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writes:umm...there's been alot going on in my life latelyand its hard for me to keep track of sanitybesides still beign in love with my best friend[who claims is not gay] really liking my best friends ex. [he told me he loved me and he kissed me and i went to his job one day and we almost kinda "did it" and now that their not together he wants me but he lives too far]i had a boyfriend who i really cared about and we mutually broke up because we were also too far and he wrote this and i extremely hurted me"The greatest thing in my life; wasn't youGet the shit right booYou came and goneAnotha guy i can add ta da listHell yea I'm gunna act and speak like a bitchCuz you created this shitI am gunna say wat i want and and i only said okay to everythingTo click on youAnotha Macho; anotha Kristian; anotha CarlosBut this time I covered my shitTa make sure you couldn't get itI'm gunna have a good lifeCuz I'm finally saying good-byeTa sumthing that was a waste of timeWasn't worth fixing the first timeYou see my truu colorsBitch you ain't see shitFukk you and all you stand forI spit on you; like I do dirtYou'll never cross my mind againThese words i'm speaking cum from that heartI wish I never would have started with youYou a fucking fool kiddFukk you and your friendsTalk shit; nasty mutha fukkers.Peace kidd.I got you"and it really hurts because in spite of that there is so much more going onit's really hard for me.i feel like since i cant solve everythingi must remain emptyempty of all feelingsempty of evertthing. and im scared one day im just gonna [pop!]i haven't told anyone all this...please help me
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2007): ayyy hey...this might be long and useless but xD
I had this guy friend who would used to call me almost every single day after school and he would say stuff like "I love you" or w/e and I wasn't really sure how I felt and all but I guess I kinda felt the same and all but after like 6 months past, he started saying all these bad stuff to me and was saying how I'm ruining his life and how he only talked to me kus he was bored and all. He spreaded stuff in school and all and made all his friends hate me and I was all depressed for a while but I'm fine now.....around a year has passed and he suddenly came up and started talking to me again...he acted as if nothing happened and he says he wants to be friends again and all but he keeps txt msging me and all and I already got like 100 txt msges from him in less than a month...so I guess its a similar situation =|
I'm sure you're a great person and that you can find someone so much better so I guess you should just totally forget about him and focus with whats happening right now....you don't need to take shit like that from him =] so yuppp hope you're feeling better by now since it's been 2 months -^^-
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (29 September 2007):
 I think your life is somewhat better without the eminem wanna-bee. You might not realise that at the moment but in time you will come to understand things a little more clearly. His prose suggests 'I aint bovered!' but he obviously thought something of you to 'bover' putting the effort into writing his apparent feelings down and delivering them to you. He feels hurt and a bit mixed up and his anger is just expressed on paper. You have to come to understand that anyone in that position is deeply sad and depressed about their own life and just looking to lash out at those around them. He is clearly someone who has a big issue with relationships and social rejection. Perhaps he will come to mature with age, but ultimately you shouldn't dwell on the poem because it says more about how he is feeling right now, and not about how he really feels about you. If he didn't think you were the best thing in his life...why bother wasting effort on you by writing a poem?
As you embark on your adult life you will come to meet lots of mixed up people in this world and your job is to try to engage in a bit of self preservation by not focusing on the bad things that happen at the expense of the good things going for you and your life.
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reader, rcn +, writes (29 September 2007):
 Stay away from him. Personally attacking someone such as that, just say NO. Tell them you have too much going on, and with the sweet poem when it comes to them, you'll always have too much going on. That poem was uncalled for. They may be hurt, but writing something that demeaning, no more chances. I would even find it difficult to remains friends with someone who send a poem like that. It's like, you want me why? you're poem said different and I'll take that as your true feelings, so goodbye, and don't contact me.
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reader, brooke5426 +, writes (28 September 2007):
 first of all that dude will definitely not be winning any awards for his writing skills anytime soon. ignore him. if he sends you anything like that he is doing it for a reaction. dont give him one. just completely ignore anything like that and dont let him know it hurt you. your a bigger person than him and he'll know it if you have all the power and the dignity and completely ignore anything mean he says to you. if he really didnt care about you why would he spend time writing and sending that? he just wouldnt be interested so obviously hes a bit bitter.and your best friends ex is a bit of a no-no area, that will just add more drama and complications to your life that you dont need to stay out of that situation. you say your friend "claims" to be gay, that tells me your pretty sure he is but hes not admitting it? all you can do there is wait. if he is gay he will come out one day (as you know!) but your very young, maybe hes just not ready yet.i think you need a bit of "me time". Just be nice to yourself, be your own best friend and dont worry about other people for a while. Dont let anyone else and their dramas and problems bring you down.all the bestbrookexx
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2007): Sounds like a nice guy - why did you like him again?You have one of two optionsA: You ignore it and deal with anything else that is going on in your life because you just don't need itor B: Send it back to him, return to sender.Remember - your a good person and as far as you were concerned you had split on mutual terms, he obviously liked you more than he let on and is probably acting like this because he doesnt know how else to deal with his feelings x
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