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Archived questions from: 19 September, 2007 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

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The ex-factor: Help and advice

Please could someone out there give me some advice whether to finish with my current boyfriend and get back with my ex or stay with him...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 477 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - Help. I'm currently in a relationship with my boyfriend and we have been together for 9 months now. Latey we are arguing quite a lot. Since we've got together his family have treated me outstanding as if I'm one of them and me and his sister have ...

I want to tell my ex how I feel before it's too late. Should I do this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 477 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - I've got to say this or I'm gonna burst, I split with my ex boyfriend over a year and a half ago and I don't think I have truly ever gotten over him. After we split I started seeing someone else and have been happy with him ever since, although I ...

He says he still loves me, but he is with someone new, and he is giving her everything I wanted from him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 477 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - I met this guy at work and immediatly liked him...a friend said he was divorced but turned out that he was just leaving a 6 years marriage (total of 10 years together). We went in a date less than a week after he "officially" left his house. I never ...

She's not in love with me, but she still keeps calling me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 477 days ago

19 September 2007 (M) - Has anyone fallen back in love with the person they fell out of love with ? My girlfriend of 3 years told me she loves me but is not in love with me so she broke up with me. When she did she said that with all of her exes she knew it was over but ...

My boyfriend keeps me a secret - I think he's ashamed of me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 477 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for 7 months, he still wants us to remain secret while he tells his parents about taking his ex out..when i told him i don't like him telling about his ex and keeping us secret, he told me that, loads of things ...

I keep thinking that we may get back together - how can I get this feeling to go away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 476 days ago

19 September 2007 (M) - My girlfriend broke up with me because she was going to University and thought we'd struggle to continue to maintain our long distance relationship (We had maintained a long distance relationship of 240 miles for the past 2 years. In that time we ...

He gets violent if I ask him not to be in contact with his ex.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 469 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - my boyfriend of 9 months and the man who i live with accepts the fact i have a son from a previous relationship and doesnt get mad when my sons imprisoned father sends letters but it infuriates me when his ex that lives 10minutes away calls him and ...

Was my wife overly promiscuous or fairly normal before we got together?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 475 days ago

19 September 2007 (M) - Was my wife overly promiscuous or fairly normal before we got together?? During High School she had sex with 3 guys. 2 of them were boyfriends and one was a friend who she had a crush on. She had sex a total of 4 times in high school. A few weeks be...

I quit my job for him and we deleted our internet profiles. I found out he has a new one that lists him as single and looking for sex!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 477 days ago

19 September 2007 (M) - Ive been with my boyfriend for two years, i worked in a pub which he wasn't happy about, as customers flirt. so i gave up the pub, and together we decided to delete our internet profiles. however i found out he had created a new profile ad...

I think my ex is "the one," but my family really likes me current guy! What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 477 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - Oh my goodness such a dilemna. Im 19 and last year went out with this lad who was 6 yrs older than me, he was gorgeous and spoiled me and was amazing in bed and we had so much fun together. But now I'm with someone else, he treats me ok and wants us...

How long with it take my ex to get over the guy who just dumped her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 475 days ago

19 September 2007 (M) - My ex left me for another man, also down in here in Kent, and he dumped her after eight months, claiming that it was too far to go and see her (3 hours away), which, just to stop going to see her like that is a lie. Anyway, how long would you say ...

Do you think my abusive ex knows everything is his fault and just can't handle his guilt?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 456 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - hi there, anyone got any advice about this? i have left my abusive partner of 20 years. yes we have split up time and time again before but this time i have spoke out and told him exactly what i think of him and told him all the nasty things he ...

My 'friend' is acting like an immature jerk about my past sexual relations - he says he's going to tell my bf about it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 477 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - I am in a bit of a muddle. I have recently got together with a friend of my ex. Myself and my ex split up years and years ago, but a couple of years ago when I was at a low ebb and after listening to him tell me all the things I wanted to hear I ...

After 2 years, he dumps me in a disgusting restaurant, and leaves like nothing ever happened between us!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 477 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - I acknowledge this is a long and possibly confusing post. I've been heart broken and think I'm losing my mind trying to rationally think about my situation! My boyfriend and i had been together for almost 2 years. Earlier this week he arranged...

How do I get back together w/ my ex? I don't want to sound desperate and scare her off!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 477 days ago

19 September 2007 (M) - I want to get back with my ex, I think she wants to as well, I'm not sure (you got to take risks in life though!). What is the best way to do this (I dont want to sound too serious and desperate so as to scare her off)?...

I'm dating a married man who cheated on me! His wife refuses to divorce him and I don't know what to do.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 474 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - What can i do now? I am a 26 year old girl, pretty and independent. My college boyfriend left me when I went abroad for my further degree. I had another boyfriend two years after I came back to the country, but i found he married, he cheated on m...

I went through his phone and saw that he still talks w/ his ex! She's seeing someone, but he didn't mention me at all!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 477 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - im 26 and iv been seeing my bf now for about a year, when we first got together he had just come out of a 3 year relationship and i had come out of an 8 year marriage.we've known each other for 8 years and when i split up with my husband i started ...

I really like my ex's friend and she likes me, too. But I think she has reservations about getting together!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 477 days ago

19 September 2007 (M) - Me and this girl have been seeing each other for a couple weeks; I've had the biggest crush on her since I've seen her. Her friend is my ex girlfriend. I really, really, really, really like this girl and she says she likes me, too, although I have a ...

He makes sure I'm completely satified when we have sex, but he never has an orgasm. Strange?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 477 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - I'm dating this guy i use to see when i was 17 years old, he was my first experience, I'm now 39, and he is 42 years old. he was in prison for the last 10 years. I ran into him 2 years ago when he was release he was in a drug release prog...

He married his ex to "shut us down," now he wants to get back to me. Crazy to consider it, am I?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 477 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - My boyfriend of a year and I got into a huge fight. He got married to his ex girlfriend 2 weeks later to "shut us down". Now (6 weeks later) he says he made a mistake and wants to get back together. Am I crazy for considering it?...