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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I was with my ex for 2 years and I was doing fine after we broke up. I felt that after he moved 2 hours away and I couldn't get a job to be with him. Our odds of feelings changing and fights increasing from lack of time to see eachother and the long commute, were high. We ended it mutually.But he came back 4 months later and said everything he could to convince me he wanted to get back together. Without getting into full detail. He took his offer and was very cruel and humiliating about it. Now, months after my ex bailed on getting back together I'm devastated.I have been trying as hard as I could to move on and get past this but I have never felt so emotionally obliterated. 7 months since the break up and I'm still crying and wallowing. I wished he never meddled with my emotions and let me heal.I have been making new friends and getting out. I stopped dating because I don't want to date. I don't like going on dates and I haven't met anyone who isn't a total douche. I just would like some advice (that doesn't tell me to go out and date) to help me move past this. My life is wonderful and put together. Good job, good grades, good apartment. All but this one things that has romantically devastated me. If you want I can post what he did in detail as a follow up if you don't feel you have enough information to help me.
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reader, PunkyPippi +, writes (22 January 2009):
 Wow, he must have done something pretty hideous.I admire you for keeping everything else together as you fall apart on the inside.
I would seek professional help because it sounds like the end of this relationship has released something inside of you that's much bigger.
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