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writes:Hello, this question is for Ren, or Tommy,(agony aunts) I know you are men, but you give me the most logical advice.... Thank you guys... How do I stop worrying about who he is with, and is he is happy. And how do I stop my feelings for him.... I tried but I can't..... Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2007): going through it myself and you move on and occupy your time and delete his number
been through it several times and i hate life at the moment but it gets better. to sleep at night drink lots of nyquil :)
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reader, baby duck + ♥, writes (28 September 2007):
 We women tend to ruminate and we hate it, but those thoughts sort of take on a life of their own, don't they? You can't go around it; you have to go through it. When the thought comes, answer it with something rational: Who is he with? I don't know. Is he happy? I don't know, and it does not matter. When the same question comes again, remind yourself that you've already answered it. As for the feelings, I don't believe you can stop them. However, you can do and think things that result in different feelings. Eventually, your feelings for him will surface less and less. Broken hearts are so painful but they do heal with time. Years from now, the memories of one will make you smile and the memories of another will have you asking, "What did I see in him?" Either way, it's amusing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2007): just cut him out of your life burn letters notes pics and forget that was like the only way for me
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