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Can't get him out of heart if he won't get out of my life! What to do?

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Question - (15 April 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 15 April 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *ariela writes:

How do i forget my ex i cant get him out of my head???? We were together for almost 4 years then we broke up because he was lying to me and cheating on me with a friend.... Now he is all begging me to get back with him he calls me textes me and he wont leave me alone he is making me weak and harder to forget him so i dont no what to do its killing me from the inside because i love him but i just want to forget..... The he continues with his lies because he told me he got married and its not tru and that finished breaking my heart( his aunt told me were good friends)so People please help me i need some advice on how to forget himplease i really appriciated thanx!!!

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A female reader, Mariela United States +, writes (15 April 2009):

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Mariela agony auntWell thanx for your adivice all try to do that but the parent thing wont work since he is 22 he is 5 years older then me and he doesnt live with his parents....

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2009):

Just forget him...nobody should have to put up with theyre partner cheating on them, thats just straight up wrong...just keep thinking of all the wrong hes done and cry it all out, go out and meet someone, try not make it a club or something, just meet someone, have someone to talk to...its just like that movie forgetting sara marshall, everytime he was clost o feeling for her again, he thought of something that she did wrong, dont let this guy back in your life...maybe 1 out of 10 guys wouldnt cheat again, dont take that chance...you are young amd have plently of life left, dont waste it on this p***k

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2009):

Don't respond to any thing he sends your way.

I like the idea of having his parents tell him to lay off.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2009):

Hey I am 42 (and am dealing with something very similar)... Even at my age (it is hard) to let go of somebody that burns us when we love them and they keep trying to get us back.

I would say the best thing you can do is maybe change your phone number and email so he can't contact you as freely.

Another thing you may want to do (if you truly feel you want it done) is ask your parents to call his parents (and request that they talk to their son) about backing off. Good luck and hope your heart heals soon :)

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