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Archived questions from: 24 February, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

How can I kiss him and make it look real?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - I have never kissed a guy and I am 13. My school is preforming a play and I got a lead and my character and another character have to kiss. I wasn't nervous at all but when I found out who I was supposed to do the kiss with I wasn't nervous b...

I think I am impatient... How can I stop being like this?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5545 days ago

24 February 2009 (M) - I am being driven ever so slightly made by the fact that the girl I like doesn't respond to me messages to her often for several days. Am I just being impatient? We don't know each other that well and have only met a handful of times. I know...

How do I get over the father of my daughter?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5546 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend of 3 years broke up 2 months ago, we noticed it wasn't working out. We also have an 8 month old daughter together. I thought it would be easy to get over him but it's not. It hurts me to even think about letting him go and I ...

I keep having dreams that my boyfriend is cheating on me...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - I always have dreams that my boyfriend is cheating on me. I do not see any signs that he is and I don't think he is but what do you think this means... about once or twice a month... I have dreams that he is with someone else....

I was just wondering if this is an anorexic diet???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

24 February 2009 (?) - heyx I was just wondering if this is an anorexic diet: eating 200 calories one day, 400 the next, 600 the next, 800 the next, and the next day fast completely, and then repeat the cycle all ova again on this day system. Also, everyday doing 10...

I'm sooo totally paranoid!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - Hi. I've been with my boyfriend for two months but we we're "getting together" several months before we did. He's a lovely guy and totally different to all the idiots i've been out with! I know people say that a lot and get let down but I truly be...

Too paranoid? Or should I be concerned?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - well im on the contraceptive injection , Depo-Provera. I got the shot last thursday, first day of my period. I had unprotected sex the monday after. the injection has a 99.7% protection rate, but if i took a pregnancy test now would i be abe to ...

I'm a virgin, he's not

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - Ok so there's this guy I really like, he's 19 and I'm 18. I'm a virgin and I just found out that he's not, but he only did it once when he was a senior and with a girlfriend he had had for over a year. He's a really great and sweet guy and when I ...

Crying during sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

24 February 2009 (M) - Last weekend, my gf and i tried anal sex for the first time. The initial penetration hurt her a lot, but we took it really slow and i was able to enter her fully. The pain seemed to go away and i was able to start to thrust gently. But right in ...

How can I make a guy I briefly dated move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - Ok let me break this down. 1) Casually dated this guy 3 months ago. Was very brief. He was not only older than me by 6 years; it was pretty evident he has always had a stern and mature approach to relationships in the sense that he wants to sett...

Shall I tell him? Or leave it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5546 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - ok this is one big long hard story and i need help!!! I spend a lot of time with my cousin sarah and i practically have been living with her. She has been on/off with this lad phil for 5 years. He has a younger borther jack who i really like and ...

I have a mental blockage about sex since that night, how can I be less nervous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

24 February 2009 (M) - I was going to have sex with my girlfriend of only 2 weeks, when I was 14, almost 15. I know this was a stupid thing to do, and I should never have even considered it, but I felt ready. It was my one chance, and I didn't want to muck it up. I was ...

Intimacy issue

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5546 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - I have an intimacy issue and dont know hoe to solve it. Im 17 and never done anything with a guy before and when ever someone makes a move i reject it automatically even if i like them :S It is really starting to get to me and i just dont know what ...

Is this legal? Or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - I'm 17 and my state's age of consent is 18. He's 19 and his state's age of consent is 16. We're not having actual intercourse yet (he lives about an hour away) and probably won't by the time I turn 18, which is in 2 months. But we hav...

I was fine during foreplay but lost it during sex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

Is this healthy in a relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5546 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together for some time, however, recently i have noticed that when i get down, even if its just a little, he gets annoyed with me, as if im being purposely moody with him, when, in truth, im just feeling a little down. ...

First time anal or any sex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5545 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - How bad will first time anal sex hurt? Also, what position is best the first time? This will be my first time for nething so I want it to be perfect!...

How do you know if he really likes you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - i was wondering...how do you know when a guy is really in love with you?how do you know when a guy is coming after a girl,just to show to his guy friends that he is cool enough to make her his girl friend?how can you know if he really likes you or ...

I know its going to happen but I'm so scared of losing this person!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - i'm only 13 but i have a really close friend who is 17 and will be leaving school soon. she's the best thing that ever happened to me and has completely changed my life. she's the person i can always trust, and she always helps me when i'm have ...

