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Archived questions from: 11 October, 2010 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

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The ex-factor: Help and advice

Started talking to my first love again, and she's changed so much it hurts!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

11 October 2010 (M) - I'll try to make this as brief as reasonably possible. I'm 23, and a little over a year ago I was dumped by girlfriend of 6 years. A couple of months before she'd start to see less and less of me, spending a lot more time at the pub, and I found out ...

Has anyone stopped being friend with an ex when the ex met someone new?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

11 October 2010 (F) - I have just been wondering about something..I am with my boyfriend for 1 year now, he was very good friends with an ex of his until we met and then for the first few months that we were dating but now she never gets in touch with him. My boyfriend ...

We have a few issues about her exes but I love her to death!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4952 days ago

11 October 2010 (M) - Hello Everyone! Me and my girlfriend have been together for a little over two years and lately we have been experiencing a few issues over whether we want to have kids or not and we also have decided that we shouldn't be together, but then we got b...

How do I get talking to my ex again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

11 October 2010 (F) - How do i get talking to my ex again? I want us to talk and be friends again. We just grew apart after we split up, he has since cleaned up his act from drugs. I broke things off because of it, we are seeing other people but i still care about hi...

Where do we go from here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4953 days ago

11 October 2010 (F) - Hey everyone! Having some trouble...I'll try to make it brief! Liked this guy for a few month, weve been seeing eachother, and weve really hit it off, i can honestly say ive never felt like this before, i even ended up losing my V to him! Anyway,...

If I could just get him to talk to me we could get the relationship back on track

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

11 October 2010 (F) - OK, so me and my ex have been on/off for 4 years.. I love him dearly and when we together he does too. The reason why we are such an on/off couple is because of arguments. When we fight I prefer to talk about it where he prefers to have days to calm ...

Kissing but not dating -- should I go with the flow?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4953 days ago

11 October 2010 (?) - Well, hello Uhmm, so this guy and me dated awhile ago, only for about a month or so. We broke up because he started talking to his ex girlfriend again and I knew he loved her still, I just couldn't handle competing with her... So, we decided ...

EX FWB partner says he doesn't see you enough?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

11 October 2010 (?) - Why would an EX FWB who has a gf and has been with her a while just suddenly say "i don't see you enough :(" i have stayed in contact with this person as friends. Are they hinting at something?...

Is he over me? My friend says he's not

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4952 days ago

11 October 2010 (F) - I saw my ex (let's call him X)over the weekend. We've been broken up since July and he has a gf. I was in a relationship but ended it this weekend b.c the guy I was seeing basically 'cheated' on me with his ex. When I saw X he hugged me and ...

Why doesn't his ex just move on? She' s married!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

11 October 2010 (F) - My man and his wife have been separated for 10 years and divorced for almost 3 (legal issues delayed the divorce). She still wants to be in contact with him even though he has repeatedly changed his phone number, she always gets the number somehow. ...

Complicated hot and cold relationship with an ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

11 October 2010 (M) - This is my first time on this site and needed some advice on my ex girlfriend. Me and her dated for 1.5 years and well it was great for the longest time, and well it was not until I went into a funk and was not my self for the longest time. ...

His ex spent the night, what should I make of this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4953 days ago

11 October 2010 (F) - Well, basically I don't understand men at all, whatsoever at the minute, so I have come here in desperate need for some advice. I met a boy not long ago, he took my number, but never passed on his. Today, he text me saying... "I miss you shorty"...

Why is my Ex's behavior affecting me now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

11 October 2010 (F) - Hi, Im [Mod Note* removed name for protection of your privacy] and im looking for some advice. I have spent the past 7 yeard in a relationship with a guy. I have 2 little boys with him. Over the past few years he started to change became very ...

My older lover dumped me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

11 October 2010 (M) - I'm 28 and i lost my 40 year old girlfriend. She dumped me for several solid reasons after a year and 2 months. She said she loves me i couldn't say it back. I wasn't sure if i loved her if i was afraid to be alone. She wanted me to move in with ...

Do women remember everything about their past relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

11 October 2010 (M) - Hi DC, I have a Q regarding what women remember. Over the years, I have had a few relationships. I remember practically everthing (good/bad/happy/sad) about them and reasons for the break up. Maybe its because I have a good memory. Durin...

Am I the only one who thinks her erratic behavior is indicative of a deeper problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

11 October 2010 (M) - My ex has a lot of serious issues, alcoholism, severe depression, her dad died a few months ago, and she used to be a cutter. After our breakup she confessed to me and only me that it made her want to cut herself again. she also ONLY told me she ...

How to get back into ex's life when she has a boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

11 October 2010 (M) - what is the best way to get back into an ex girlfriends life if she has a boyfriend. Its hard to decide in this day and age. Email, txt, phone call, or even writing a letter. Maybe even as simple as sending a gift. Help me out?...

She is jealous but wants to keep her ex in the picture but not mine, what to do here??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

11 October 2010 (F) - My partner and I have only been together for about 5 months. I have had a total of 2 partners before her. She has had myrriads. She ask me the other day to quit communicating with my last ex because she was afraid I would end up having an emotional ...