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Archived questions from: September, 2007 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

My girlfriend and I argue all the time, she thinks I'm still in love with my ex. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 465 days ago

30 September 2007 (M) - hi,me and gf argue all the time recently,she doesnt trust me even tho i am loyal,she threw her engagement ring away and now we cant find it,she got annoyed cos i said i was goin to pick my mum up and stay the night before she lives 250 miles ...

I still love him and want to be friends but he says it wouldn't work. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 465 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - i need help me n my ex was going out for 3years but we broke up 4 month ago because he didn't want a relationship we was still really close,and now he has met someone which i don't like the sound of i still love him and still want to be friends...

We broke up and now we're trying again. But I don't know if I really love him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 459 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - Hey, A year and eight months ago I started going out with a boy and after a month we were both in love with each other. We lasted for a year and a four months and we split up because we were arguing. We were both in the middle of exams and to be ...

15 years ago we broke up, I don't know why except we were young; he found me and says he is happy with his gf, but why then he contacted me? I never really got over him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 465 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - my problem is that i am 38 years old, married, but confused. when i was only 17 years old i fell in love with a guy. we were each others first, we loved each other, did everything together. after a year and a half he broke up with me. i was ...

She is not over her ex yet, and is uncertain of starting a new relation but she flirts with me. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 466 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - hey all... bit of a dilemma lol.. i am gay and i recently met a girl who is also gay. im 18 and she is 23, we got on really wel.. and i started to fall for her. One night i was out with friends and her friends and i told her best mate i liked thi...

Has anyone had a rebound, realized their ex was who they want, and got back with them and it work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 465 days ago

30 September 2007 (M) - Anybody went into a rebound relationship and realized their ex was who they really wanted and gone back to them and had it work??...

I regret splitting with him. He isn't into me anymore. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 466 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - Hi, I split up with my boyfriend about 4 months ago; and at the time i was fine and really was glad to be out of the relationship. I was being bullied at school at the time and was in the middle of my exams - 'we're both 17'. he was mean to me a...

Does he want me back or not??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 466 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - hello everyone! i have a question that i need to ask and get off my chest so here it goes...I went out with this boy hes 15 im gonna be 14 in a few days so there wasnt an age gap n all that hard stuff. but anyways things were going really good at ...

I want her back, but it could destroy me. Do I gamble???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 465 days ago

30 September 2007 (M) - Do I gamble and try and get something back with my ex? For those of you who haven't bee keeping up. My girlfriend of 2 years split with me back in June, because she was going to University. We had endured a long distance relationship sin...

I loved him, but he's moved on. How can I deal with this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 48 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - Hi everyone I am heartbroken at the moment, the boy that i loved has moved on and found someone else i dont know how to deal with it. We broke up a while ago but i always believed deep down that we'd find our way back to each other.I think its my ...

He presumes I'm cheating but has allowed himself to be hugged in public by his ex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 432 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - my boyfriend pressumes im cheating, there is no truth whatsoever in these allegations,yet he allowed himself to receive a hug in public from his ex girlfriend and feels it was ok ...

The ex bf or the new guy? What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 466 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - I have an enormous dilemma! Here's the background: I have been with the same guy on and off for just over 2 and a half years. For a long time I have wanted nothing but to be married to him and build a family together. After 11 months of dating he ...

She told me he didn't do oral but after our break up she did it with another guy. Now we're in a serious relationship and bittered by this thought.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 466 days ago

29 September 2007 (M) - dear cupid, i've been dealing with this female on and off for about ten or eleven years now. when we first started having sex i asked her could we have oral sex, she told me she didn't do that but after she stopped dealing with me she started ...

His ex is putting him in debt and I don't like that. Should I stick this out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 466 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - Me (in my thirties) and my boyfriend (in his forties) entered into our relationship over three years ago, though we were friends for a few years previous. Before we were together, we were both involved in relationships where we financially supported ...

I'm in love with someone who makes me so happy... yet, so miserable as well. What do you think?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 465 days ago

29 September 2007 (M) - I need serious advice on how to handle this. I am in love with someone who makes me so happy yet so miserable at the same time. I lovemy girlfriend. Infact she is everything I could ever want right now. Problem is she fucked things up at the...

2 years together. I had to go to New Zealand for a while, and she cheated. Now she's really mean towards me. Do we have a chance at all??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 459 days ago

29 September 2007 (M) - Hi My now ex and me had been dating for 2 years and known each other for 7 years (since she was 14). She was always really into me and talked about marriage and kids and how much she loved me and couldnt be with anyone else. She has had a few b/...

My ex sent me a nasty poem. I have so much going on in life at the moment, I struggle to cope with it. Any advice please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 401 days ago

28 September 2007 (M) - umm...there's been alot going on in my life lately and its hard for me to keep track of sanity besides still beign in love with my best friend [who claims is not gay] really liking my best friends ex. [he told me he loved me and he kissed me and ...

