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Archived questions from: 8 February, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

Is my voice breaking?

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8 February 2009 (M) - Hello I'm 15 years of age and whenever I speak my voice cuts out, is this a sign of my voice breaking? I have hairs down below and I have enough armpit hair for people to notice but saying that I have little else hair so is this a sign of my voice ...

She's not sure if she wants to be in a relationship right now...

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8 February 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm 18 so me and my partner have been jokingly playing around about sex, although I don't know if she's kidding or serious, I have never actually had sex before, but I know I do actually love her and she does as well the only thing is right now ...

How do I help my friend get some bottle?

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8 February 2009 (F) - My friend's fallen in love with a sixth former (we're both in year 9) but he's leaving next year and she's really depressed! I don't know how to convince her to do something about it. Either tell him or forget him... basically I just want some ...

Do you think this shy guy will make a move?

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8 February 2009 (F) - I'm going after a shy guy. At first when I heard he liked me I was like no but now I hope he does eventually ask me out. I like him but if he doesn't ask me then I might move on to others who want me. My birthdays coming up so I hope he does ...

My secret!

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8 February 2009 (M) - Okay this ones a complicated one. Basically a year and a half ago I started teaching my best friend's girlfriend the drums. We both had feelings for each other (you know when you can just tell they like you and vis versa)and eventually we ended up...

What can you give a teacher for V-day?

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8 February 2009 (F) - what can you give a teacher for valentines? will some lovehearts be seen as inapropriate? i wna give somthing viki x ...

Can I ask a girl out through facebook?

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8 February 2009 (M) - Its kinda pole question for girls. Can i am very shy boy of 19. I love someone who is 15.she is my first love. Can i ask her out through facebook? I mean would girls find it weird to be asked out through fb mail? Um too shy to face her or call ...

Set up on a date and don't want to go!

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8 February 2009 (F) - My friend is having people round next weekend but it's going to be her, her boyfriend, another couple, this guy and me. I'm not into this guy at all and I feel like it's really cringey and 'set-up' so I don't want to go, but she knew when she asked ...

Is he ever going to like me?

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8 February 2009 (F) - Me and my best friend have been friends for a while. i started liking him and i told him i did. he said he doesnt see me as a girlfriend but as a best friend nothing more.so two days ago i told him i dont like him anymore even though im still in ...

Sexual orientation and parent problems

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8 February 2009 (M) - Hello Agony Aunt, I have recently came out to some of my friends as a homosexual and I am worried that when I am older my parents will look down on me for this. Have you any advice on coming out to them before I am at least 18 - 21? I am nearly 15...

Can guys and girls be just friends?

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8 February 2009 (F) - Dear cupid, i was just wondering, can girls and guys just be friends??? i kind of have this dude friend who's best friend went out with me. his friends won't accuse us as dating or something because of the way i broke up with his best friend, ...

18 year old b/f sent me naked photos..is it illegal?

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8 February 2009 (F) - my boyfriend sent me pictures of him naked on my email, and we both r aware of r realtionship being illegal, cuz he is 18, but is it illegal for me to have his naked pictures. cuz i no its illegal if i send him pictures, thats child porn, but he i...

Facebook random contact I want to talk to him but unsure what to say?

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8 February 2009 (F) - I've got random contacts on facebook that i'm not really friends with and only vaguely know, there's a guy that i find quite attractive who's one of these, i would like to start talking to this guy but don't really know what to say, any ideas? ...

How do I tell my friend its a "girl's weekend" and boys are not welcome?

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8 February 2009 (F) - My best friend is constantly with her boyfriend,they've been going out for just inder two years and never seem to be apart, obviously i'm happy for them but it's so annoying on the weekends she wont ever do anything with the girls unless he's ...

I can't get hard like I used to!

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8 February 2009 (M) - Ok so this is kinda long am sorry but its really a frustrating thing..it hurts me inside my ego is like dead ok so here it goes..ill tell u everything coz i really need ya peoples help and encouragment in a way it was on november when i tr...

I don't want to fail but I don't have the willpower to study

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8 February 2009 (F) - Im 15 and leavin school this year in a few months, my exams start in may and i starting to panic im not at all prepared and i feel like i may fail. i cant revise because i cant physically sit down and read over things or do activities because i just ...

Any advice on making 1st time sex special?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

8 February 2009 (F) - Okay so I have some questions about sex--And I do NOT want anything about "Oh your too young for sex" and stuff like that. Please. That's not what I'm asking for here. Anyway, My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 4 months now and I reall...

Will all boys make me feel like this?

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8 February 2009 (F) - Hi! These a boy who i went out with and then we split coz he wanted sex and i didnt also it turns out he was seeing some other girl just for sex! . Im only 14 and hes 16 so i wasnt ready. But hes asked since then first time i said yes but it didn ...

Depression over girlfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5545 days ago

8 February 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I were going out for about 4 months when all of the sudden she said she didn't feel the same about me anymore. Everything was going good too; we would say I love you and tell each other how cute we were etc., but then she stopped ...

How can I feel happier about myself and how to approach a girl?

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8 February 2009 (M) - im a total outcast in school i only talk to people who i knew for a long time and boys thats it! i thought about suicide once but im way past that now. i feel that if i talk to a girl they would reject me, throw a insult, or a long moment of ...

Should I tell my friend's brother that I like him?

