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Archived questions from: 15 April, 2009 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

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The ex-factor: Help and advice

Can being in a rebound relationship or having rebound sex make you miss your ex more and realize?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - My ex recently came back saying that being in a rebound relationship, which he had for a month (I am not sure if he was in a relationship or just had some rebound sex) made him realize how precious I am to him, how he cannot live without me and so ...

It hurts me to see my FWB has moved on ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - i fell in love with my f**k buddy. i never wanted it to be f**k buddies i was totally into him! he lied to me and made me believe he wanted me to be his girl. He is now seeing someone new. He treats her like a proper gf not like how he treated me. ...

7 years of marriage, 2 children, and found out he fathered a son with another woman!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - I have been married for 7 year and have 2 children. I recently found out that my husband had been seeing someone and has fathered a son with that other person. We set down and talked about thing as calm as we could. He knew he had hurt me and said...

He's the perfect guy, except he keeps texting his ex!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - I have been dating this guy for almost 2 years and I think he is absolutely perfect! He is sweet, caring, Always supportive of me, gorgeous body and face, and amazing in bed. He is 19 and already making almost a thousand dollars a day, smart, fun to ...

He is recieving texts from "boobs"...do you think he is hiding something?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for 2 months now, and are very much in love. So much so that a lot of drama went down before we could be together, we had secretly been in love with each other for 6 months until he told me, he dumped his ...

I cant believe my husband when he says he is over his perfect ex girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 1 year, but have been together a total of 5 years. I feel like sometimes maybe he is not completely over his ex-girlfriend, mother of his 14 year old son. I really think it might be because I am insecure in ...

Why is my ex being so nice to me when I broke it off with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - Why would a guy i split up with about 8 months ago, and who constantly tells me he cant forgive me and has moved on, continue calling me every so often, text me, help me financially (apparently for my kid's sake) when i am really stuck for cash? ...

Still waiting for my first kiss!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - I'm 15 turning 16 in May. I have never had my first kiss not even a peck. I've had 1 bf before.The fact that i haven't been kissed has always made me insecure, but lately i've felt terrible. What's wrong with me? I feel so ugly and unwanted. My ex ...

She blames me for her lack of interest in sex but now she is meeting up with her ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

15 April 2009 (M) - Hi I have been married now for 5 months and it all appears to be going wrong. we seem to have had 4 major arguments in the past 2 weeks, resulting in her telling me that shes had enough and it cant go on. we talked and managed to sort things o...

Relationship problems with an ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5492 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - Hello: I just recently went back with and ex boyfriend of mine been together for a week ok my daughter's father is the problem he's a jealous type he's the type who will just show up and if he f...

My ex jumped straight into bed with her ex immediately after we broke up, why??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5492 days ago

15 April 2009 (M) - Hi.. Me and my girlfriend of 4 years broke up 2 weeks ago and ive just found out that she has been sleeping with her ex!! She was stringing me along also and giving me hope that we might get back together, but now its just out of the question. I ...

I thought he likes me, but he keeps mentioning his ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5492 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - Hey there I hope u have a few mins this is quite a long one :-) Me and my boyfriend had quite a turbulent relationship for the last year(i was with him for a year) and we split up about 2 months ago. I got talking to a guy from uni, over the inter...

Should I stay single, or go back to my ex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years on 6th January, having cheated on him for the second time (when drunk still not an excuse). I am a terrible person and am trying to become better. I still think about him all the time, but he deserves better, ...

Still in love with my ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

15 April 2009 (M) - Im at a crossroads, roughly three months ago my ex girlfriend and I ended our four year relationship. She was also my best friend. I still do not have any idea of where it went south and as much as i tried i never got a real explanation. We kind ...

I love him and his daughter, but his ex is saying lies this week. How do I handle the situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - Okay so me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years, We had got together when i was 16, and have been together ever sense. He is 8 years older then me and has an ex wife and a daughter. Me and his daughter get along great she looks as me as a...

In love with best friend's x g/f

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5493 days ago

15 April 2009 (M) - so im in love with my best friends ex-girlfriend. the hard part is, me and her are also bestfriends.Lately, ive been hella jealous and annoyed everytime she talks about him or when she tells me stuff that they do because they're not supposed to be ...

My boyfriend wants me to go out with girl he had feelings for!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - Iv been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years, we have had our ups and downs but do love each other very much... i think. we broke up about 6 months ago for 3 months. During that time he meet a girl and they became close. I later found out that he ...

Can't get him out of heart if he won't get out of my life! What to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - How do i forget my ex i cant get him out of my head???? We were together for almost 4 years then we broke up because he was lying to me and cheating on me with a friend.... Now he is all begging me to get back with him he calls me textes me and he ...

Is this normal? Am I just too selfish?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - My ex and I broke up a little over four months ago after a two-year relationship. The reasons we broke up are because he not only cheated on me but he physically and emotionally abused me on a near daily basis. Obviously wasn't having it anymore. ...

My ex just annoyed me with a AIM message a little while ago.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

15 April 2009 (M) - My ex just annoyed me with a AIM message a little while ago. Here's the direct quote "I did whatever I had to do to make it more enjoyable......because I don't know if you know this.... but you're not working with much... I'm not trying to be funny ...