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Archived questions from: 13 July, 2009 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

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The ex-factor: Help and advice

He hurt me so I wouldn't go after him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - hey, i really need help and asap becuase its for this wednesday. theres this guy. and he liked me alot. and i lvoed him. and he left he hurt me so i wouldnt go after him. and he did it so i didnt know that, i havent been the same since he left me,...

I want to send an apology text to my newly-married ex-boyfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5413 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - this is bad but i need help. ive just finished with my ex and it has been awful-he has left me in deep financial trouble and has shown little emotion to me during the past 4 years. before this i was with my fiance who at the time i didnt b...

How can I get my children's father to step up to the plate?!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - I have been with my children's father off and on for 18 years we are both in our early 40's but he won't commit to us. We have two gorgeous daughters together. We have had our share of trouble along the way. I have lived with him before but he had a ...

Shouls I ask for her forgiveness and hope she will take me back or leave it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

13 July 2009 (M) - I'm so confused about my feelings and think I've made a terrible mistake! I have recently ended a relationship with the most wonderful woman after 2 years! We had a really deep connection and in the beginning the excitement was fantastic as I ...

How can I chase her without putting on pressure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

13 July 2009 (M) - My ex-fiance and I split up about 2 months ago. About two weeks ago she approached me via email and we have been talking daily since then, and seen each other almost every day since, but only for a few minutes, just to see each other and talk to ...

Should I just keep him as a friend or can I change his mind about being in a relationship?

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13 July 2009 (F) - The man i used to date last year appeared suddenly last week. He called me after two months. It was late in the night and i was out in a club with one friend of me (woman). He asked me and i told him where i was and he came to me. He talked to me ...

I want my ex to leave me alone to let me get on with my life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5413 days ago

13 July 2009 (M) - hi I am a 45 year old bloke. My problem is 2 years ago I met someone whilst i was with my partner of 7 years and as we weren't married and i paid all the mortgage of our joint house, I wanted her out and my new g/f in. So I told her she never pai...

When should I ask my ex to give me another chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

13 July 2009 (M) - my ex and i broke up about a month ago, we ended on good terms. we text each other once in a while to see how we're both doing. i want to talk to her face to face but whenever i text her, when she is available she kind of avoids giving me an answer. ...

Love on the rocks, we broke up, should I email her to start anew?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

13 July 2009 (M) - This may sound really stupid to alot of you but here it goes. I met this girl one day for like 1 minute she was a mutal friend of a friend. I felt something the secound I saw her, she admited she did too. Here is where it starts we knew each other ...

My partner calls out his ex's name when we have sex, does he still love him, should I move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

13 July 2009 (M) - I have recently been seeing my partner for over a month now and everything has been ok except for his insecurities about me cheating although i never would and have never cheated on any of my other partners... Whilst having sex my partner said his ...