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Archived questions from: 15 February, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

The clubbing scene.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - Soooo, I'm 16 and I would like to try clubbing. There is a 16 year old club close to where I live, and I'm thinking about trying it. See the thing is, I'm kinda afraid. I WANT to live life though. I want to experience. I'm afraid that the persoon ...

We could have waited until we were married but we let it happen too soon. I'll never feel pure again.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - The first time I had sex wasn't the right way. I feel bad about it. When my boyfriend and I did it for the first time I only gave in because I thought he would abandon me or cheat on me if I didn't. It was painful and I was scared, and even though ...

Did I take my jesting too far with her?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

15 February 2009 (?) - My girlfriend and I went to this pool party (I live in Australia) with some our friends. My girlfriend never let me see her breasts (because of a scar on one) and she thinks it might turn me off. Anyway we were in the pool making out until my very ...

My crush didn't wish me happy birthday or come to my party. Any ideas why not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - Hay.. I have a crush on my school mate. We're both 18 and I have always suspected that he likes me too even before this crush started. But now I'm confused because he didn't even say me happy birthday or come to the party, even when he saw everyone...

I'm very nervous to give my first handjob.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5556 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - I'm very nervous to give my first handjob. I'm worried I'm not doing it good enough, or I'm hurting him. What should I do? Any advice?? thanks!! (:...

I think my boyfriend may be cheating on me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - Hi there, I'm Kirsty, I have been seeing my boyfriend for 5 months on and off. We have our silly wee arguments and all that and recently I have been feeling left out. I am convinced that he is cheating on me, when I'm with him there are other ...

Relationship advice

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

15 February 2009 (M) - Ok this is my first post on this website but as i can tell from the posts ive looked on your all incredibly helpful and filled with rich information from life experiences so ill start at the beginning and hope someone can help me with some advice or ...

How do you say sorry to a guy friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - how do u say sorry to a guy friend who used to go with but your now friends and you dont fancy? its hard to explain...but i asked him out in yr 7 and it didnt go well...he said yes and i knew he liked this other girl and i got annoyed at him when he ...

She always makes quotes when she emails me, am I over analysing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

15 February 2009 (M) - The girl I like includes quotes when she emails me sometimes. Her latest got me thinking: "If you make it plain you like people, it's hard for them to resist liking you back." Am I over-analysing now?...

I really like him but he likes my friend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5556 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - Hey I need some help!! I have a crush on one of my good friends and I've liked him for about 1 year and a half, I really like him. And here's the thing, he likes one of my Really good friends, he tells me he likes her sometimes, and I'm not sure if ...

Do guys find nose piercings attractive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - Hey :) Was just wondering if guys found nose piercings attractive? My friend is worrying about it at the moment as she is thinking of getting it done. Thanks x...

Anyone got a song that relates to, I MISS YOUUUU!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - Okay, my unrequited love has gone on holiday for a week, It's been two days and its ACTUALLY KILLING ME. For some reason it helps me to listen to songs related to my situation. Anyone got a song that relates to, I MISS YOUUUU!!!! Not ...

What do you think? Do you think cops should be charged and tried as normal people?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - Hi, being a popular site I thought some great answers would come for this so I thought why not? With Britt Lapthornes murder being police that did it, I'm just thinking who can we trust? Nobody! It seems. It makes me wonder did Maddie Mcain get ...

Tell me how to move on with my life and forget about him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - You know the song, Hot N Cold? I and my ex-boyfriend are just like the song. We constantly break up, make up, and then break up again! We always supposedly decide to stay as friends, but then we start kissing, hugging, and then going out again....

I want a tattoo, my mom doesn't want me to get one, my dad, divorced from my mom, will even pay for it, what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid. People always say you should try to respect your parents wishes and I think growing up I did a good job of doing that. I'm now my own woman, live out in the big city in my ow flat, going to unversity to get a degree and after giving it ...

Having sex with another girl, don't want my parents to know, don't want to stop either, what do I do?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - I need you help. Im 13 and i am having sex with another girl (16). I dont know what i shall do. I cant tell my parents, but otherwise, I cant end it because im so horny and i like the sex with another girl. I am afraid my parents could find out....

I gave her a gift, she rejected it, now I don't know how to respond, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

15 February 2009 (M) - hey i gave the girl who is kind of really good mate a snow patrol ticket for her to go with me she rejected it and said it was too much n she was really sorry but i work with her weekly so i dont know how to react next time we speak.. should i bring ...

I need help with an erection problem, any suggestions from the guys?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

15 February 2009 (M) - Hey I'm 15 and the other day me and my girlfriend went to have sex for the first time. It would of been my first time ever, but I couldn't get an erection and even when it got a little hard it just went again. I'm really attracted to my gf and alw...

I am confused by my ex's messages, do you know what he wants?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5556 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - My ex instant messaged me the conversation started normal then he was like um hunn u kno like honey.n I'm like u cheated u can't call me that.n he said he was soo sorri n he misses the old days. N his away message was like how he loves sum girl n ...

How can I find out if she's really bi and if she likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5556 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - Im 15, and I think I'm in love with one of my best friends. We havnt been friends for that long, but i cant stop thinking about her. Im openly bi around my friends (only my brother knows in my family) , and she says that she is bi too, but i dont ...

I loved this girl and she left me, what do I do now, I am very unhappy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

15 February 2009 (M) - hi, i am akshay, i am alone in this world. My parents are not with me they have left me alone when i was 10 years old. Now i am 18 years old. I have no problem for money because i earn (approx Rs4000 per month). I dont know why they have left me and ...

