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Archived questions from: 5 December, 2009 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

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The ex-factor: Help and advice

My Confusing Ex

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5 December 2009 (M) - I've known this girl for like a year or 2. Lets call her S. We finally decided to date and everything was going good and perfect for a while. We made out and everything. One day S suddenly broke up with me. At first, she told me that she had a l...

She cheated on me a couple of days after we first started seeing each other... now I just feel sick!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5262 days ago

5 December 2009 (M) - I'm not really looking for help, because I don't think there's anything I could possibly do to make myself feel better. I just need a place to share my feelings. But if you want to offer some feedback, please do. About a month ago, I split up ...

What do I do and how do I get through this week?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

5 December 2009 (M) - I've been seeing this girl for about 2 months... it's going well, but when we met she was kind of involved in this long distance relationship with some other guy. She was very hesitant to get too involved with me due to that fact but a couple weeks ...

I love my son, I love my ex but I have to chose between them!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - I had recently started seeing my ex boyfriend again after being broken up for almost a year. Things seemed to be going okay . My teenage son who has never liked him, recently did something terrible to try to cause problems for us. I won't get into ...

I want my ex b/f back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - I am 15 17 years old and about 2 weeks ago me and my 18 year old boyfriend broke up because he told me that he was still in love with his ex girlfriend. When we were dating I asked him more then once "Are you still in love with your ex"? and he ...

DOes my ex like me again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - It's not that long, so help me out a little, please? :) Okay, so we went out for about 7 months and we were both each others very first love. Now he has a new girlfriend for about a month now, and I'm just single and having fun. (But I still lik...

Does he love her more than he loves me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5262 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - me and my ex were still in love, but never had a releationship going after the other two didnt turn out. then him and this girl were married on facebook, and i asked him who she was and he said just a mate. and i kept asking, then finally he ...

Did I ruin my chances?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5262 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - Okay, so it's kind of a long and confusing story, but I'll try my best to explain it. Last April, I started seeing a new guy that I really really liked. Throughout the ENTIRE time that we were together my ex boyfriend that I dated for two years was ...

Me and my ex keep arguing and it's really upsetting...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - Me and my ex keep arguing and it's really upsetting.He thinks that when you are in a relationship, you should see each other once a week at least.However, i have a different view.I'm more of a " go with the flow " kind of person.He goes mad at me ...

She said she wanted to spend the rest of her life with me but now she has left me for someone else!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

5 December 2009 (M) - Hey. I just found out last night that my gf of 2 years broke up with me. We've been kind of off and on because we live just far enough away that we can't see each other that often. Another reason we don't see each other is because my parents hate ...

I can't stop thinking about him (even though he's related to my ex)

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - Hi, well my ex dumped me a month ago after six months. At first I was mad but then I realised he was only 20 and I was 24 and we were on two different levels. So anyway I was out paying my cell phone bill and saw this cute guy and when he gave me ...

First date in 3 years...why am I so paranoid about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, ok so I'm in a pickle and I have to solve it by tonight, which unfortunately doesn't leave me much time. From May til November I was constantly trying to be rid of my ex-bf. He was verbally abusive, lied about everything and I was si...

My ex told my current that she is pregnant, but I think she is just creating mischief

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5262 days ago

5 December 2009 (M) - I was in a relationship with a girl and my ex had told em she was pregnant with my child so i told my partner at the time of this but she had asked me not tot tell her or i would not see the child, my girlfriend at the time left me as she didnt want ...

Rumour has it he left his wife and children for me, but I hardly know him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

5 December 2009 (M) - I started working at my current job at the beginning of the year. This is my first job after university. I am a fairly open and friendly person and am friendly towards all the people I work with. This has led to one of the men at work to develop a ...

How do I get him to earn my trust back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5263 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - My ex and I broke up about 8 months ago. We had a very unhealthy relationship. No physical abuse, but cheating, horrible fights, constant worrying, constantly breaking up, until one day he finally ended things and I was completely torn. It took ...