My mom and I don't get along..how can I emancipate from her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - I don't know what to do!!!! I'm done with all of it an I want out and I want out now!!! I f*** up my life every chance i get but I'm not acting out for attention. I'm acting out to get away. I love my mother to death but for as long as i can ...

Online dating for 6 months, I will see him in person soon but I'm scared of losing him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - mkkay here goes ive been dating this guy over the internet. we been dating for 6 months now! he is going to come see me soon well so he says! but anyway i love him so much i beleive i have totally fallen for him but im a little scared, he is my ...

I'm insecure about my saggy clit, help?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - mkkay well can you help me! i wanted ta know is it normal for your clit to be saggy? and is it a turn off? i didnt let my ex touch me down there because i as so insecure about it! i want to sex my boy friend but im afraid he will be freaked out by ...

We broke up due to long distance, will I ever get over her?

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24 February 2009 (F) - Since i was young i have only dated guys, but jus over a year ago i met a girl and shortly after fell in love with her. at first i wasn't too interested because i was sure i was straight, but after geting to know her, i can clearly say i fell head ...

Is this normal? Does this mean that first time sex will hurt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - Sorry if this is gross but I am very worried. I am a virgin but have done gym and horseriding my entire life and used tampons for several years. I do not think I have a hymen as I can't see it or feel it and I have fingered myself. However ...

I kissed another girl, but I didn't plan to cheat, help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

24 February 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 2 and half years now. Last week when she was away I went to the cinema with a friend of mine who is female as it was her birthday. After the film while waiting for her mum is was a bit cold so we hugged ...

He's older and knows I have a boyfriend, how can I show him I'm not interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - I really need help with this, please take this seriously. Background: I have taken on a new job, as the guy who was doing it has decided he needs to cut back on it (it's a part time thing, and he has a proper full time job as well), but basic...

For those with experience in relationships... how can I make this last?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - Hey well cutting it short. This guy asked me out. He's 19 and lives in london. I'm 18 live in Wolverhampton. He will be my first boyfriend - I have "seen" guys before but they were always short things because they wasn't really worth it. But he is ...

Why are so many men afraid of commitment?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - Why do men (and women too I guess) fear settling down with one person?...

Another game to him? Or could he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5546 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - i really like this guy he lives in milwakee and i live in az so we dont really see each other which is hard cuz i have alot of feelings for him.i met him at a wedding which was last year and a few weeks ago we finally talked over facebook and he was ...

Crush on my cousin

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

24 February 2009 (M) - i am in love with my cousin. I am 17 years old and she is just going to be 17 in couple of months. We chat with each other quite often. see movies together. hold hands but still she only treats me as a cousin. I don't think she likes me in that way. ...

How would I find out her name?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

24 February 2009 (M) - From when i was about 8 i loved this girl, and same with her but she moved away and i forgot her name LOL anyways i can contact her? and what should i say...

She made me promise not to tell anyone but now everyone knows!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

24 February 2009 (?) - Kay my girlfriend recently told me her dad is a drunk. Before she told me she wouldnt let me or her friends come over her house because she never knew when her dad was sober or not. She made me promise not to tell anyone because she was afraid of ...

She won't let me touch her below the waist in ANY way

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

24 February 2009 (M) - Hey, me and my 15 year old girlfriend (were sexually active but don't have intercourse) is very very self concious about her period. She won't let me touch her in anyway below her waist, any ideas to help her ease up? She's very clean..always, and ...

I really want this girl but I can't see anything coming of it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

24 February 2009 (M) - I never realized how much power a single girl can hold over me. I fell very hard for a girl back in 2004, and to date, I cannot get her out of my mind. She's everything a guy would want: absolute natural beauty, intellect, shy personality. What's ...

I really like him but he never shows his feelings toward me in front of others!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5547 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - Well there is this guy,and he has a girlfriend + he is my best friend's brother. Blah,he is just really confusing. Like,he tells me he loves me and whatnot,and We have had..um,"action" in the past. But when we are around people,he just hides it...

Me first or him first?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - Should I make the first move or should my bf?...

My girlfriend's best friend...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

24 February 2009 (M) - All right so here's the deal. I've been with my girlfriend for 3 years, and I truly love her. But for some reason lately I've been starting to enjoy the company of her best friend. Which she is not even close to being as hot as my girlfriend. Her ...

My girlfriend is so flirtatious! How can I calm her down a bit?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

24 February 2009 (M) - Hey, I'm an 19 year old guy and i have a problem with my girlfriend. She is 19 too and I've found that in the last 6 months she has been becoming much more flirtatious with other men, particularly older men. She gets a lot of attention when w...