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writes:I was with my ex boyfriend on and off for over a year and i fell in love with him. We split up and i tried to move on, still having feelings for him. I'm currently in a relationship with 1 of his best mates but i stil miss my ex and think about him all the time. I made my desision to be with his mate because my ex told me it was for the best but is it? Help me please.
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reader, JustAskJen +, writes (28 September 2007):
 from my perspective, going out with your love's best friend is one of the worst things to do. you are with someone you dont love or pehaps even like just to see your ex. dont you think you deserve to be happy? if you do then break all ties with your ex. its not fair on you to see him and yearn for him and not able to have him, it will do you no good. if you disagree with what i have said, then why dont you try speaking to your ex on his own, explain to him how you feel without coming across desperate, and see how he reacts. if he still feels the same then good luck and i hope you enjoy life with him, but if he doesnt then you really need to move on, you owe it to yourself to be happy.
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