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Archived questions from: 21 February, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

How can I be more confident around girls?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

21 February 2009 (M) - I am a 15 year old boy without a relationship, I think that this is because I can't talk to girls properly, I just get nervous around them and I can feel my cheeks burn up if I think I have said something stupid to them. Can you please tell me how ...

I love the man I have been with and I made a very big mistake...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for three years now. I am 21 weeks pregnant and we are both very excited. I was wondering, we had been having unprotected sex for a while and he had been ejaculating inside me. I finally got pregnant, but why ...

Should I meet with my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5549 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - Got a bit of a dilemma. Kieran wants to meet with me. We started talking about 3 months ago having gone over a year with no contact. Now ordinarily I'd be pretty laid back about this kind of thing, but in the past 2 weeks he's broken up with h...

Why do I never pre-cum???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5549 days ago

21 February 2009 (M) - I'm an 18 year old gay male and I dont pre-cum. When I was about 14/15 I used to experiment with masturbating a lot and I used to always pre-cum as I've matured I still masturbate but I have grown out of pre-cumming. Everyone I've been in a ...

WHY does sex hurt the first few times if we're meant to reproduce?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - I'm a 13 year old girl and don't plan on having sex anytime soon but I was wondering - why does it hurt the first few times you have sex, either when you lose your virginity or when having sex with a new partner? Our bodies are pretty much created ...

Five years and still no luck!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5549 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - Hello, I am in need of major help and fast. There's this guy I've liked for over 5 years and I haven't had the guts to talk to him in person! We both go to the same high school and I'm pretty sure we're the same age. I might be one year older. ...

I feel insecure, like I'm going to lose her...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

21 February 2009 (M) - Last year I was going out with this girl who came to the UK for one year. I really liked her and eventually got to know her. We eventually went out but there was always this other guy bugging her and I always suspected something was going on. ...

Could she just be an outgoing social person, or did she want to spend time with me in particular?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

21 February 2009 (M) - Hi, I have a somewhat strange situation. I recently met a girl in one of my classes through a team mate of mine. The girl turned out to be very nice, and in the same major as me. Anyway, yesterday I got an email from her asking to meet so she could ...

She says we're just friends but we act as much much more.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

21 February 2009 (M) - Me and my best friend had always been very touchy feely and used to flirt like crazy without noticing unless it was said to us. Okay so about 3 months ago I began dating my best friend. Then about a month ago she decided to break things off as she ...

Bruises and breast cancer.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5549 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - I have heard that bruises on the breasts can cause breast cancer and I wanted to know, is a love bite [hicky] like a bruise? and if so, does getting one on my breast give me a risk of breast cancer? ...

I need help in asking a girl out.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

21 February 2009 (M) - I am 17 and I have liked this girl for a real long time... anyway I have never been able to muster the guts to do anything, I think she does know that I like her but I am not sure. Does anyone know what I should do?...

My period came but it was unusually light, could I be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend have had sex but the silly thing happened of the condom splitting. If i have came on my period the next day can i be pregnant? but also i took a pregnancy test on the 14th and one on the 17th and they were both negative. Iv came ...

Masturbation at a younger age?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - Is Masturbating at a young age 'good' for a girl?...

The shop assistant caught my attention, what now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - I was in a shop waiting to be served when this guy caught my eye, he was looking at me and smiled, i smiled back and flirted a little. He served me and seemed really nice, and interested in me i think. it may sound silly but i'd really like to see ...

Help, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5549 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - I'm currently in a extremely confusing situation... it all started when my best friend began dating this boy I liked which was very annoying because he was the first boy I liked since secretly loving, having drunken relations and trying desperatly ...

I even dropped out of uni due to my fear of meeting new people, help me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

21 February 2009 (M) - Hi, I am a seemingly normal happy 19 year old male with a loving family and a lot of friends! However I have a huge problem on my hands. My question isn't laid out very clearly and I'm literally just writing as I think so sorry for structure is...

Did I just had an orgasm?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

21 February 2009 (M) - Soooo my gf and me were having fun she was giving me a handjob and i was getting close to finishing i started shaking and when i did it looked like a hose had gone off in my pants..... after i was freezing and the light killed my eyes and it almost ...

Will my crush think I like this boy because I danced with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5549 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - I went to my formal party last night and this guy asked me to dance with him so I said ok, since I was sitting out most of the night so I was grinding with the guy and my crush was right there! he knows I like him but I dunno if he likes me back, ...

Will he still like me? Some advice? Please answer.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5549 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - so,i like this guy very much and don't want to loose him.he liked me for 1 year and 4 months.yesterday,when we finished school,i and my friend were waiting for another girl to come.as time was passing,i saw him and his best friend heading out of the ...

I don't know how to tell my casual lover that my period is late!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - i have been talkin to this guy for almost two months but we arent datin or bf or gf or anything bc we both just got out of long relationships and are scared to get close to someone else. well weve had sex a couple times and i missed a couple bc this ...

I love him even though we're 5 years apart... is it right?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - I have the most amazing boyfriend, but I'm sure you've heard that before. Anyways, I've never felt so happy before. I love him so much. Too bad my mother doesn't let me date. And the fact that he's 20 and I'm 15 becomes a problem. He promised...

Is it a one-sided relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - ive been going out with my boyfriend for a month now and so far its beeen great we could talk for hours. i went to his house yesterday and we made out for the first time and it was nice and then his mate came round whose two years older than us and ...

Does rough sex hurt the baby?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - me and my boyfrien just had crazy sex and I may be pregnant so I need to know if hard sex hurts the baby and if u don't honestly know don't reply...

