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Archived questions from: 17 December, 2009 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

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The ex-factor: Help and advice

Does my husband just want his cake and eat it too?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - my husband thinks its alright to keep in contact with his ex's. this has been an issue for me because i found messages from 1 of them telling him how much she loves him and misses him. so when i confront him he gets angry with me and says that "am ...

Should I give this other girl a chance even though I love my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

17 December 2009 (M) - I love my ex. She says she loves me but everytime I think we are gonna have a chance she goes "on a date" with someone else. Of course that ends it for us but then she comes crawling back to me saying she wants only me, saying everything I want to ...

I don't care what my ex thinks so how do I tell him that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - Well well what do i have to say other then i really like this guy but the EX is in the way with alot of things. he talks to me alot and always tells me what to do well im kinda nervous that the guy i just started to really like will think some thing ...

Do I trust the ex? Or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - so me and my ex boyfriend dated for like 5 months are so but after we broke up we still been extremely close and he still likes me and im unsure about how i feel about him and then i learned recently that he was cheating on me with his best friends ...

The ex--best to build things up slowly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - Hi, I split up with my long time BF a few months ago but we met up today and we arranged to meet up again next week but I feel as though it's very tenuous. Is it best to take it slowly and meet up once a week and rebuild a friendship/relationship ...

Lengths to go for happiness?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - I am currently living with my ex, we also have 4 children together. He has been abusive and has cheated on me in the past. It's difficult for me to forgive him, when I know he won't change. He has chosen that marriage is not for him, however I do ...

She wants to meet up with her ex, should I feel anything?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

17 December 2009 (M) - I'm new to the site, I have a situation which is making me anxious. I met a girl in Feb of this year and we started dating. I was reluctant to at first as she was a lot younger than me, there's an age gap of 16 years, I'm 39. My friends convinced me ...

B/f continues to text his ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - what should i do? my boyfriend continues to text his ex.. i have address this situations repeatly and he still continues to do it. he has changed her name to his sister's name in his cell phone to "throw" me off.. she asked in one of the text when ...

His text/phone friendship with his ex torments me...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - Right so a girl my boyfriend had an on/off thing with before me, is back in contact with my bf, phone/text wise. My bf and I have discussed this and he said he just wants her friendship, nothing else. Now, this is fine, but obviously it's always on ...

Fiance' fooled me into thinking the gift was his idea and I found out!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - Look what I found out.... My Fiance brought me a gift for my birthday last July. It was really cute. It was a Yellow Rose Plant with a Birthday Bear and a Perfume. I loved it. It was a little weird for me thought that he asked me earlier that ...

I'm so broken, hurt, and confused!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - So me and my ex have been together for two years on and off were just friends nows but he acts like he wants to be with me the only promblem is that he got a 15year old girl pregant im 18 and he is 20. Its been so hard to deal with because he been ...

I still like to hang out with my ex, and I have feelings for him, but he has a girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5249 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - so recently I have hung out with my ex boyfriend. In the past (about 7 months ago) we only dated for a few months but i felt like i never got closure because it ended before it started. We were both stubborn and broke up for a stupid reason. The ...

I have a new g/f but keep thinking about the ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

17 December 2009 (M) - Ok so here the deal me and my ex broke up about 3 months ago and I'm really doing fine without her. It was rough for the first month or so but it's all good now, I've started dating another girl and she really seems to like me, apretiates me for who ...

My ex wife wont allow me to do anything with my kids

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

17 December 2009 (M) - I need help. My ex wife wont talk to me about my kids and disagrees with everything I want to do. I cant get my 7 year olds ears pierced, take our 5 year old skating, go to my nieces grad party, aunts funeral got shut down. I need to know why she ...

She has been swapping nude pics with her ex, should I forgive or move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

17 December 2009 (M) - I've been going out with my current girlfriend for a little over six months. She is my age and has a son that is almost two. I knew she had a son and there for would be around her ex more then any of my other girlfriends but, was willing to try and ...

My ex is coming back around Christmas, and I am not sure what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - so my ex and i havent talked in like 3 months and he's comming back around not to long before christmas. the second time we dated i realized that i had fallen in love with him. when he finally called it total quiets i was heart broken and i wanted ...

I don't feel like I should...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - I dated this guy for over a year. I loved him but we were very different and I knew he wasn't right for me so I broke up with him. Pretty soon afterward I met a new guy. He has all the qualities I want in a guy and we have a lot in common. The ...