How to be single and happy when all around you are couples?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - Over the last year or so i've changed in some ways and i'm not sure exactly how. A relationship ended over a year ago has resulted me a feeling for a need to change myself in order to become more successful with men, basically to find and keep a ...

Is this a normal size?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

15 February 2009 (M) - Hi iam almost 17 and I have a 3 inch penis I don't know what to do about it does anyone know what I should do or is that a normal size...

We were having a good time, why did he change so suddenly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - im 16 and have been falling inlove with my friend. basically last night we were holding hands and he kissed my head and we just sat together sometimes and he asked me about the time i got off with him a few weeks before.. then he was asking me if i ...

How does she feel, is she just being friendly or does she want more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

15 February 2009 (M) - This girl I know has a massive hang-up with her ex bf, he dumped her and she still isnt over it even though it was about 6 months ago. since then we've got to know each other really well and become really close friends she says alot that im the only ...

Is it any wonder I've changed after what I've been through?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - heyyy, A couple of months ago I got in to some serious trouble with social services and the police for underage sex with my bf (i felt ready to do it, he's 15 nearly 16 now) I told my friends some VERY personal infomation about it because I ne...

She has a b/f and only likes me as a friend, how can I forget her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

15 February 2009 (M) - i love a girl and she also loves me so much but just as a friend and she is even having a boyfriend. i cannot forget her because she is my friend also what shall i do to forget her ??...

My former crush who I still like wants to date me but I'm seeing another boy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5557 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - Okay, so Ive known this guy for a year now. We went out but that was a long time ago. We have become really really close and we tell eachother everything and we help eachother. He means everything to me. He is like a brother to me. Well yeah, so we ...

Should I buy him a better present next time or is he not being fair on me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - Heya, these are the presents I bought for my valentines. I though about them really carefully before I bought them and each one of them has a meaning behind it. A teddy bear (it was a erally cute valentines one and reminded me of him because ...

I want to be able to date boys but I'm scared since I was raped by my friend's uncle!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - I was raped by my friends uncle when I slept over at her house when we were 13 (about two years ago). He was visiting from out of town, and he raped me while I was in bed (my friend slept in a separate bedroom because her parents didn't want us up ...

I have clitoridean orgasms, but not during sex, what's wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - Im having A MAJOR NIGHTMARE I can orgasm with clitorial stimulation. But I cant have one during sex ! no matter how hard we try. weve tried positions and everything ! WHATS WRONG WITH ME??????? I WILL EXPLODE ! [Moderator's note: You say you ca...

My crush makes me confused, your comments please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5556 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - there's this guy i've known for about 4 months now whom i have a crush on.. here are some facts that just confuses me too much. 1. i caught him staring at me so many times. 2. he cares about my feelings. im not sure but that might be his person...

My b/f insists to have sex with me, I'm underage, should I give in?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - im 14 and i have a 18 year old online boyfriend, but every time we chat online he says that he wants to have sex with me, but i kind of want to have sex with him but im not sure if i should, so should i have sex with him or not?...

How I can get birth control without my mom finding out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - Okay so, me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 4 months and we've been moving quite fast in our relationship. I Love him to death and he loves me and this I am sure of. We talked about sex about 2 months into our relationship but didn't ...

Can I make him forget about his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5556 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - okay, the guy i have been sending messages to telling him how much i like him still loves his ex. i am talking to him on myspace and he is telling me how much he loves her and how she thinks he is talking behind her back, and etc. anyways is ther...

She moved out because she thought I was cheating, not true, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

15 February 2009 (?) - Before you judge me I have anger management problems so I get angry very easily but I am getting help for it. Anyway me and my girlfriend (of a year) had this fight the other day. She found this flirty text on my phone that my chicky friend sent me. ...

I need your opinion guys... is he playing with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - Ok,so there's this guy and he is my 'friend'. About a month ago we were talking and i had the guts to tell him i like him. He told me he likes me back but i didn't believe him..i still don't. He has a reputation of been a liar and a player. We are ...

He will only have sex after we are married, what are my options?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - I've had sex countless times before with only one guy over the course of two years. This guy is now my ex; has been for over two months now. Anyways, I've been friends-with-benefits with another guy for two days now and earlier today, he told me he ...

What is the G-spot?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

15 February 2009 (M) - what the hell??!!1 i just want to know what this g-spot is everybody's tlking about..today is the first day i've ever heard of it and they say guys have it too What is it exactly???...

Is there someone who would have an answer to my question on ovulation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - I haven't had my period since December 19, and they put me on Depo on January 26. I have been having sex recently nd I am pretty sure I had a break out bleed on the 13th of Februrary. Now I will get to my question after you have a breakout bleed, ...

I had sex with him, he had a girfriend, they broke up, but she wants him back, he 's undecided, what now for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - I messed up this time and I hate myself for it! I'm 15 years old and i have had sex before with others but this time it was different, i'm not a whore but i had sex with this guy that i dont really even know. he snuck over at like 2 in the morning ...

Valentines Day Opinionaire...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - Quick Question for Valentines Day... I have been taking a poll on peoples opinion on valentines day and I'd really appreciate any answers I can get. Is Valentines day to you a holiday to be embraced and celebrated, or is it strictly re...

How do you resist other girls when in a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

15 February 2009 (M) - How do you resist other girls, Been going out with my existing girlfriend for about 5 months now... And there is about 3-4 girls who are all over me when I see them and I keep getting closer to accepting one of those invitations. They know I have a ...