I fell in love with one of my best friends but she also has a boyfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

21 February 2009 (M) - Hey Guys, I'm in a really depressing situation at the moment. About 2 years ago, I met a girl at work who pretty much made these last 2 years the best of my life. When I first met her, I was automatically attracted to her. She was the girl I h...

Should I ask my mom for masturbating tips?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - Hi. I am 14 and have been secretly masturbating any chance I get with a back massager. I want to talk to my mom about it and see if there's something that might feel better in me or on my clit but I am afraid she will get mad at me. I am a Christian ...

Why can't I make up my mind whether I want to be with him or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - I'm thinking of breaking up with my boyfriend but i don't know. Help, tell me wether you think i should or not ? Well... I don't really enjoy his kisses, are relationship is suppose to be a secret for a bit while i sort other things out but he keeps...

Do I actually have a chance this time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5549 days ago

21 February 2009 (M) - A couple of years ago i fell in love with this girl- i fell so deep it was unreal. When i went to her house we would always have fun and have a laugh but we used to kiss a lot... and she knew how i felt but she would not go out with me. Recently i ...

I'm curious about this after watching it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

21 February 2009 (M) - Hey well i'm a gay male, and i watch a lot of porn where guys eat the cum. So i was just wondering, what's it like? I mean how is it? uz lately i've been thinking abot it after i jack-off, then i think about it for too long, and end up not eat...

Its killing me having all of these feelings!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

21 February 2009 (M) - I'm 16, and theres this girl i've known for about a year and really really really like her. We are good friends and she considers me to be one of her best friends, but she drives me crazy. Like a couple of weeks ago we were at a party and both got ...

How long should we wait before taking the next step?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5549 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - Hey, I know this seems silly but I've been best friends with this guy for 13 years and we've started going out now. We have trust and respect for each other, we're not afraid to tell each other what we want and we have a good balance between ...

I think there is something between us..how do I tell her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - Well, Im 15, bi and recently came out to my friends. One of my friends I am really close to (lets call her X), and I really fancy her and months ago she said she was bi, but then told our other friend that she was not. Then, a few minutes after I ...

Got drunk, unprotected sex, now afraid of pregnancy!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - Umm ok... on the seventh of this month I got drunk and made a mistake with a guy. I had sex with him and we didn't use protection. Well... I was supposed to start my period like the next day after that or so but I didn't. I sort of have an irregular ...

I need sex! How can I help myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - I am 13 and so horny that i am fingering my self.I need sex but it bad. how can I help myself?????????????...

Will you have orgasm as fast during sex as when masturbating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - While having sex, will I orgasm as quickly as when I masturbate?? I'm not thinking about having sex, but I'm just wondering....

My boyfriend wants sex, don't think I am ready, what to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - i am 13 and my boyfriend keeps wanting me to have sex with him......i think in want to too but am still only 13, you only live once!...

He wants to travel, I don't want him to, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - Hi, I NEED HELP... I've been with my boyfriends for a while now, and I love him to death there's absolutely no one I could imagine spending my life with. He's my best friend, and we share these same feelings. My boyfriend and I have experienced s...

Am I normal? Or abnormal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5548 days ago

21 February 2009 (M) - Am I normal? I'm 15 and me and my girlfriend who I love really much don't have sex because were not ready for sex( but I do finger her sometimes) Anyways My penis is 6 inch and I don't masturbate a lot.. But for me it takes about 20s...

I feel I'm invisible because guys don't notice me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5550 days ago

21 February 2009 (?) - i am the type of person who would only be considered a friend or an acquaintance. i sometimes feel that i'm invisible because guys hardly ever notice me. i also have a hard time feeling comfortable around guys because i have always had trust issues ...

My GF wants to go to the prom, but I don't... what's a good alternative?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

21 February 2009 (M) - i am a senior dating a sophmore. prom is coming up and she seems interested in going but i really don't want to. i've been to a few dances and just didn't like it at all. so i would rather offer up an alternative. how do you think she'll take it and ...

I really like this boy who randomly touches my boobs

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - There's a boy I am really attracted to. We get off at the same bus stop and all. The other day, we were just sitting on the bus when he touched my boob. Randomly, out of nowhere, just stuck his hand out and touched my boob. I was caught off guard, ...

My breasts are different sizes

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - Hey, I'm 16 and my breast's are different sizes. I know that its perfectly normal because no woman has two equally sized breasts, But i wear a C-cup bra, and one is too big for it, and one is too small. So im guessing, one is B and one is D - t...

Will I lose weight on this diet?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

21 February 2009 (?) - I have started a new diet where I eat nothing the except food supplements 'echinacea' and exercise 3 hours a day on my treadmill at 6.5 km per hour. I have been on it for two days now and feel fine though I was just wondering whether this would lose ...

I have spots on my penis!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

21 February 2009 (M) - Hello, I'm 15, I'm a virgin and I have these spots on my penis where they were only at the bottom but now all over. They are the same colour as my normal skin. I don't think they are genital warts. They aren't huge. But I haven't had sex yet so I ...

I don't want these feelings, I want to be straight!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - Well, here's the thing. I know I am really attracted to guys. When I see a really hot guy, I automatically have a picture of a perfect penis in my head and if I'm near a bed, I'll hop into it and start to masturbate immediately. But lately, whenever ...

He acts like I'm nothing, like I'm not there.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - What do I tell my boyfriend? He treats me like I'm his trophy. He ignores me all the time and would rather have me at his side when he wants to compare me with his friends girlfriends. I used to like him but I don't any more. He acts like I'm not ...

We want to pleasure each other without actual sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

21 February 2009 (M) - hye guys.. im 14 and me and my girlfriend have been together for a very long time...and we really like each other, but we've decided not to have sex yet..(yes we're smart).. sso anyways im always turned on when im around her, but i fight the ...