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writes: I met this guy who was engaged and we were good mates. He told me wasn't happy with his girlfriend and didnt really want to marry her, he told me he really liked and kissed me said he couldnt leave her coz he will lose his house. I really like him alot and i know he likes me to. How can i get him to realise he should leave her if he doesnt love her, and be with me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2006): Obviously he doesn't want to leave this girl. Your being selfish. Think about how he feels. Not just yourself but just because you want to be happy you could make loads of people miserable.
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reader, pica +, writes (5 October 2006):
Get a bigger house than she has, sounds like he'll come running then.
Seriously, forget him. He realises a lot more than you think so stay clear of him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2006): Hi,
While I understand you want him, and it is definately driven more powerfully by his unavailability, I would urge you to STOP seeing him. From personal experience, a guy can have feelings for 2 girls and it sounds like he isn't sure what to do. I believe he likes you, but, you are in for a world of pain if you pursue this. I know from experience. If he leaves her, and goes to you, she will not take that lightly, and he will go to her, it'll be like ping pong. Tell him if he is unhappy, to end it, and then contact you.
Involving a home is SERIOUS and please, find someone else who is there for you emotionally and is single.
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