to speak to me? Did I do something wrong?

Q.   Hi all, would like an opinion on this please. I had a firework party the other night. Inviting all the people that I care about and all my friends. The trouble is that two of them used to date, and although they are really cool about the situatio...

A.   8 November 2007: Hi, Thanks for all the reply's I will take your advice and let her cool down a bit. After all I really didnt do anything wrong and I have apologised twice. She is a good lady, and I am sure she will come round eventually. Thanks again Guys XXX... (read in full...)

I'm married, never cheated on my husband, and the tests reveal I'm HIV positive. How do I tell him this...?

Q.   How can I handle my life? I'm 30 yrs old I have i'm married for 6 yrs now. i didn't have sex with other guys but when i tested my blood i'm positive with HIV, do you recommend to tell to my husband? He will kill himself and I belive him he didn'...

A.   6 November 2007: God, how awfull for you. I would go back to the hospital and have this tested again. Have you had a blood transfusion, or is there any posible way that you could have contracted this illness another way. I know that you dont want to tell you husb... (read in full...)

A loving boyfriend and a busy soul mate. Whom do I choose?

Q.   I have a boy friend and he loves me a lottt ! he is always there to help me. Spends hours with me daily n i loved being with him until i found another guy (X). X is extremely similar to be in habbits, activities, perspectives towards life. We are ...

A.   6 November 2007: YOU KNOW WHAT THEY SAY ABOUT THE GRASS BEING GREENER. I would put a bet on,(and I am not a gambling person) that X will drop you like a hot potato when he does become famous. He's not showing that he's really keen anyway. The excitment may not be t... (read in full...)

Was I a fool?

Q.   i went to visit my long distant boyfriend for almost two months, whilst in that country and a few days after i had arrived i realized he was seeing another lady. i confronted the lady when she called the house and told my boyfriend to put a stop to ...

A.   2 November 2007: Hi, You have nothing to feel bad about, he lied to you, not the other way round. Your not a fool, you trusted someone with no integrity, and that was not your fault. Its easy to say "plenty more fish in the sea", but believe me its so! so! true. X... (read in full...)

I'll have to face the fact of him being friends with his ex.

Q.   My boyfriend went out to eat lunch with his ex girlfriend two day after my birthday and didn't tell me. I found out because I was using his phone because my friend and I were texting on his phone and I came across the text from her saying, "I c...

A.   2 November 2007: Hi, If he had anything to hide he wouldnt have let you have the use of his phone. It is possible to stay friends with an Ex, and have no emotional atatchment. I think if I were you I would trust him. When she settles down with someone it wont be ... (read in full...)

My heart cries out for her. What am I supposed to do?

Q.   I broke up with my ex-girlfriend about four months ago after a five year on-off relationship. I always wanted to be with her, we could communicate naturally and easily, we wanted the same things out of life and I felt so comfortable with her. She ...

A.   2 November 2007: Hi, I am sorry if I have upset you, but I stand by my reasoning. In fact yes we do all have our flaws, and of course it wouldn't be natural if we didnt argue sometimes. But you did say even in your last post, that she was bossy, false, unem... (read in full...)

My heart cries out for her. What am I supposed to do?

Q.   I broke up with my ex-girlfriend about four months ago after a five year on-off relationship. I always wanted to be with her, we could communicate naturally and easily, we wanted the same things out of life and I felt so comfortable with her. She ...

A.   1 November 2007: Hi, If she was that right for you, wouldnt you still be together?. I think its because she has moved on and you haven't been able to yet. But give yourself time and you will. Take it one day at a time, and try to keep busy and not think about ... (read in full...)

Do I like him or am I just missing him as a friend?

Q.   I have a friend who I am very close to. He has a gf. The other day he told me that he really likes me and finds me really attractive. But i didnt want to get between him and his gf. But recently i havnt been able to see him (i am ill), and i have...

A.   1 November 2007: Hi, You are right to not get involved while he has a girlfriend. I would just give it a bit of time and see what happens, but it sounds like you are rather more fond of him than just as a friend. Hope you feel better soon XX... (read in full...)

He dumped me 3 times in 5 weeks and now wants back again. Do I give him one more chance?

Q.   ive been seeing this guy for 2 weeks then we finally ended up getting together he then asked if we could have a baby together so we agreed and decided he would move in with me. after a month i keep getting people saying his past to me and so i ...

A.   1 November 2007: Give him another chance?. Are you mad love. Look you let the guy move in with you far to quickly, and he has turned out to be a rat. In my opinion the brother is not much better, sniffing around because you have been dumped. I would not bother with... (read in full...)

