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Archived questions from: 21 December, 2009 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

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The ex-factor: Help and advice

How do you get over being replaced?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

21 December 2009 (F) - You might think this is stupid because alot of people say young people dont know what love is but im 16 and split up with my boyfriend around 2 months ago, we were together for about a year and a half and he broke up with me, and I cant get over ...

How can I not be bitchy when my boyfriend is madly in love with his ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

21 December 2009 (F) - so my boyfriend and i are packing to move out of his old house..sounds good so far right? and we are moving to florida..sounds even better huh? well while in the process of packing today i watched him pack pictures of his exgirlfriend of 5 years who ...

Is it possible to work things out after he lied and cheated?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

21 December 2009 (F) - So... this is all new to me. i have never asked strangers to help me with my relationship but at this point maybe this is the best thing for me. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 and a half years now. The summer of 2008 he broke things o...

I honestly believe him with all my heart, should I go back to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5246 days ago

21 December 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend were dating for about 3 months and things were going great like we never got into one fight or anything. But about a week ago i hear things going around that he wants to break up with me and im so upset because i dont understand ...

Am I being manipulated or is he truly sorry?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

21 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I were in an on again off again relationship for three months, breaking up twice during the relationship until this third time when I ended it for good. The first time we broke up because he was talking about getting back together ...

I am willing to give my ex time because I care - is this a huge mistake?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5246 days ago

21 December 2009 (F) - my ex and i were together for over 3 years and broke up over a year ago but noone did anything so wrong..no cheating or anything..just arguments over silly things i contacted him a year later leaving a v-mail and he called me back a few minutes la...

How do I convince her that I am the best option for her? I cant stand to see her get back with her abusive ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

21 December 2009 (M) - I have a pretty big problem. Im in love with the most beautiful, smart, funny, amazingly fun to be around girl in the world. My friends loved her, she loved my friends, our parents are friends, they adore me and my parents adore her. When we first ...

Will I ever have the kind of passionate relationship I had with my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5247 days ago

21 December 2009 (F) - I am a bit confused about these feelings I am having about my ex. He broke up with me about 8 months and he has gotten back with his ex girlfriend since we broke up. We were very attracted to each other and there was a lot of passion in the relation...

Should I move on if my ex slept with someone else?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

21 December 2009 (F) - My ex and I broke up about two weeks ago after 2 years together. I think we both knew it was coming because he was increasingly distant and trying to be more independent (by blowing me off) and I was increasingly worrying and picking silly fights ...

Is there a recipe to fall out of love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

21 December 2009 (F) - Why is it that no matter how many lovers you've had it is those who got away that stay with you so long. Is there a recipe to fall OUT of love with someone who will never come back?...

What do I do about my boyfriend and the ex that has my heart?

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21 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend asked for some gas money so i gave it to him he was supposed to meet me an hour after i gave it to him to go out.... Well i didnt hear from him for a few hours but that didnt really bother me what bothered me is the status i saw on this ...

Should I revisit my marriage or move on with the new boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

21 December 2009 (F) - I'm a divorced mother of three and have had a long distance relationship with a wonderful man for the last three years. My children are 11,9 and 5 and have had limited contact with my boyfriend but get along very well with him. It's getting to the ...

Should I choose my potential husband or the name of a school?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

21 December 2009 (F) - My ex-boyfriend and I were together for two years and we currently go to separate colleges, 6.5 hours away from each other. It's been a year since we broke up and I'm trying as it is to get out of this city. He's successfully done that because he ...

How should I fix this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

21 December 2009 (F) - My ex and I had recently broke up. We were in a long distance relationship and it was difficult. We didn't break up because of distance though. We broke up because I've given him so many chances to treat me right. He acts like he controls my life ...

How long will he take to contact me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

21 December 2009 (F) - My ex boyfriend told me he was moving on a week and a half ago. I saw him 1 week ago when I told him that I realized why he wanted to move on. I also told him that I had been thinking alot about why things turned out the way they did and let him ...

Am I making a huge mistake?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago