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Archived questions from: 14 January, 2009 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

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The ex-factor: Help and advice

I'm going crazy thinking about her, and want to call her, but I don't want to invade her privacy, because I know she wants space

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5590 days ago

14 January 2009 (M) - Basically they broke up but she's still not over him they never had closure in their realtionship, now I have jumped in the picture and she really does like me and wants it to work out, but now she realizes she catn ignore the lover of her ex, and ...

I want to comfort my ex, but don't know how to go about this

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5590 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - My ex boyfriend (of 6 yrs, we split up 3 years ago)just called me from the hospice to tell me his mother has just passed away. I was so close to her and am so upset. He gave a message to my brother the other day asking if i wanted to go and see her ...

I need an attack plan for this break

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5590 days ago

14 January 2009 (M) - My and girlfriend are on a break, how do i give her space? SO basically she really wants to be with me and likes me but right now she didnt get over her ex before we initated this realtionship so right now she said she catn get over him because ...

Moving on after teenage heartbreak

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i weren't together for long, but i cared for him deeply.i was naive to the fact that he had played girls before, and he said the sweetest things. i noticed a couple of days after we began dating that he was becoming uncomfo...

Living in the past...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - How can i move on in my relationship, when i still think of an ex all the time, i feel like im living in the past.. ive been with my current partner for 4 years, everything is good..but every so on i will go back and think of an ex of my nea...

EX Factor problem!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5590 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - Hi everyone I know that this may sound strange, I've gotten what I wanted but am afraid it will have the opposite affect? Now that we are getting over the fact that he emotionally cheated with his ex girlfriend, one of the boundaries I set...

My husband's ex charges her children when she does things for them

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - My husband's ex-wife charges her adult children to do things for them. For instance, she takes one of the grandchildren to school each morning and they must pay her to do so. She also buys things for them and expects to be reimbursed. Her gifts ...

Caught between ex boyfriend and old ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5590 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - I desperately need help, I am caught in the middle between my ex and my ex ex boyfriend. I don’t see any way out. I need some advice please from as many of you as can spare me the time. I posted on here end of November as I was with a boyfrien...

I thought I could move on but I can't... I'm still in love with my ex.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5590 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - Rite here goes. I've been split up from my ex for over a year and a half now. We were together for 2 and a half years but have remained friends. But now he has a girlfriend and won't talk to me. I am also with someone. But to be honest I have ne...

She keeps saying she loves me but then goes back to the ex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

14 January 2009 (M) - Hi All, I am really stuck and would really appreciate some help. I am in a really tricky situation with a girl who I work with. We were both in long term relationships and got together around 7 months ago both leaving partners after we cheated...

B/f still good friends with his ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - im so confused and dont know what to do... my boyfriend is still friends with his ex and this is killing me and affecting our relationship. i started dateing my boyfriend 6 months ago, and its the first serious relationship iv had. whe...

What to do now. Where do I go from here.......???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5591 days ago

14 January 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend for a year and a half had a great relationship. We had dated most of our junior year and all our senior year in high school. We had talked about splitting up only because we were going to our respective colleges and we thought ...

My boyfriend loves me but he still loves his psycho ex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend loves me but he still loves his psycho ex! I don't know how to get rid of her. What should I do? My boyfriend doesn't want to give up one of us, he doesn't even want me to give up on him but how can I get him give up his ex?...

I just hate single life and I want to get over my ex as soon as possible...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - I have a bit of a dilemma on my hands...and it has everything to do with my heart and mind. My ex and I broke up just over a month ago after a two year relationship and I still feel so angry and hurt about what he did (he cheated on me). I'm ...