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Archived questions from: 22 February, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

Will he ever get over her and be with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5548 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - My friend told me he likes me. I like him too but he still likes another girl and the other girl treats him like crap. I don't understand why he still likes her. I wanna date him but he said he's not ready to date anyone... not even the other girl. ...

Dreams about my girlfriend cheating one me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5548 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - Alright so I have a girlfriend, yes I am a lesbian. I've been with my girlfriend for almost 3 years. And lately I've been having dreams of her cheating on me with her ex's, when I say ex's I mean every single one that she's had. These dreams are ...

Any tips so that he lasts longer than one minute?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I had sex for the first time, and have fooled around a lot before that. He never seems to last long... At all. Is there any tips that could help him control himself so he's not done in one minute?...

Do I keep chasing or do I just leave her alone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5548 days ago

22 February 2009 (M) - Please assist me. There is this girl who is a close friend of mine, I told her I loved her and wanted her to be my gf but she said no and we still stayed on as friends. But I was always telling her that I loved her until she told me she had gotten a ...

I thought he was the one, he can't be if I keep wanting to break up with him though, can he?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5548 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - I dont know what to do, I'm going out with this boy and I really like him but we always argue and I doubt our relationship and sometimes I want to dump him but don't know if I should. I met this guy over IM and one of my friends knew him so I went ...

Help in masturbation...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - This is a little embarrassing, but I need answers! I'm 19, have NEVER masturbated before in my life but I'm not a virgin (I've only had one partner) and the guy I'm with now doesn't believe in sex before marriage. I like him a LOT and I can see ...

Since my hymen was already broken from sports, why did it hurt?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I were at my house alone today and we ended up in a play fight over the remote. Well, it resulted in sex. We got so turned on that we got physical. It was unprotected and it hurt. I was a virgin and this was my first time. I don't ...

I don't think I want to carry on, what can I say to end this relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5548 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - Well... Im thinking about breaking up with my boyfriend who has latly really got on my nerves... But the things is im really bad at breaking up a realation ship, i like dont have the confidence this probly sounds stupid but i feel really bad and i ...

I'm having mixed feelings... What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5547 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - So my guy friend asked me out the other day and on friday we hung out I was really excited to see him since it has been a year since I've seen him. I feel like when he asked me out I was just going along with it but I was pretty sure I wanted to go ...

I will feel like an idiot if I ask her out

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5548 days ago

22 February 2009 (M) - Hi On Friday last week I asked a girl to the cinema via msn. She was really hinting before. I told her mate I liked her and when I said to her I shouldn't of told her I feel like an idiot she replied that I shouldve done it. Then after that I Said "...

I'm growing up and find some things not as interesting anymore

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

22 February 2009 (M) - Hi there I really think I have changed within a period of weeks/days and want to know what I should prepare myself for. Well our school has broken up from half term and we go back tomorrow. Over the holidays I have really changed. The week before I...

How should I kiss my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5548 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - Hey, ok so my friend and i are crushing, umm friday were gonna go out, with a couple of friends, the thing is that, what if i want to kiss him or he approaches? I haven't had my first kiss. I wouldn't know what to do. people talk about all these ...

Told my bf he's have to work to see my new bra. How do you think he'll go about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5548 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - hi i teased my boyfriend and tried to sound sexy the other day by telling him when we meet tomorrow he is going to have to work to see a new bra that i have brought and he says that he likes a challange and is looking forward to it..but what things ...

Shall I just admit my feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5548 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - Well, I was given a guys email address from one of my friends and we instantly got along. I spoke to him alot and then we decided to go out for a walk together and I began to like him even more. I'm not sure what to do, I don't want to tell him...

Do I get on with my life or wait in the wings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - I was with a guy for a year and a half and one day he told me we should take a break. After a few weeks this break became a break up. I sadly kept asking him why can't we just back together and he told me it's because he still has feelings for his ...

No matter what I do I just can't seem to make him cum! Help!!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is 18 and experienced and I'm 15 and still a virgin, but we've touched and I had oral for the first time with him and our sex life seems great but he can get hard, but cum with me. I mean I can get him hard in less than 2 minutes but no ...

Need ideas on how to break up, without hurting her too much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5548 days ago

22 February 2009 (M) - I want to dump my girlfriend but i dont know how. We have been going out for a year and i have gone off her. I know it sounds really mean but i cant help how i feel. I have fallen out of love and dont fancy her anymore. I dont want to hurt ...

I really think I'm in love with him... but he has a girl...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - Hey, well I'm in LOVE with someone who has a girl. He's taken, but he never looks happy around her and I always notice him looking at me, I try to stay away and I do, but whenever I turn, his eyes are on me. When I found out that he had a girlfriend ...

How can I stop him from making me feel worthless?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for about a year and 8 months and I love him to pieces - more than anything but the problem is he does not make me happy. A few reasons are: 1) He will never admit he plays any part in any argument we have- he will al...

He accused me of cheating, I wasn't, called me after 2 months, and hung up, should I call him to get answers as to why? Need help!

