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Archived questions from: 22 July, 2009 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

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The ex-factor: Help and advice

The guy I had an affair with has been cheating on his current girlfriend, so I sent an anonymous email. Do you think he might finally have learned his lesson?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - Hi I had an affair with a guy that works with me.We were friends for 2 years,then we started to have sex for 1 year then we stopped. Now we are friends again for 2 years. His last girlfriend left him because he cheated on her. Then he cheated ...

Why would he say he's happier when he's really not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - My ex and I got together last night to watch a movie at the house.One thing lead to another and we had sex.He initiated it *he knew previously that I wouldnt be against/weird out cos of it or think we're together*.During - he seemed like he was ...

Why am I upset that my ex got married?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - i cant understand why this is bothering me my ex fiance got married 6 months ago and hearing it has upset me quite badly. when we were together we were together about 4 years we got engaged and the ring he got me cost 15.99- we were both on goo...

Am I overreacting? - Is there anthing I could do to help this situation?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

22 July 2009 (M) - I have another question. Could I tell you about my current feelings? On Monday I started my new job and we planned to go to the cinema today. I booked tickets yesterday. At work I get a message from her saying she had received a call from (an ex) ...

My ex is having crazy mood swings, what's her problem

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

22 July 2009 (M) - I work with an ex who cheated on me. I walked away caused no trouble and was hurt. It appears the other man didn't work out. During this time I have made every attempt to be civil and polite with my ex. But what I find is one day she will ...

Should I give up on the love of my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

22 July 2009 (M) - Aiight, check it... I'm 20, two years ago ago I was with this girl, she's 18.. knowing how she was.. she was scared of letting her parents find out, so we were in a private love affair... Things got really heated and we almost had sex on many occ...

I'm a little obsessed with knowing what shes doing now that shes single...any opinions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

22 July 2009 (M) - How long is considered a normal amount of time after a break up to be following your ex's life through a social networking site? Im going on about three weeks straight after a year long relationship. Other than that Im over it. I wouldnt even want ...

What can I do to get my money back from my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - I split up with my ex (we were together for 2 years)nearly a year ago because he stole money from my parents. He still owes me a lot of money and keeps on giving me excuses on why he can't pay me back! I have a new boyfriend and he has a new ...

Does it sound like something happend between my boyfriend and his ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - Can I ask for your advice? Can you give me your opinion on this: Boyfriend said he wanted to do his OWN thing at home on Saturday night. I tried to call him that night, no answer. Tried again, a while later, no answer. I'd text and ask what he'...

Don't want to lose our friendship, but I want to move on

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - In January me and the father of my 2 kids broke up- we had been together for 7 years. It was a bad relationship- constant fighting, and cheating. In January he left me for another girl- I didnt even put up a fight because I knew there was no point. ...

He broke up with me for his ex, how do I approach this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - So the guy i have been seeing for the past 2 months ended things with me. things before were absolutely great. texted me, introduced me to his family, his friends, told me how smart and pretty and funny i was. he wasn't the player type at all. but ...

I'm engaged, but my ex is pregnant

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

22 July 2009 (M) - I was on service overseas..At a time it was OK wd my gf..As time prolong from each other we decided to go seperate way..Now Im engaged wd the girl i meet overseas..Going back home after end of service. I meet at EX-GF at the common friend ...

He gets loving texts from his ex's

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - Me and my bf have been going out for a year and a half, last year his phone went off while I was using the camera and it was a txt from his ex saying she loves him sexy etc...I found on his phone that he had been txting them back and saying I love ...

He had sex with his ex behind my back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - I've been together with this man for a year and a half. He is divorced and has a son. His ex wife called me to say that he was seeing her. I didn't believe her, later he admitted being with her twice. I called her to confirm that. She told me they ...

I need my ex to go away before this annoys my new boyfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - i was in an emotionlly abusive relationship for 11months and finally got out of it about a month ago. i am now dating someone new im really crazy about but my ex keeps trying to come back to me and he wont listen when i tell him to go away. i told...

What is he doing in his baby mamma's house until 12:30am?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5540 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - Can someone please explain to me what my boyfriend is doing. 3months into the relationship he told me he had a child by some girl he went to college with. No problem since he was with me everyday but not at nights. As our relationship went on more ...