My ex assulted me. How do I move on from this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 468 days ago

28 September 2007 (?) - hi there my ex partner assulted me 2 weeks ago and when i mean assulted he has been admitted to crown court for abh charges. its just that i feel like he is haunting me, he has already put me on that many sites and filled in profiles on me. im on s...

Do you think it is a good idea to talk to my ex? I told her we cant be together

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 467 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - hey so its been awhile since i have asked for some advice. but anyhow if u read my last few post i was taling about the relationship with my ex of 2.5yrs and how it got bad kus of an ex friend!! anyhow those two ended up dating..omg'sh it was ...

I saw my ex and he kissed me and said he missed me, but he has a girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 468 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - ok well my an my boyfriend went out for lik a little for than a year and he seemd to hav a low selfesteem, we were eachothers first love, very attached and wuldnt trust me even though i really cared for him the whole time and i told him that- he ...

My ex is the dance instructor I met through school. Can she get in trouble? How can I win her back? If I can't, then how do I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 467 days ago

28 September 2007 (M) - i was in a production of oklahoma at my 6th form school. Anyway at the after show party the dance insturctor who had been teaching was the moves came to the party and after a few drinks we got talking and one thing led to another and we ended up ...

I think my bf has been hanging out with my ex! It's weird, b/c when I introduced them they didn't get along! This is so odd! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 467 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - Last week a friend of mine told me that my boyfriend has been spending time with my ex-b/f. I asked her if it was true, and she said, yes, she'd seen it several times during the week. I've only introduced my boyfriend to him once, and they ...

My ex has started speaking to me again, and I'm replying to her. But am I just headed for MORE heartache?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 468 days ago

28 September 2007 (M) - My question is this: My ex has started speaking to me again, and I'm replying. But am I just headed for more heartache? I posted a question just yesterday telling how miserable I was (Because yesterday, I really was miserable over the situation...

I want to know if my ex and I can have a relationship again; he asked his friend who I had a casual relationship with to stop flirting w/ me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 468 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - I can't seem to get over my first love, Andy. We split five years ago and one year later we began hanging out again but he would not take me back. Two years ago he moved in with Leigh, a good male friend of mine. Leigh and I had an ongoing ...

My don't remember cheating, but my gf split w/ me b/c of it! And now there's someone else who likes me! Any advice with both problems?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 468 days ago

28 September 2007 (M) - Hey. I am 18; my girlfriend has just broken up with me. She broke up with me because I kissed another girl. I don’t remember cheating on her (I was really drunk), but apparently I did. I understand that I lost her trust but I feel like I didn't ...

I met this guy who had not long come out of a serious relationship. We got on quite well, but now he's ignoring me!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 468 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - Guys feel free to give me your opinion..please! I met this guy who had not long come out of a serious relationship, we really liked eachother and met up a few times. He text me all the time, called late at night, always wanted to hug me/ see me and ...

In a new relationship, but still horribly in love with my ex-boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 366 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - I really love my Ex boyfreind and i'v tried everything to move on, i'm in a relationship right now and my boyfriend knows how i feel about my ex. I think about my ex all the time and everything reminds me off him, i cant seem to get over him and ...

Still have feelings for my ex... Was it best that we remained friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 468 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - I was with my ex boyfriend on and off for over a year and i fell in love with him. We split up and i tried to move on, still having feelings for him. I'm currently in a relationship with 1 of his best mates but i stil miss my ex and think about him ...

Her ex who cheated on her twice is back on stage and just proposed her! My gf is now very confused, what should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 467 days ago

27 September 2007 (M) - I've been dating a women for a month and things were going great until her ex started pursuing her. A bit of background on me. After marryting at a very young age, I was divorced 2 yrs ago. No children. I have dated many women since then and ...

Do I have feelings for him again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 468 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - Ok See me and my ex we have been out twice now. There was a month in between when we were on a break i spose. Then he asked me back out again. But after a month i got fed up since he kept flirting with all of my friends and constantly lieing t...

My ex keeps harassing me, even though I'm married now. He was also aggresive to my husband. What to do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 467 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - My ex keeps harassing me. We broke up 2 years ago, and I am married and have 2 kids now. He treated me like absolute dirt, he hit me, mentally abused me, he wouldn't work, he lied all the time. I gave him 5 years of chances and then I had it ...

So miserable... My ex-girlfriend is all I want in the world. She cannot be mine, and it hurts. What do you think?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

27 September 2007 (M) - Please help me. Today, I'm so, so miserable about everything. Call it an off-day if you must, but whatever it is, it's dragging me WAAAY down. It's just over 3 months since my girlfriend and first love broke up with me, due to (as she claims) ...

My ex wants to be sex buddies

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 469 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and i broke up because he didnt want a relationship, as we will be movin away to university next year. it was so hard for me, but we have kept very close. Three Months on. He told me he misses havin me around, still loves me, and st...