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22 February 2009 (F) - There are some things I need to say to him and get my questions answered. I feel like I need to let things out and also ask him why he accused me of cheating when he had no proof and why he broke up with me.( he didn’t really say it but he ...

I need help choosing between them, advice would be appreciated?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - alright, to set it off, im bi, currently liking girls. problem is choosing between two of them. alright, heres the scenerio, basically, im torn between two ladies. when we start to look for significant others, we have certain "ideals" right? ...

Could anyone please tell me, what stage of puberty I am in?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

22 February 2009 (M) - okay i really wnat to know what stage of puberty im in right now..i dont kow i'v got got armpit hair, hair around my anus, alot of pubic hair, some hair starting to grow on my chest/stomach, i've got a bit of a mustach and is starting to grow ...

I'm 15, really like this 20 year old girl, will 5 years make a big difference??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

22 February 2009 (M) - I'm 15 living in Nottingham and I'm in a really difficult situation that I don't know how to resolve. I went to a house party the other day at my best m8s house. Before I went it was kinda common knowledge that I liked his sister (even he knew) b...

How did you get over your teacher, if you have been in my shoes?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - Hey You may remember me from this... http://www.dearcupid.org/question/fallen-for-my-math-teacher.html if not then read that and your will get up-to-speed. Anyway.. this post is just an additional cry for help really.. I really cannot...

Do guys orgasm each time they ejaculate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - mainly for the guys out there: do guys orgasm each time they cum?...

Should I tell her or am I being silly?

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22 February 2009 (M) - A few weeks ago, a girl I liked a lot, kept asking me to buy her flowers. I was still under her influence because I liked her a lot. There was a new girl I liked, but at the time nothing had happened. Even though this other girl had a boyfriend she ...

What stage of puberty am I in?

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22 February 2009 (M) - what stage of puberty am i in. Ive got pubic hair, i have hair around the anus and i just started armpit hair. I am also beginning to have hair around my chin i already had hair on my upper lip. Will my penis grow more. it is at 5 1/2 inches and ...

What's the next step?

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22 February 2009 (M) - I have just got back from spending a couple of hours with the girl I like this afternoon. Only our second one to one meeting. A bit longer than the first, which just over an hour and a quarter. This was just over two hours. I had a lovely time an...

I'm worried I might cheat, what can I do if I like this other girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

22 February 2009 (M) - hi, i have been in a relationship for about a year now, and it's had it's ups and downs but lately its been good. however i have been having feelings for another girl since last year and lately they have become very strong. i can't stop thinking ...

How do you truly get over someone who you still think is still so amazing? How will I trust someone again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - My now-ex boyfriend broke up with me yesterday, after 11 months (to the day.. 11 month anniversary) of dating each other. He said he just doesn't love me any more. I want to hate him, but I still love him. I accept his flaws, I want to tell him good ...

How does he feel about me after our date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - I went cinema with this guy. We had a good time. He sent me a text saying how great it was and we should go out again and gave some suggestions. I text back argeeing. Its been a week since, and he seems pretty different. Doesnt speak online fir...

Should I ask him out and risk hurting my best friend???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - I really fancy the same person that my best friend fancies. Well, she says she is just friends with him but I'm pretty that she feels WAY more strongly about him than that. Thing is, she knew him before I did and she was the one who actually ...

My friend's girlfriend threatens to harm herself if he leaves her, what can he do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

22 February 2009 (M) - My friend is in a bad bad situation. So im here to ask your advice that i can pass onto him because no matter how many times i tell him to come on here hes like... stubborn. lol Ill cut this down so its a long story short but i hope you understan...

How can I be accepted in this group and what can I do to make my wrists look more manly?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

22 February 2009 (M) - I have a couple of questions that I'll just pile into this so it doesn't get annoying. 1) I have small wrists (width I mean) I'm 17 and I wanna be manly, and well... this aint doing it for me what can I do to get em bigger/better size? 2) I'm ...

How can I tell my shy girlfriend that her pubic hair is turning me off sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

22 February 2009 (M) - Hey I've been with a girl 18 months now, And everything is ok. Only thing is I REALLY have a thing against pubic hair, I'm not a shallow guy or anything it's just a REAL turn off for me. Everyone has things with make them excited and turns them off ...

Obsessed with porn, how can I slow down?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - I dated a guy for two years. We had sex countless times. He then decided to cheat, so we broke up. Four and a half months later, I'm now with another guy and he doesn't believe in pre-marital sex. I totally respect that and all, but since we started ...

How to ask a guy you like out on a friend date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

22 February 2009 (M) - Hey well I'm a gay male, and I have a little dilemma.... Well I have a crush on one of my friends and I kinda wanna ask him out, as a FRIEND! My problem is, that I get kind of shy, loose, and bubbly and he ends up assuming I'm drunk.... sorry ...

How can I make our relationship fresh again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5545 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for 7 months now. im almost 20 and hes 23. we have a very loving relationship, care about each other greatly, love spending time together and can always make each other giggle. however i think im the kind of person w...

Whens the right moment to kiss?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - My ex said he didn't kiss me because it didn't feel right. I know i was shy and he was being respectful, but i want to know when does it feel right, whens the right moment etc i still haven't my first kiss and feel insecure thanks for any help x....

