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41-50,
*imyjohns
writes:Hello Everyone!Me and my girlfriend have been together for a little over two years and lately we have been experiencing a few issues over whether we want to have kids or not and we also have decided that we shouldn't be together, but then we got back together with the idea that we will give it more time before we take a sharp decision on the matter. during our one and half week break up, I found out that a guy that she dated once right before I met her is talking to her on facebook trying to lure her to meet with him (I'm not sure if she went out with him or not), it bother me and I asked her to de-friend him on facebook, but she refuse to do so for the reason that he is the head of chamber of commerce and you never know when he might be useful. Not only that, during that same time she went out twice with her kid dad's brother that she hasn't seen for years, I only found out because I saw pictures on her computer and the last thing, her and I were at my house and her kids dad ( he is in jail for life) called her and she was on the phone shooting the shit with him for close to an hour, I got really made but can never win this battle, trying to explain to her that I feel disrespected and that it hurts me when things like this happen .Please help me out here, I need good advise on what I should do, I love the girl to death.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (12 October 2010):
 you are in a relationship with her you dont own her therefore you cant tell her who to talk to and not to, you need to just trust her 100% and if you dont then you cant have a relationship. Its allowed when you are in a relationship to have male friends and as long as you trust her not to cheat then it shouldnt be a problem, she is entitled to ring the father of her child as they have a bond for life over that kid. As for the guy on facebook she was broken up with you so if she did go out on a date with him then she was single. Deleting him from facebook is a bit extreme just ask her to tell him you are in a relationship if he trys to ask her out again. And as for the other man its her childs uncle so am sure he has a right to know how the child is getting on. you were both broken up so this shouldnt be a problem again.
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