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I'm a hairdresser,so I listen to people all day every day.I become friends with my clients and they share with me all their happy,sad,troubled,fear and excitement feelings.In my trade,you cant talk out,so you learn how to just listen without giving advice or talking to other people about your client/friend's lives.So,I know you can talk to me,and I'll listen.I dont always have answers,most of the time just opinions,but I know I'll always try my best to be supportive:-)

My husband betrayed me and has no excuse, what to I do?

Q.   Hi there, just wondered if there is anyone out there been through what I am going through now. I have been with my husband for 10yrs and we have 5 gorgeous kids, the youngest 4mths old. Whilst I was pregnant with her I discovered he had been having ...

A.   15 August 2008: I sorted almost the same thing as you.My fiance cheated on me with his ex wife,more than once,it was a relationship in our relationship,and it took me by complete suprise,because he also used to bad mouth her,saying how he wished he had never met ... (read in full...)

He kissed his ex, wanted more... Should I stay? How do I trust him?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years, in the beginning of our relationship I found him emotionally cheating via email with 3 other women. Since then I have always had trust issues, I am constantly checking his email, voicemail, myspace. ...

A.   12 August 2008: I am going through exactly the same thing,well,not exactly,worse actually.My fiance DID end up sleeping with his ex wife and also did the please forgive me,it was a mistake thing,blah blah blah,and I tell you,I'm going through hell everyday.He is ... (read in full...)

I worry about shaving my pubic area... how can my friends do it?

Q.   Basically, 1. I am 16 and a 32D. All my friends are sizes 30F or 32F etc. I am scared i don't get any bigger because i haven't changed in a year. I am really worried. 2. Recently my friends have been speaking about shaving their pubic hair and o...

A.   18 July 2008: Stop worrying about your breast size,its something you can do nothing about till you're old enough to pay for breastimplants.Let your natural body clock do its work,and remember that you are unique.About your pubic area.Do you just want to shave it ... (read in full...)

I lied and cheated on her, but she is still with me after 3 years, does this mean she really loves me?

Q.   a friend of mine told me about someone he was so crazy about but he was too scared to make the first move, so when i saw that i just went to her to propose love,my point at that time i was having a girlfriend but couldn't miss someone so cool and ...

A.   18 July 2008: Yes,she loves you unconditionally.You know it and you know now that you have stuffed around with the best thing that has ever happened to you,and I think the guilt is killing you inside.If she hasn't cheated on you up till now,she wont.If you really ... (read in full...)

Why, after all the things he promised me and after telling me he loved me, could he reject me so quickly and without explanation?

Q.   I broke up 2 months ago with a man I had been seeing for 8 months. He treated me well and we spent many happy times together and even talked about the prospect of living together in the future. He often mentioned his ex wife and how terrible she had ...

A.   17 July 2008: I'm so sorry for what you are going through.I'm in a almost similar situation.My fiance cheated on me with his ex wife,whom he swore to me,was the worst thing that ever happened to him.He made me believe that I was the answer to all his prayers and ... (read in full...)

Does anyone know, if urinating in a woman's vagina is harmful, or would create a medical problem?

Q.   dear cupid. i just want to find out if urinating close to or in my fiances vagina is dangerous. we have a good sexlife but we are carefull when it comes to extreme fetishes. i would like a medical review about it. thanx...

A.   17 July 2008: I think the infection thing is definately something to think about and the fact that men have trouble pee-ing whilst having a erection,but if you and your partner are both turned on by it,go for it!Just remember,dont try it on a electric bed ... (read in full...)

Does anyone know, if urinating in a woman's vagina is harmful, or would create a medical problem?

Q.   dear cupid. i just want to find out if urinating close to or in my fiances vagina is dangerous. we have a good sexlife but we are carefull when it comes to extreme fetishes. i would like a medical review about it. thanx...

A.   17 July 2008: I think the infection thing is definately something to think about and the fact that men have trouble pee-ing whilst having a erection,but if you and your partner are both turned or by it,go for it!Just remember,dont try it on a electric bed ... (read in full...)

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