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Archived questions from: 18 January, 2009 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

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The ex-factor: Help and advice

Discussing difficult situation from past with new girlfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

18 January 2009 (M) - I'm 17, and a junior in high school. Last summer, an ex girlfriend of mine falsely accused me of attempted rape. The case didn't get very far, the police dropped it almost immediately, and another organization that specializes in sex abuse cases for ...

I have never felt so emotionally obliterated since our break up...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5582 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - I was with my ex for 2 years and I was doing fine after we broke up. I felt that after he moved 2 hours away and I couldn't get a job to be with him. Our odds of feelings changing and fights increasing from lack of time to see eachother and the long ...

We broke up because of sex and I want her back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

18 January 2009 (M) - Me and my gf had been going out foe 5 months ok? We were each other's first make out partner all the way to oral sex in this time. All of the people in school said we were a beautiful couple and we were perfect for each other. Even some teachers ...

I overheard my wife & her friend talking about how great an ex's body was--she still has pictures!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

18 January 2009 (M) - My question is about pictures. My wife and I will be married 3 years this summer. Over time, I have discarded pics of ex-girlfriends. I'm sure there may be some still in an envelope or something, but as I find them, I throw them out. My wife stil...

He likes his ladies thicker

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriends past girlfriends have all been thick and i am the first girlfriend he has had that is thin. He tells me he is unhappy with sex since i am thin but tells me that sex is not everything in a relationship. I still feel like to him it is ...

My girl is missing her ex boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

18 January 2009 (M) - i have been dating the girl in the apartment upstairs since early summer. the attraction was unbelievable for months....when the holidays came around...just before thanksgiving she became distant...come to find out...she is missing her former ...

He acted as if he had no responsibility...any encouraging words to help me get closure??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - This is an update from a question posted -(Jan 6, I cry most of the time his indecisiveness is driving me insane)Please read so this all makes sense. Well I went ahead and broke up with him last weekend. Found out too he was making all these ma...

What's wrong with him? Please help me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - dear all at cupid, Ok I'm not sure if this is correct but my friend said to me last nite that she had a word with my ex bf, saying that he's never actually told me that it's over for good, he says we get on better as friends which is true, he's onl...

How can I get her to understand how I feel without it blowing up into a huge fight like it has been?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

18 January 2009 (M) - I'm currently in the middle of an argument with my girlfriend. I think she's being completely unfair. about 6 months ago she asked me to stop talking to my ex girlfriends because it made her uncomfortable. I agreed and it wasn't an issue until ...

Do I wait for her feelings for the ex to cool?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

18 January 2009 (M) - my gf broke up with me because of someone else, she already dated him 2 years ago and she says she cant forget her past. she says that im just amazing and shes never had someone else care about her more then me, but i might be going somewhere where ...

We agreed not to contact our exs, but he's been doing it the whole time!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - i am 22. i found out that my boyfriend was email his ex girlfriend this whole year we have been going out after he said that we both shouldn't talk to our exs. what should i do? ...

Old feelings for ex are creeping back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend -well ex now- thought I was cheating on him with my guy friend because he and I talk a lot an stuff. I told my boyfriend that me and my friend aren't dating. That's when he became distant with me, I knew he was mates with this girl w...