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Archived questions from: 5 January, 2009 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

(More questions from January, 2009)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

Do I keep talking to her even though she doesn't deserve it whatsoever?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

5 January 2009 (M) - My ex and I were together for about 2 years, we were very much in love, we were both each others first true love, and everything was great up until a couple months before it ended. i pretty much made her the center of my life. we did everything ...

How can I forget about my ex-girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

5 January 2009 (M) - How can I forget about my ex-girlfriend? I really loved her. And she said she loved me with all her heart. But we broke up in the end, she never gave me a good reason. She just said that feelings faded away. I have been sad for a few months now. ...

Past bites... still sore.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5599 days ago

5 January 2009 (M) - I have had a torrid time breaking up with my ex-love. She broke up with me, because her ex-boy friend had come back. I was very serious about her. It took me three years to get her to tell me a yes. I had in fact told my parents that I would be...

I'm crying every night since the break-up and I feel ugly and worthless, how can I get over him??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - i have just recently split with my partner of two years, i am tryin to follow the advice of friends and relatives to keep busy, get out more, but i just cannot motivate myself, im spending my days either sleeping or constantly waiting for a text ...

Divorced but he still records significant dates that happened with his ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - I'm not typically the jealous type. My BF (of 6 months)and I check out others, watch things on t.v, have friend of opposite sex, and no prob I do however seem to have a problem with his ex wife. He hasn't been divorced long so I'm trying to ...

Do I take the morning after pill?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

5 January 2009 (?) - i did the stupidest most irresponsible thing ever and messed around with my ex/almost boyfriend again. we are taking some time apart before getting back together so that we dont mess things up the second time around. we hung out today and things got ...

I kissed someone else while we broke up, now ex wants me back..don't know whether to tell him about kiss or not

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - My ex and I broke up in nearly two months ago. We stayed in contact and almost got back together a couple of times until we had a big row three weeks ago and decided it was best to end it and have no contact at all. It was him that wanted no ...

Will my ex ever realize what he has done to the family?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - was with my partner for many years and suffered verbal, emotional and physical abuse. all our children are all grown up now and have nothing to do with their father, ive recently divorced him and have left the area where i lived with him and now he ...

Should I just take him at his word?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - I'm in a bit of a complicated situation. An ex of mine (whom I slept with while we were together.) has come back into my life. Our relationship was good, the break-up wasn't so great. Anyhow, he recently broke up with his newest ex and his life ...

Do I let the ex win?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - the problem i have is my boyfreinds ex!! he has a little girl with her and has her on a weekend but i am never allowed when he goes to pick her up or drop her off he says he doesnt want anything to kick off otherwise she will stop him seeing the ...

This guy told my bf that he could see our future--so my bf broke up with me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5591 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - This guy kept claiming for 6 yrs that he loved me and what not. And I never paid any attention to him. So last yr he gets in a relationship or almost did with a girl 4 yrs older than him. And then she moved on. [it was bound to happen -age-] ...

I've really blown it this time! Now he knows I'm not as cool as I pretend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5599 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - Oh holy cr*p I'm an idiot. Been broken up with the ex for nearly two months (his choice). He wanted me back after a week, but I said we'll wait and see after he comes back from his month and a half trip to Europe. Ok so I'd been doing really well. ...

Why does he mention about his exes? Could I just be his rebound girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - So, I met this guy online and we live in different states, we've been talking on the phone for about 6 months and he says he really likes me, and I really like him too, sometimes we get into arguments about little stuff, then usually i would just ...

Broke up, wants my things back, afraid of him getting abusive

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - So after a 5 year relationship, Ive decided to call it quits with my B/f. I'm really confused and feeling very nervous. After a horrible NYE party by now x-bf became very verbally and borderline phy. abusive. He doesent remember a thing and what ...

Having sex with the ex, he has a girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5600 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - hey good people i screw up, i had sex with my ex who's been begging me to get back together with him, the relationship we had wasn't really top of the notch, lots of heartache breakups and etc, thou i loved him still, the problem now is he's...

My g/f worries about my ex so much!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

5 January 2009 (M) - Is my girlfriend being unfair? My ex-fiancee and my current girlfriend are friends, not very close but they talk occasionally (thats how we met), anyhow, i let my girlfriend (ashley) know that im totally over (steph) and that im so much happier ...