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She told me he didn't do oral but after our break up she did it with another guy. Now we're in a serious relationship and bittered by this thought.

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Question - (29 September 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 30 September 2007)
A male United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

dear cupid, i've been dealing with this female on and off for about ten or eleven years now. when we first started having sex i asked her could we have oral sex, she told me she didn't do that but after she stopped dealing with me she started having oral sex with another guy .now we are in serious relationship and she is doing it. but i felt bitter about her telling me she didn't do it but a couple of months later after me, she does it to another guy. should i feel btter?

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A male reader, eddie Canada +, writes (30 September 2007):

eddie agony auntYou shouldn't be bitter. You don't have to like it and you cold wish it had been you but it's none of your business. The timing was wrong. She doesn't owe you any apology either. Is it a jealousy thing? Does it make you angry that she sis the deed or does it only make you angry you weren't first?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2007):

There was probably a time in her life when she thought she'd give it a go. Unfortunately for you at the time, she hadn't decided she was going to try it just then.

She does it now, so where's your problem? Consider yourself lucky, not all women are as obliging!

Phil

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