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8 February 2009 (F) - i have a best friend who has a brother and the brother is my cousin's friend and i really like him but i don't know how to tell him i like him because he is my best friend bother and my cousin's friend and also he heard a lot of bad things about me...

What do you do when the hymen breaks during first time sex?

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8 February 2009 (F) - what do you do if your hymen breaks during sex for the first time, do you keep going or what??????????...

Help please, my ex is starting to scare me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

8 February 2009 (F) - Ok, so im a 14 year old freshman in high school, my ex boyfriend, who is 17 and a junior, and with whom I went out for a little over 2 months. He thought our relationship was great but it wasnt all i ever did was bend over backwards to keep him ...

If he wants me as he says then why does he not take me out?

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8 February 2009 (F) - dear cupid, i have a problem. im 18 years old and in college. i have alot of fun and love my life. i have known robert for three years now. for the first two years we were very good friends and very close. we talked for hours a week and hung out ...

I was jealous again and we broke up, what do you think? Help me get over her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5556 days ago

8 February 2009 (M) - hi well im 15 and i just broke up with my girlfriend and i didnt want to but i had to and i'll tell you why. last night me and her were talking and she asked me if it bothers me if she talks to this guy and i said yes it does because they talk all ...

What can I buy my girlfriend for V-Day with this amount?

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8 February 2009 (M) - I'm 15 and so is my girlfriend, I have no ideas about what to get her for valentines day, I have about £50, I want her to really like it, please help. Thanks ...

Tips to make masturbation more fun and enjoyable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

8 February 2009 (F) - hey. im 16 and i get really horny i mean big time every day almost. is this bad? when i get horny i finger myself i love doin this but its gettin a bit borin. i dont have vibrator and i dont think i could buy one but does anyone no any ways i could...

Doesn't "natural" feel better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

8 February 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are ready for sex.We've talked about condoms but I'm wondering if intercourse is more pleasurable if you can feel a boy's real penis and semen rather than just rubber?...

He says he isn't used to having a girlfriend?

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8 February 2009 (F) - My Boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 4 months..(feb 18th) anyway he seems so distant.. we rarely talk (a couple texts a day or every other day) and since we've been dating we've seen eachother maybe 4 times..but before we started dat...

He loved giving me pleasure but now he ignores me, any ideas?

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8 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have now been together for a year and half. He was a virgin whenever we first got together. At first, he loved giving me oral sex and always tried to last and please me first. Lately, he never wants to do anything sexual unless I ...

How do I either get her to be my friend or just stop worrying about her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

8 February 2009 (M) - I have a problem with an ex of mine. For four years me and an ex have been the best friends(that isn't to say that our relationship wasn't rocky, in fact it was extrememly rocky. But we were still best friends.) A little while ago we were talking ...

My boyfriend is a loser, I try to help him but I don't know if I can stand it any longer, will he change?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

8 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. But, most of the time I feel as if he's lieing to me. He just doesn't seem to appreciate anything I do. I've tried to talk to him about alot of the things that I'm about to mention. ...

Why did he go from being so sweet that night to giving me this kind of response?

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8 February 2009 (F) - I've been best friends with this guy since we were six and we're now eighteen. Just before December he told me that he has liked me since we were 13 and what surpirsed me the most is that I realised that I liked him too, so now we're going out. ...

I need a release after all my problems but would this be a correct way to have it?

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8 February 2009 (M) - Well, i recently came out of my first relationship. My girlfriend didnt want any intimacy at all, no hus or kisses, and as im nice and all i thought i wont pressure her at all, and she'd eventually get over her problem. I didnt want sex at all thou...

Should I tell my mother her boyfriend will eventually hurt her? What do I do about his attraction towards me?

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8 February 2009 (F) - Hi, anyone been in this pedicament? My mom's boyfriend is 40yrs, good looking and a HUGE womaniser. They've been "going out" for about three months now. Problem is, my mom thinks they will eventually move in together, get married,etc. but...

Does he really love me? Why does he act this why? Please explain this to me...

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8 February 2009 (F) - I am engaged to a great man, we'll call him "Joey" (Common names, yay!). We've been together for many, many years and are planning our wedding a couple years from now (College). Some nights, if I forget to call him when I come home an hour late (I ...

I froze up! Do you think he'll ask me out again?

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8 February 2009 (F) - So im 13 years old and i just went on my first date ever with a boy my age. I like him alot and have talked to him before but always with other people we knew around. This was the first instance where we were alone (sort of we went to a public ...

My best friends b/f called and asked if I'd get together with him!

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8 February 2009 (F) - The boyfriend of my best friend called me last night and confided that he's attracted to me and asked if there was a chance that he and I could get together...I've only met him in person once and talked to him once on the phone (with my friend's ...

How is a girl supposed to talk to guys?

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8 February 2009 (F) - I have no idea what to talk to guys about! I mean, there's only so much that you can talk about that's school-related and i know nothing about sports and don't care to. luckily, the guy i'm into right now isn't into that stuff (he likes art)... but ...

My feelings for my best friend are ruining our friendship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

8 February 2009 (F) - http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-think-i-mistook-loving-her-for-just.html This situation is somewhat similar to mine, except in my situation, I am in fact the girl who has fallen for the other, if that makes sense. When I read the reply, I nea...

How do I tell my b/f I'm going out with his brother?

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8 February 2009 (F) - what should i do??? im going out with this guy and somebody else asked me out..that person that asked me out was the only person i really liked..so i decided to go out with him..and brake up with my other boyfriend.. but i just relaized that the...