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Archived questions from: 30 July, 2009 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

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The ex-factor: Help and advice

He cheated, how do I regain the trust needed to get over the betrayal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - i neeeed soo much help... ive never asked for help but i need help... he recently cheated on me but realised he made the biggest mistake in his life and we have been tryna work things out ever since... the thing is i dont trust him and though i know ...

I just ended an abusive relationship. I'm scared of what my ex might do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - Hi everybody So I finally got the courage to leave my abusive (mix of verbal, physical and sexual) boyfriend this week. I ended up having to do it online because after talking with some friends they suggested doing it in person would be too dang...

My ex forced me to have sex with him! How do I get over this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - Please help me.. Last april i had an abortion because i was only fifteen and my current boyfriend was allot older, i was scared he could of got done by the police so we both decided to have an abortion. It was really hard and i was very upset. ...

Do I ignore him and give him space?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

30 July 2009 (M) - I have been seeing my boyfriend on and off since December 2007, it began as a long distance relationship but he moved nearer, to manchester which is about 25 miles from where I live to see me more often. However, this year the realtionship has hit ...

2 years without my ex and I still miss the relationship we had. Do I just need more time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

30 July 2009 (M) - Even after 2 years without my ex, I'm struggling to forget my feelings for her. I'm desperate to move on, and after all this time, I suppose I'm still trying to believe I will find someone better. My ex was very attractive, and for the two years I ...

Why did my ex add me on Facebook when he has just got married?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - my ex fiance who i split with badly 6 years ago contacted me on facebook the other night requesting friendship. i thought this weird as ive only just got on there-we have no mutual friends so therefore confused to get this email. anyway ou...

Should I wait for my ex or move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - i and my ex boyfriend still loves each other but the distance is keeping us apart we are both currently dating but we want each other back... he therefore suggested that we should just wait for next year when the distance issue will be resolved ...

My ex wants to keep in touch with me, but I'm not sure if I'm doing the right thing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - my ex lover came to her home town where she still has friends; i also live in the same town. she wanted to visit me while she was here, but i refused, telling her over the phone that i had moved on and i didn't feel comfortable about seeing her, ...

I ended our relationship because he is too close to his ex. Did I make the right decision?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend talks of his ex girlfriend's body or what happened between them, He call her and she calls him he says she is only a friend and a close friend I got angry and upset and I said to him I don’t want him to have any contact with her or t...

Why does he keep using delaying tactics to avoid paying what he owes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5396 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - My ex and I recently met. We had 2 "unfinished businesses" to finish. One got done but the other not. He owes me some cash. The meeting was 2 months after the break-up, he was all over me..crying and begging. Prior to that, he told me he'll pa...

Is he doing it to spite me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - Why do exes ignore you and avoid you at all costs after they have said we can be mates? . .. My ex has recently got together with a chick it broke my heart knowing he's moved on but it hurts a lot more that he's out of my life ..after we broke up he ...

I think I still love my ex even though I'm married and haven't seen him for 6 years!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - I've been married for three years and I do not enjoy sex with my husband. My ex-boyfriend (before I met my husband) was very good in bed and I think I still love him. I haven't seen him for 6 years no but still think about him. What should I do?...

My boyfriend is torn between two women!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of almost 6 months is still in love with his ex girlfriend. He says he loves us both and wants us both. I told him he has to decide who he wants to be with. He said he wants to be with both of us and he won't settle for less. I told ...

Is it wrong to break up with with ur BF for another guy??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - I recently broke up with my BF for my EX is that wrong to break up with somebody for another guy?? ...