Sexually assaulted and still a virgin at 25! Is this normal?

Q.   Hi, I am a 25 year old Australian guy who is still a virgin. I am wondering if this is normal. I consider myself to be good looking, intelligant ( I doing my doctorate in clinical psychology) and socially active. I was sexualy assaulted ...

A.   1 November 2007: Hi, What is normal!! Its unusual that you havn't had sex at that age, but it doesnt make you abnormal does it?. reading through you question, its seems to me that you are taking yourself a little to serious. I know you say that you were sexuall... (read in full...)

At what age are you too old to have a 'Brazilian'?

Q.   Hi Summer is fast aproaching here in Australia and the weather is warning up. Which means going on holiday and going to the beach. My wife always gets a new bikini at the start of summer and for the past few years a brazilian wax. This year...

A.   1 November 2007: God!! I hope that at that age your not concidered to old just to have your muff waxed. I think its great that you think she still looks good. Most guys dont take that much notice. Well done you XX... (read in full...)

3 weeks ago we were hoping to be pregnant, and talking about our family to be, and now we seem to be on the path to divorce. I don't know what to do.

Q.   Sorry, this will probably be long. Just found this site, here's my story. Been with my wife for 6 years, married for one (just had anniversary). When we got married, we immediatly decided to have children, but for the past year we have not been able ...

A.   1 November 2007: Hi, This is a tough situation, and I feel really sorry for the both of you. Are you sure she is not seeing her co-worker anymore, because its no good going to see a councillor if she is still being dis-honest. I have no doubt that she feels gu... (read in full...)

How can I get away from my present and past at least for a while? Had a divorce recently...

Q.   hi aunts and uncles, honestly, im a bit nervous. i work in siemens saudi arabia and right now going through a very tough phase due to my recent divorce seven months ago of an eighteen year long marriage and three kids. i was just too down and i li...

A.   1 November 2007: Hi, Glad you joined us. Its tough going through divorce, and you feel like nothing will be normal again, but it will. Give yourself time to heal and try to keep your chin up. The good thing about coming on here is that there are so many people ... (read in full...)

I worry about everything and even compare him to my ex, I don't want to be like this - help!

Q.   I feel so confused and messed up at the moment. I have been in a relationship with my bf for a month now and i dont feel happy in it. He treats me right, well I think he does anyway and he doesnt do anything overly wrong. Compare him to my ex bf who ...

A.   30 October 2007: Hi Honey, What worries me about this question is that you seem to have no respect for yourself. Your confidence is at an all time low as well. You need to sort out yourself before everything else will fall into place. Believe me I have been the... (read in full...)

I feel guilty about having cheated, the relationship won't be the same if I tell her.

Q.   ive been with my girlfriend for a year and a month now. last night i cheated on her, i dont know what came over me. i feel so ashamed and guilty since my girlfriend is so amazing. i do love my girlfriend and she loves me, ive been thinking i should ...

A.   30 October 2007: Hi, Sorry but I agree with Egghead. If she finds out from someone else in the future she will be devastated. You cannot go through life, doing things like this, without Consequences. And besides she needs to know why you did this to her in the firs... (read in full...)

We have a relationship and I feel this other woman from miles away who he told me not to worry about in the beginning, is still in the scripts, calling late at night etc.

Q.   Dear Cupids My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months, (I pat myself on the back) the relationship has been growing very nicely and we are so in love with each other. He has the best qualities i need from a man and he really knows how...

A.   24 October 2007: Hi, Get rid of him, he is using you and you are letting him. Why is he having any contact with her anyway, unless like you say he is still atatched to her in some way. You say this has happened in the past to you, dont let it happen again. You a... (read in full...)

Ex husband suggested reconciliacion, when I agreed he said it was too late as he found another - now he tells people it was me who wanted to get back, making me look like a fool! How do I get past this?

Q.   why did my ex husband say he wanted to get back with me,after a year then i said give me abit of time to think,and i said ok lets give it ago and he said its to late he has found someone else and wants to be with her.the new women told me she was no ...

A.   24 October 2007: Listen Honey, You are certainly not a fool. And I presume this idiot you were married too was around the same age as you. He should grow up a bit dont you think?. Just because you didnt jump to a decision straight away, he imediatly finds someone ... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   20 September 2007: Hi, I have been sitting reading what has happened to you with a lump in my throat. Its so sad when you are in love with someone who falls for someone else. I should know this has happened to me. But surely by now you can see that the only time he ... (read in full...)

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