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writes:hey good peoplei screw up, i had sex with my ex who's been begging me to get back together with him, the relationship we had wasn't really top of the notch, lots of heartache breakups and etc, thou i loved him still,the problem now is he's got a girlfriend whom he met through friends,he spends a whole lot time with me than he does with his girl,i love him a lot but there is this time when his girl came past while he was visiting me,so he went and spoke to her, i was with his siblings who also have been asking me to get back together with himnow recently i've been feeling a bit offish,lots of doubts,i want him but can i really trust him? i dont want to be the other woman, i dont want to be involved in a triagle relationship,i feel the need to be the better person and end all this before it turns out bad for all of us.
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reader, Ginalolabridga  + ♥, writes (5 January 2009):
 For now you are the other woman and will be until he stops cheating with the g/f!
You say the relationship you had with him was not that good lots of heartache, break ups etc: if that is the case and it was enough for you to break up with him how do you know it will be any better this time has he/you changed considerably?
He is cheating on his present g/f for now with you does'nt look good that does it? and your had sex with him knowing he was with another how does that make any of the two of you better?
I think before this goes any further your ex tells his current g/f that he has cheated on her with you at least he would be doing something decent he would be telling the truth! only then would any of you consider what happens now but while he is still with her you know it is wrong to see him behind her back you say you feel the need to be a better person well be that better person stop seeing him until he is free and single hope this helped!
Gina
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reader, pinkey1981  +, writes (5 January 2009):
Then you answered you own question. Just stop doing it. If the relationship wasnt real good to begin with what do you expect from a purely sexual relationship as the person on the side. Just stop torturing yourself and end it, spend some time and get over him and move on with your life.
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