I am very angry at my mother, can I have your advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5548 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - Hiya, i need some advice as at the moment, i am very angry at my mum. To cut a long story short, i have been with my fiance for nearly 4 years, and we plan to marry next November in a different country and hopefully plan to live in this cou...

How can we make our first time amazing and perfect?

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22 February 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have decided that we are ready to take the next step and have sex for the first time. We are both virgins and are totally inexperienced(we've been naked together before and have played around a bit.) So any ideas on how we can ...

Could I be pregnant and when should I take a test?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - I have been taking the combined pill, but there have been days where I have taken it late or missed on. I had unprotected sex with my partner and now we are worried that there could be a possibility of me being pregnant. Unfortunately it was not ...

She's muslim and she's lesbian AND she's unhappy because of the flack she gets off her family!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - I have a girlfriend. She is so special to me, she is my everything. We have been through so much together. I love her and she loves me. There is only one problem. She is a muslim, so it is frowned upon on her religeon to be a lesbian. Most ...

Will this always hurt her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5549 days ago

22 February 2009 (M) - hiya :) well am 14 and i dont really no how to say this so here goes....... my gf of 2 and a half months is 15 and im 14, we have played around and stuff but ive never actually fingered her. i was wondering if i fingered her properly would i...

Am I pregnant? We used protection every time!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - ok, on valentines day, my boyfriend and i had sex and used protection. we did it again the day after, again used protection. and then we did it 4 days after that, but again used protection. im not on any pills or anything and i didnt take the mor...

I was told my b/f kissed someone else, he denies it, I don't know what to think!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5548 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - i've been dating my boyfriend for about 2 years now... and everything has been ok... i had some trust issues at first because oft he way he acted before we started dating...but just recently i found out from a friend that he kissed another girl at ...

Can the doctor say I'm not a virgin?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - Okay so I'm 13, I'm a virgin but my hymen ripped from being fingered and also "fist" by my boyfriend, I think it ripped because I was bleeding after he fingered me. Since I really am, still a virgin, Can my doctor say that I'm not a virgin since my ...

He fingered me..am I still a virgin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend fingered me and I think he broke my hymen. Am I still a virgin?...

How do I deal with being raped?

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22 February 2009 (F) - How do I deal with being raped by my father constantly at 13-15? Ive been in counseling but it doesnt work for me I keep having images and flashbacks no matter what. And it doesnt help that ive been molested by my brother and cousins earlier on in ...

My friend told me that we have to work hard to get back on track

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5543 days ago

22 February 2009 (M) - Hello guys me and my best friend argued not too long ago.. So anyway i argue with her cuz i left due to an argument with my GF and they had no sign of me for 2 weeks..(me and her broke up) So anyway i come back and my best friend left me tons of ...

Is it wrong to think about sex every time you see a cute guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - Is it wrong to think about sex every time you see a cute guy or just a guy u see while your out walking ect...

Did he break my hymen? Am I still a virgin?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5549 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend fingered me with three fingers, before him only one other guy had fingered me, but only with one finger, so I wasn't really stretched since I've never had sex. Anyway, he used three fingers. It hurt, and then afterwards there...

My friend and I like the same guy, should I tell her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - Hey, i need help. my friend and i like the same guy, she knows i like him and i think he likes me, but i dont know if i should tell her, and im scared that if he asks me out i wont know what to say. i dont want to hurt her or him... any suggestions....

Is my son going to be tall?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

22 February 2009 (M) - Hi, i have a child growth question for anybody who knows what they are talking about. I have a son who just turned 15 and he is around 5'7 or 5'8. I wondering if he will be fairly tall. Im only 5'9 and my wife is 4'10 but he seems tall to be our ...

Should I tell my BF to tone it down in the bedroom?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have a different relationship than most you could say. i am 16 and he is 27 but we are in love with each other and we dont see ourselves with anyone else. My boyfriend has like a fetish of spanking me and pulling on my hair when ...

My friends breasts are "leaking" - does this mean she's pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - Okay. So my friend (YES, my friend, I'm doing this for her because I want to know the answer as well) she's sexually active. Yesterday she told me that her breasts appeared to be "leaking" and she was afraid this meant she was pregnant. I did rese...

Last week he got a girlfriend, but I still think he likes me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5546 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - Hey Umm, i have a huge problem. umm theres this guy at school, i really like him, hes nice and kinda shy. well me and my friends started hanging out with him and his friends. It seems like he likes me too, but heres the thing last week he got a ...

36A breasts, how can I make them look sexier and womanly?

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22 February 2009 (F) - Hello again everyone, i have a bit of a query. okays i have 36a breasts and i was wondering about ways to make them look sexier and more womanly, just to make me feel better about myself, i always thought they were huge when i was growing up but now ...

Can going on the contraceptive pill make you fat?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - Can going on the contraceptive pill make you fat?...

Making friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

22 February 2009 (M) - I am a 15 year old boy who has problems making friends, see when i went to high school all I did was hang around one of my old friends from pre-school and to get those friends all that I really did was just followed them around until they accepted ...