It is so painful to be friends with my ex, but I really want her back

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 469 days ago

27 September 2007 (M) - OK here goes. Me and my ex broke up about 5 months ago and i feel im doing everything to push her further and further away. We were together for four years. She recently started university and she told me she had just kissed one guy but loves th...

How do I stop my feeling for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 469 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - Hello, this question is for Ren, or Tommy,(agony aunts) I know you are men, but you give me the most logical advice.... Thank you guys... How do I stop worrying about who he is with, and is he is happy. And how do I stop my feelings for him.... I ...

Am I wrong to ask her to cut all contact with her ex? Did we get together too soon?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 469 days ago

27 September 2007 (M) - Hi, Im after a nuetrals point of view on my dilemma so i thought i would ask you.Ive been going out with a girl for about 4 months now shes 22 im 28 just before i got with her she was still in a 2 year relationship but going through breaking...

We've broken up and gotten back together so many times, I don't know if he will really stop his sideline tricks!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 467 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - Hi I apologize for this question being so long in advance.I met my bf last year septemeber,he got my number and called me,at this time he had a gf which i knew about. She lived in another town, so he only saw her on Sarutday nights.We rarely...

He told me he pleasures himself while thinking of three specific ex's of his!! I just feel as though I'm not enough for him, but should I really worry?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 469 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - Hey, I recently had a conversation with my boyfriend about what he masturbates to. He said that he masturbates to me most of the time. And then he tells me sometimes porn and sometimes his ex-girfriends--Paige, Allie, and Kathleen I automatically ...

Am I overthinking this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 469 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - I really need some prespective on my situation...I'm at a total loss here and I feel like if I don't get this off my chest I'm going to end up causing a fight with my BF He is in Japan for work and I am in the US, so today I called him to chat at ...

It's been a year, I still love him, but now he's with my so-called friend. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 469 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Ok so i went out with this one boy for about year and we deeply fell for each other i loved him alot and he "said" he loved me in which i belived so after a while of getting to know each other very well he decided the relationship was getting old so ...

There's no chance of us getting back together, but I can't get her out of my head? How can I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 470 days ago

26 September 2007 (M) - Me and my ex have been seperated for almost a year now..... and she has made it crystal clear that the chace of us ever been together is nil...She has moved on with her life and I play no part in it. But I just cant get her outta my head. She is ...

I want him back, but I don't know how to approach him. What should I say?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 469 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - IVe got a bf and i still have feeling 4 my ex very large 1s i split up wid him 2months because of my family and friends because they made a rumour abouthim nd now i want him back but i dont no what to say to him and how to tell him x what shou...

I miss him so much and I'm afraid he will meet someone else please help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 470 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend a month ago and when I asked him back he said no he had enough of the fighting and he loves me, I'm his soulmate and hopefully things will be different someday. I didn't trust him and it wasn't his fault, I had some ...

How do I get her out of this relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 470 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - I've been going out with my boyfriend for 5 and a half months now and we are really really happy together. The problem is that his ex won't leave him alone. They had a very short relationship last December where she only met him three times, ignored ...

He said the girl beside him in the picture was his cousin, but his step sister told me it's his ex! What's going on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 470 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - i have a boyfriend and we've been almost a year. I saw his pic. and a girl that makes me confused if who is the girl beside him. He tell me it's his cousin but when i talk with his step sister. She tell me it was his xgf. i confront my boyfriend if ...

My ex has a new girlfriend - how he's ignoring me! I'm deeply hurt - what should I do?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 47 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - My ex is ignoring me! We broke up several years ago but have always remained friends, but for the past year or so, I know he's been seeing another woman. I've never met her but I hear she's beautiful and he's very much in love. The problem ...

I want to know how to make my boyfriend fall back in love with me with in a day!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 470 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - i want to know how to make my boyfriend fall back in love with me with in a day because he started being friends with this other girl and they went out about three to four times and he said its my fault because we are always fighting so please let ...

I'm fighting a battle that is long since lost. What can I do?? I love her so much, and I can't have her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 470 days ago

26 September 2007 (M) - I recently posted a question regarding my feelings after my girlfriend broke up with me, due to her going away to study at University, and didn't think she'd have time for 'us'. She is studying far away, and our realtionship was long distance in...

Does he want me, the new girl, or the rebound? How do you know when someone is genuine?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 469 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Hello, I need advice. I am still in love with my ex, and I know this, I tried to deny this but it's true. I think of him every minute of the day, and have for the past few years. We are on again off again...And He says he really loves me, but I ...

Women: When I split w/ her, she said she hated me and never loved me! What should I do? Should I try to talk to her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 470 days ago

26 September 2007 (M) - Ok well. I guess this is an update from my previous question. But I did break up with my girlfriend and it didn't go very well.. She basically says she hates me, she never loved me, she was desperate, and basically everything she says to me is ...