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Archived questions from: 3 October, 2006 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My 26 year old BF lied and said he was 36 (I'm 41) - is this age difference the problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6418 days ago

3 October 2006 (F) - i am 41 years old, i am with a man 26 years old. When i met him he told me he was 36 and i believed him. A year down the line, through his actions, i worked out he was not 36. Anyway i feel he is not ready for a relationship or at least not with...

He is chatting to other women online and looking at disgusting sites!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6420 days ago

3 October 2006 (?) - I met my partner 16 months ago and up until recently i thought we had a good relationship that was honest and open. About two months ago we brought the computer and he started to get obsessed with it. I realised that something was really wrong with ...

I left horrible msgs on his phone thinking he was cheating, I was wrong, now he won't answer my calls!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6420 days ago

3 October 2006 (F) - Hi there. Friday night my man went out with the boys so when i called his house his brother told me he had gone out. I tried his mobile but it was not being replied. Next day he called to apologize. Saturday same thing happened ( i had missed ...

I always thought we would get back together, but now she is engaged to someone else!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6420 days ago

3 October 2006 (M) - Help! My ex-fiancee and I have been broken up for the last 3 years. We still keep in touch, (both sides) and there is 100% a special deep connection (she agrees). I realize it is too length to mention all the particulars, but in a nutshell, I br...

The guy I like is engaged but he likes me - how do I get him to leave her for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6418 days ago

3 October 2006 (F) - I met this guy who was engaged and we were good mates. He told me wasn't happy with his girlfriend and didnt really want to marry her, he told me he really liked and kissed me said he couldnt leave her coz he will lose his house. I really like him ...

He left me because I couldn't let go of a past mistake he made, now I want him back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6420 days ago

3 October 2006 (F) - My ex left almost 3 weeks ago - he had lived with me for 2 yrs. He said i pushed him away. Its hard b/c i work with him and see him everyday. I held on to a mistake he made when we first got together and i became insecure and jealous. I have now...

What happened to the theory that males liked sex more than females? I like sex..a lot..so what's wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6317 days ago

3 October 2006 (F) - I think I want sex more than my b/f does. But I thought guys loved sex. What happened to that theory? Most of the time, if I make advances, my b/f turns me down, so I try to be patient and wait for him to call the shots but that seems one-sided ...

How can I stop being overly paranoid about my bf?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

3 October 2006 (F) - Hey everyone My problem is that im being majorly over paranoid and im not sure what to do My bf is away at the moment and will be for roughly another 3 weeks He is great and sometimes sends me really sweet texts but if i dont here from hm i beg...

He didnt remember our anniversary, when I told him he just acted like normal, and then went bed earlier than usual!!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

3 October 2006 (M) - Do people normally make a special time of an anniversary? My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. I deemed it to be a very special day and put in a lot of effort. He had completely forgotton. I was okay with him forgetting as he...

I miss the excitment in our relationship, how can we get it back ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

3 October 2006 (F) - hi...i really don't understand what has been happening to my realtionship lately..but it just seems like the flame is dying. i am in love with him but i want him to just slam me aganist a wall or something or bring me roses out of the blue. how do i ...

My girl cheated, I really love her! Was it really a genuine mistake ?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 6216 days ago

3 October 2006 (M) - My girlfriend has cheated on me and I dont know what to do coz I luv her and I cant let go despite what she has done. She says she luvs me and she does not want this to end thats whats confusing me. my question, can one cheat on someone you really ...

Im really scared of being on my own, I want someone to love me and me love them for keeps!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

3 October 2006 (F) - I just need someone who can love me and care for me.Well where do i start,i left home 18 and set up home with my boyfriend,the relationship was very rocky but i carried on.five years down the line i had a baby girl unplanned but i was over the ...

My so called friend is very manipulative and is now up to tricks again! Should I tell her man exactly what shes up to ??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6377 days ago

3 October 2006 (F) - I need help in deciding what I need do about my friend. My friend, 25 years old, I'll call her SAMMIE, is a very manipulative girl. I don't mean to sound judgmental. Infact, I don't want anything about her to bother me... but it does. And I don't ...

He constantly accuses me of lying and it simply isnt true!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

3 October 2006 (F) - my partner constantly accuses me of lying which causes me to hurt quite painfuly as i hate lies and everybody whom knows me would say im so truthful i can offend without purposly knowing but atleast you know where you stand with me,and im respected ...

I think ive grown out of my partner and have thoughts all the time for someone else!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

3 October 2006 (F) - i've been in a long relationship but think i've out grown my partner! i've met someone else who recently started work with me.(i'll call him X) it was very much an instant attraction and it has led to much more to the point X is all i want! but X is ...

Ive tried including myself in his porn antics, but he still doesnt have a healthy sex life with me and im feeling very down!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6410 days ago

3 October 2006 (F) - I'm (usually) a very happily married, middle aged woman (my husband is about a decade older than I); we're both highly educated and very open and liberal in our sexual relationship. I do anything he asks, suggest things I think he'd like but won't ...

Hes angry and feels that because I moved back home Im taking away his baby!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

3 October 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I are going to have a baby. He and I live about 4 hrs apart. I moved in with him so we could be together and he had a good job. I missed my home and family too much so about a month after I left I came back home. He is mad ...

Should I be mad that he slept with his ex before we dated ??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

3 October 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I were pretty close before we dated. We didn't have sex but did other stuff. We were at college and we were leaving for a holiday. I told him to do whatever he wanted I didn't want to stop him. He said he wasn't going to do ...

My GF claims Im holding on to the past and I treat her as more of a "Gal-Pal" Could I be holding on to my ex ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6418 days ago

3 October 2006 (M) - Three years ago I went though a bad break up with my live-in girlfriend, that left me financially broke (she took everything) and emotionally bankrupt. I tried desperately to get her back. I kept in contact with her and her three small children, ...